Ashley Cain #2

[Olgivy]

Whoever said they think Ash and Saf have split up I am beginning to think the same either that or they’ve had an argument about her asking people to spam his dm about her coming on the last leg of the ride.

She just said on her live “ we don’t need to kiss and cuddle on video, we can keep all that smancy stuff off cam” and there is me thinking, but you had no problem documenting your child dying on camera though? Bizarre.

 

[Olgivy]

I find Ashley insufferable. Self absorbed-gym freak-turned cult messiah. There, I said it. Glad I found this thread so I could finally get it out. He is cold, and unsympathetic towards Saf. It’s all about him, his cycling, what he wants. I don’t know how Saf copes with him. Scroll down his feed, and what do you see? Posing, mirror shots, beast bullshit and testosterone on steroids. It’s still there now, he has just put that energy into “something else” where he can be adored and get all the glory. The only person I feel sorry for is Saf. She hasn’t been allowed to grieve. Why couldn’t she have taken at least 12 months to grieve her baby, and then start the foundation afterwards. No. It’s about Ashley, and his needs. I wish I could cuddle the woman and tell her to get rid of the selfish twat.

 

[Allmyownopinion]

I really hope Saf or Ash never read here or hear about this thread! Some of the comments about a grieving couple

I hope he does actually! Grieving doesn’t excuse treating his partner with utter contempt & emotional cruelty when she’s in unbearable pain! So might open his eyes a bit to what he’s doing & he can show the same care & compassion to her that he does to his adoring fans!

 

[Book]

I listened to the podcast. They said their relationship was put on hold when Azaylia was in hospital, they couldn’t be in there together. There was no phone signal etc so it must have had a huge impact on them. Getting that back will be hard. He also said he goes into survival mode which is what he’s doing now.

But he somehow still found time to follow porn stars and models etc. Sick baby or not that’s just plain vile and disrespectful!

 

[gigilouxx]

I'm so so sorry for anyone who has had to deal with child loss. It's a fear that swarms me on a daily basis and I cannot imagine what Safiyya and Ashley are going through. I just wish he'd look at her and see how broken she is, and tell her that it's okay to be sad, it's okay not to exercise

 

[Basicbasic]

What a totally bizarre spectacle. I thought filming the death of their baby minute by minute was weird enough but this aftermath is one of the weirdest things I've ever seen. Ashley has become addicted to the attention and the accolade. You've got £1.6m sat in an account. Instead you're spending thousands to bike across the UK, probably cancelling out any donations by the cost of the van/ hotels etc. Then the constant begging for people to be at the finish like. Exercise is obviously his coping mechanism, but this seems to be all about his ego.

There are a million things they could be doing now that can help families today. Talk about the poor care and facilities for childhood cancer sufferers, the lack of support, poor funding, little govt funding, barely any research, families needing financial support today, hospitals needing equipment. But none of that background work will make ash front right and centre.

As for people selling merch with dead children on, it's sickening and totally crossing the line. Would it be acceptable to sell memorabilia of living kids? If the answer is no then why is it acceptable for dead children?

 

[Basicbasic]

You can be a grieving broken parent and also a total attention seeking narc. That is VERY evident on Insta at the moment. This bike ride is 100% for Ashley, nothing to do with saf, A or the foundation. It's some form of coping mechanism for him, but let's be clear it's also about placing him front middle and centre. Always.

 

[Ups27]

I'm not being funny but (and I know this is horrible and a little girl died and I have fully sympathy for saf as she is clearly breaking inside and struggling ) but ash is thinking that was one hell of a good pr stunt having a baby to die on this.

That is so harsh

 

[gigilouxx]

this one got followed around the time he followed fearne cotton, so within the last few months.
im sure it's what every grieving mother wants to see from her partner.

 

[bumblebees19]

Looking at his most recent follows you have his couple of media endorsed follows with the podcast and ITV and then it’s straight to following a load of girls.

 

[Ekathrina]

It’s not petty. I hate balloon releases - they are pointless and damaging to wildlife and the environment.

 

[noseynopinions]

I'm honestly so confused on what this preaching has to do with the charity. I wouldn't be donating to "fight my demons", I'd be donating for awareness and helping these children. It's like he thinks he's the next messiah with all this motivational speaking.

 

[noseynopinions]

It's all about Ashley.

"Everyone be prepared to give me a massive hug"... what about your partner who is suffering just as much if not more than you.

He's making this tragedy all about him and its making me sick.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Ashley’s living for all these turn outs isn’t he releasing today’s finish early as he thinks It’s going to be a big one! His crossing a line from confident to cocky whilst poor saf will probably spend time with her brother today do a bike ride she doesn’t really want to do then whilst his greeting his public she will be on Instagram broken

 

[queenpoppy27]

Im in full support of what they’re doing but I do not support the beggy behaviour. Especially after this last year and a half, and for people in that sector having to stop work altogether as no one was getting massages etc. They’ve probably lost out on thousands and they’re expecting free massages? No thanks!

 

[wri_xo]

literally cycled straight past her, didn’t even look in her direction. He’s a cunt.

 

[GobShyte64]

Fancy telling your so-called girlfriend, the mother of your child that she can't come on the bike ride in support of the foundation that you both share... I actually cannot stand Ashley Cain now. I've never come across anyone so self centred (well apart from TNM)... Even his stories and his posts is all "look at me, look what iv got, look how fit i am, look at my muscles/tatts, listen to my motivational speech that has nothing to do with Azaylia". Like Saf isnt depressed enough, anxiety through the roof, cant even do a food shop without crying & Ash is telling her she cant come on the last leg of the bike ride... I'm fuming & I don't even know him! lol

 

[chocdip]

I think he's keen to be a gatekeeper of A and her death. He can't share that with saf even though as a, mum her grief is double his (that's just my opinion, she's carried her for 9 months it's a different bond). He has to be the public face of the grief, he's suffering the most, he's doing the most, he's on the biggest journey, he needs the attention the accolade the cheering, the podcasts, the foundation...... also, from the £1m plus they raised the hospital should've been given more than £20k. They probably spent more than that at her funeral. Be generous and gracious, you've over a million quid sat there that could be making a monumental to families right now.

I’m sorry if many do not agree but 20k out of all that money plus they are out raising funds daily is an insult

 

[SunshineRae]

On that live this afternoon someone said “Ashley is lucky to have you” and Saf said “ahhh thank you. Sometimes men need to be told that.”
She also said she really wanted to take part in the cycling even just for 20 miles but she said the issue is that “the guys take off so quickly and I can’t keep up.” She then repeated herself and looked really sad and said “I just don’t think they have the patience for me.” I was torn between feeling so sorry for her and being pissed off because she hinted about wanting a massage about 8 times, in the bits I caught, but that last bit, made me let her off the begging. I’ll fucking go and give her a massage after that.

 

[stun_zeed]

I don’t get a good feeling from him at all. The fact is he cannot split up with Saf, at least in public, because it would harm his image which he seems to care about a lot.