Ashley Cain

[nickyfran75]

You’d do anything for your kids. But as others have said the life he portrays on Instagram - the cars, clothes, business ventures are all a sham. His car collection is meant to be close to a million pound.

Glad they’ll be able to get the treatment for their little girl.

 

[OrcaRed]

makes you wonder if it makes us feel like this, how they must feel as her parents, it actually makes me tear up, I just wish there was some magic cure and she could have a life, it’s so so unfair

 

[MamaD]

I think that she’s at the end of life care. When my FIL was at this stage, it was literally just time spent around his bed making sure he was pain free and just talking and cuddling him. I hope that she gets to Singapore and that the treatment works but I think that’s just wishful thinking on my behalf. As a mum of two girls, my heart absolutely breaks for them. They’ve had such an awful time of what should have been a lovely new baby bubble. Wishing them all peace and comfort x

 

[MunHun]

That beautiful little girl would melt your heart even if it was made of stone. Life is so so cruel sometimes and so unfair. It really makes you question things. I will never understand why so many innocent babies and children must suffer so much pain in their little lives. I too have been frantically checking for updates, I do remember the last time they were quiet for a couple of days they then posted the video of her ringing the bell so I’m praying so hard. Please be ok little one you are an inspiration

 

[Flossy2019]

Wouldn't wish what these guys are going through on on my worst enemy, god, it's heartbreaking..we've recently lost a beautiful boy aged 16 (not my child but a friend's son) from leukemia and it's absolutely gut wrenching.
That baby has battled so hard and she's a strong little one, but I just feel she is going through so much suffering right now and sadly , I wonder how much more her little body can cope with .. so so sad ..I pray they get a break soon .

I know her body must be exhausted. A video he put on before was heart breaking she was just lying there whimpering a bit. It’s absolutely killing me seeing their stories. I pray she gets better. Cancer is horrible but because she’s so small and precious it makes it worse Basically all her life has been pain and suffering. How much more can she take

 

[Mcjlxi]

I have to say I thought he was a knob on ex on the beach, but since his daughter was born and diagnosed with leukaemia he seems to have grown up so much. His daughter is adorable and I really hope her treatment is successful, I saw that their go fund me has reached its target already

I actually liked him on ex on the beach (I may be the only one right enough), you can see how much he adores that sweet little girl. The go fund me is doing incredibly well so fingers crossed all goes to plan

 

[Flossy2019]

Disgusted. Just because someone shows some cars once doesn’t mean he’s got millions.. do you think if he could afford it he would do it in a heart beat. A little girl is terrifyingly I’ll that’s what matters here nothing else

 

[geeforthetea]

I think the perception he has a millionaires lifestyle just shows that instagram really is a show, it's a front, most of these people showing that lifestyle don't even have a enough for a deposit for a house or have wracked up so much debt to portray living a millionaires lifestyle on little to no income.
He's also been caring for his daughter for months which limits how much he can work, along with everyone else who is self employed during the pandemic right now. I donated but did so because I genuinely believe they are just a normal family, on the back of his reality stints he's maybe managed to get a few freebie holidays and a loan of some nice cars to drive about in but that does not equal having money in the bank. If other people believe otherwise then that is their decision to donate or not. They do not owe me an explanation, I did it for the reasons above, I believe they needed the financial help quickly. They will also still have a mortgage/rent/bills and general day to day living expenses to pay for that they will now need to do while not working full time, so any money of their own that they have I'd imagine is going on these things. They have raised awareness and money to save her life, they have done it publicly but it's obvious that right now whatever they are going through is too painful for them to share, I do not expect an update from this poor family right now just because I donated a few quid. I totally understand everyone on here who is voicing their concern privately, but the comment above that a family member should update everyone....that's not right, no matter how public her journey has been no one owes anyone anything especially when a child is fighting for her life.

 

[ShondyLife]

I admire how he said that any extra money that is donated will be given to other families who are in the same situation as him. He is very fortunate to have the platform that he has.

Every time I see Azalia's face I feel so sad, she really is a strong and beautiful little girl.

 

[Millieminion]

That is a truly sick thing to say and clearly someone who has never had a sick child. If we feel this way and it’s not even out child I can only imagine the hell they are going through. I think some people think because you are on tv you have millions in the bank which is ridiculous. Yes he had expensive cars but they will have been leased or hired and it looks like he no longer has them anyway. His house is quite modest and living in a hotel for the last 6 months and not been able to work plus all other expenses will not come cheap.

Obviously if you need money for an urgent operation for your child you will swallow your pride and ask for help. Anyone who thinks he would use the money for himself is sick.

Plus we all know social media is fake af, him posing with cars doesn't mean he owns them,same as the clothes and jewelry,they never own everything they show..if they had the money themselves then the last place they would go to would be social media for help but they did and I for one am very happy for my few pounds to be spent as they wish.

 

[glamapuss]

I don’t really believe anyone can resent a child receiving life saving treatment. There are some different views on here yes but I think anyone can see that the man clearly loves his daughter.

It is upsetting to see any child sick or deprived of what it needs to survive. I get upset and pissed off when I hear that so many children go to school without being given breakfast yet I’m sure their parents don’t go without cigs,booze drugs etc... cereal and milk is so cheap.

I personally feel that it’s rather a strange concept with this type of insta person asking for money. As looking this lavish Instagram lifestyle with all the things the average person can’t afford I do wonder where all the money is at when it comes to something important.

Someone who spends £600 on Givenchy hoodies £500 on designer trainers, £300 on T-shirt’s to match, like wtf that’s someone’s monthly wage on three items and They both are flexing some luxury items Rolex and Cartier.

There are countless threads on tattle about these insta people and we have all commented/given opinions on how they portray their online life/style/earnings that is why we are here

insta people should really stop showing off already - if it’s left to the kind hearted general public to help them when they actually really need it.

 

[Mcjlxi]

I won’t ever tell anyone how to spend their money, no one is obligated to give anyone anything in this life, I do think if you are going to give to charities, less fortune, etc then it should always be done privately - I’ve never agreed with the whole “but it’s raising awareness” you can raise awareness without showing off. You can donate on go fund me privately so I 100% agree with above comments about it being an ego boost and promotional purposes which is sad really just shows you what sort of world we live in.
I also wish these Instagrammers would live in their tax bracket all the fancy cars and designer clothes mean nothing when your child needs urgent medical attention that you can’t afford.

 

[What's your point]

So bloody heart breaking. We lost my young cousin many years ago to AML and back then the treatment options were nowhere near what they are now so really hoping this beautiful little girl pulls through and makes it. Sadly I think the odds are cruelly stacked against her but there is always hope and I really hope she fights all the way.

Ashley was a bit of a prat on EOTB but he was paid to be and I have no idea what the guy is like in real life but I will say he obviously is fighting for his daughter every step of the way and who can blame him for using his platform to try and get the treatment his baby so desperately needs.

However this goes for them I hope there is more awareness of stem cell donations and other treatments which cancer sufferers so desperately need.

If you havnt already please register with DKMS you never know you could save someone's life one day and how amazing would that be.

 

[MunHun]

Couldn't agree more, the feeling of entitlement some people have, and I don't mean people on here just voicing concern, but others who think the family owe us an update. Regardless of how public her journey has been, right now it's private and just because you donated a couple of quid does not mean you get to be part of every bit of their lives.

It just saddens me to think that people will put a negative spin on anything and for what reason? This beautiful innocent baby deserves to live as does every sick baby and child in the world. If I could help save them all I would and I wouldn’t question it as I believe in the power of good.

 

[ExiledManc]

My son is disabled and has a rare disease we’ve had to goto the US twice this year for surgery. It’s too much being on your own in hospital with your baby ill. Parents should not have to do this on their own. Prayers that they are all ok

 

[LGalb]

I’ve been checking Instagram an unhealthy amount these past few days but I’m also dreading to see any bad news Its so weird how you can be a stranger but so deeply affected by someone’s story, I keep finding myself crying for this little girl. I pray for positive news

 

[Penny for them]

As time goes on I fear the update, I don't want to see one, my heart, those amazing honourable strong parents, the love they have shown and shared , I am holding them in my thoughts hourly

 

[Mcjlxi]

I agree, no one forced anyone to donate, but they are in the public eye, with famous people clambering over themselves to donate (or being slagged off on here for not donating). These 'celebs' could donate to another cause as well/instead.

ETA; I think my 'issue' is that it feels like there's some self promotion going on.

Donations should be private as the news articles are now about which celebs have donated instead of the reason why they are donating!! They all have huge platforms and it would be nice to see them use it to support go fund me pages etc but we both know they don’t do anything without wanting recognition or paid for it

 

[chocdip]

Bless them, no updates today I’m praying for nothing but good news for Azaylia. Saffiya is one amazing mommy I feel and see her heart breaking more and more on every story Azaylia is looking more sick every story it’s truly heartbreaking to see

 

[Duchesspink]

I dont think we should speculate on here and maybe use the thread for positive vibes for them all until we see an update.
I imagine they are just exhausted and using all of their energy looking after Azaylia