God some of you girls really have a hard time deciphering a simple message.
I didn’t say JUST date him just because he has money. That is the literal definition of a gold digger.
But if the guy is young, handsome, smart, successful, loving, and treats you like a queen then yes I would pick that.
The exact same way a guy would choose a pretty girl over a ugly one
A gold digger is someone who is in a relationship with a rich person inorder to get money or expensive things from them... I understand this concept...
Being treated like a queen is being treated with exceptional love and care and isn't just about money.. A man that truly loves you will go above and beyond for you weather they're broke or not... Money definitely helps but when it becomes a determining factor of weather you can be with a person or not, that's when it becomes suspicious and questionable...
Yes a shallow man will pick a beautiful girl over an ugly one solely because of looks the same way a girl might choose a successful man because of money.. but both scenarios are wrong! despite them being a sad reality, one can't justify the other or even make it seem okay... It's a case of two wrongs that are just wrong...
@factualtea was right... Majority of these girls are gold diggers it's not the same scenario like you gave at all and are absolutely not mistaken for dating rich.. on the contrary, they seek out these men to fund their lifestyle and even the next one has to be able to maintain her kept lifestyle it's a cycle that easily helps you identify golddiggers... It's not about having options it's about for them, dating a broke guy is not even an option to begin with... Again there's nothing wrong with dating a wealthy man if you both love each other but if his money is the leading reason why you pick him and contributes to the reasons why you "love" him then something is wrong...