Hi folks. As my title says, I am asexual and never really dated anyone nor was I interested. I am very much the free spirit, and equally recently lost my mum so not in the space for wanting anything more than a friend or maybe companion to do things together we both enjoy. My only experiences were a long distance for a few months, and he played only my mental health to vulnerability to make me feel the one in the wrong/needy, plus another from a guy that gave me bad vibes immediately and knew from the start to avoid them despite him trying for a few months (plus I could read his lies a mile off).
I met up with a friend from social media last weekend for a walk and cuppa. All went fine. My initial warning sign was him saying he's not close to his family, and they live in another part of the UK. I also couldn't find an answer out to how old he actually is - as originally thought he was younger, but something he said suggested older than me. I also feel he knows me better than I do him, which only dawns on me as I write this.
Since we've met up we have Whatsapp each other each night, he's the one that messages me, not the other way round. I don't feel the need to be in constant contact with him, as not like that with anyone bar a very close maternal friend. We have said on meeting up again, but part of me is unsure. We have said on walks again as that's what I enjoy and we both love the outdoors to nature as both work in these areas. Now I am getting messages of wanting to hear my voice, and keeps pushing to meet up.
It's sending huge alarm bells to me. I do not know what to say or do. Thanks.
I met up with a friend from social media last weekend for a walk and cuppa. All went fine. My initial warning sign was him saying he's not close to his family, and they live in another part of the UK. I also couldn't find an answer out to how old he actually is - as originally thought he was younger, but something he said suggested older than me. I also feel he knows me better than I do him, which only dawns on me as I write this.
Since we've met up we have Whatsapp each other each night, he's the one that messages me, not the other way round. I don't feel the need to be in constant contact with him, as not like that with anyone bar a very close maternal friend. We have said on meeting up again, but part of me is unsure. We have said on walks again as that's what I enjoy and we both love the outdoors to nature as both work in these areas. Now I am getting messages of wanting to hear my voice, and keeps pushing to meet up.
It's sending huge alarm bells to me. I do not know what to say or do. Thanks.