Anna Mathur

[Pomegranate]

I thought her boys were older - eldest born in 2016 you say? She always talks about F and barely mentions them. Wasn’t she talking about homeschooling last spring...but if her eldest was born in 2016 he wouldn’t have even been in reception last school year?

It’s always al about Flooreeencee! I hate when parents very clearly pour all attention to one child. Especially as it is a girl as it sounds like Anna has some issues with men. It’s terrible how obvious she makes it!

 

[NellieMo]

In stories today “ had to be home 5 mins ago to help with pick up from school” help who?surely you are doing the pick up Anna as taryn back to the office? And what’s all that walking and talking to a therapist all the tiney?? Surely Anna you don’t need a therapist as you are such a mental health expert

The nanny will be picking them up. How the other half live

 

[Italy2]

I mean 2020 as opposed to 2021!

Meanwhile - Hyacinth Bouquets (Bucket’s) comedic character was based on
the notion of a compensatory narcissist. In other words, someone who is driven by a relentless and resentful need to be the envy of others. They create a public image of superiority, status, and competence, driving their children towards achievement, never being happy with their husband’s efforts to prop them up.

But in Anna’s case, she has taken it to another level. As she wants to confuse us by pretending she hasn’t really got it all under control, that she doesn’t really want to be superior. Because she is real, and relatable.

I think on this thread, we have established that Anna is focussed on trying to one-up on everyone else and be seen by others to have-it-all. Most people on here can see she has to compensate for a deep seated inferiority - by trying to prove her superiority.

But why does Anna behave like this? Possibly because she has a deep feeling of being defective, inferior, or invalid in important respects; or that she could be exposed for the inadequate person that she is. She therefore wants to gain the admiration and recognition of others. Her sense of esteem is dependent primarily on the reactions of others rather than on her own natural confidence. There is therefore an overemphasis on status, appearance, social acceptance, money, or achievement -- as means of gaining approval, admiration, or attention.

Completely agree with the above. I think you are completely right. She is also deeply in love with herself. She records herself everyday. Even today she recorded herself with the right angle, makeup and lightning being fed by Florence and pretending not to look at the camera then you can see her checking herself out from the side eye. It's really creepy.

I also think that her inferiority stems from her emotionally negligent relationship with her parents. I feel that she is very insecure because she didn't get attention from her parents as a child. She is desperately gagging for attention constantly. Her relationship with her dad is not very good and that has probably aided her self esteem issues.

She is a prick though because she has a good husband, house and kids but is as ungrateful as she can be. Constant meltdowns, tantrums and whinging.

She wants constant adoration and love. Watch her replies to the comments on her posts. She acts as if she is a hero and saving the mankind. Her job is to make people feel good about themselves not make herself feel and look good to others.

Is she a middle child??

 

[Linkylu]

it’s like the inside of her head - jumbly and convoluted - makes me anxious looking at it.

 

[Italy2]

She was out with Florence again today. And no Anna I don't have parking fears because I pay for my parking and manage my time efficiently. It's called basic adulting or even some kids can manage their time better. So much for a high functioning personality!

 

[Basicbasic]

Book sales being poor??

 

[Italy2]

Yes she’s the last person I’d want to take advice from on how to handle my emotions. It’s almost as if she’s embarrassed by how visually pleasing her life is: she’s attractive, wealthy, nice house, cute kids so she’s trying to make up for it somehow by telling everyone how awful she feels all the time. But it doesn’t make sense when she is selling products on how to improve your mental health. If she had no qualifications and was just an insta big sister type figure she’d still be annoying but the approach would make more sense.

Also, as a woman with professional qualifications and expertise, selling yourself via advertising your own shortcomings all the time doesn’t feel very empowered and it’s not setting a great example.

Yess completely agree with this! Couldn't have put it better myself. Imagine going to university and training for years to qualify in a profession only to embarrass yourself later on Instagram so you can sell your services.

Also so dramatic Anna! Don't know how you cope with your dramatic life! Got any tips for us??

 

[Slip slip knit]

I got chatting to a Nanny at the park yesterday and as well as looking after the kids she cleans and does all the laundry! She wasn’t complaining we were just chatting, she said she finishes at about 6.30/7 then runs home! I can’t imagine doing that all day and then going for a run

 

[Lht30]

Yet again another drama... Whatever happened to practicing gratitude??

Wouldn’t surprise me if her kids have been on half term since Wednesday.

 

[Thecatthatgotthesourcream]

She thinks every mundane boring think she does is amazing ! Im on sensory overload - look at me , I have a migraine look at me , I forgot the kids school stuff look at me , I’m so unique and dipsy and incredible! The instafame Has totally gone to her head , no one cares love ! Stick to just doing the psycho babble stop mixing it with just utter boring shit ! Total narcasist! Who does she think she is !

 

[Pomegranate]

She is anything but a perfectionist the amount of spelling mistakes she makes, the perfectionists I know would be checking and rechecking

She appears as someone who is scatty. In her head as well in the outside world. She was presenting herself as this perfectionist / high functioning persona but I actually think she really isn’t. Maybe that’s the person she’d like to be. More you watch Anna more you get the sense she isn’t sure who she is herself.

 

[Italy2]

Who took the picture Anna? You run up for a shower so you can take selfies on self timer for an Instagram post? You are right you are constantly obsessed with Instagram! Who in their right frame of mind would think in a bath how can I make my next Instagram post more dramatic? Oops I meant how can I help others!!

 

[Butthatsnoneofmybusiness]

Apparently someone has added this menace to another WhatsApp group... How does she make people feel so special about them? Must be a hidden talent that radiates warmth as a psychotherapist to other people. Just fucking leave the group moron if you are so bothered?

I absolutely hate her moaning face. Awful woman.

 

[NellieMo]

She has a VERY high need to show off her material possessions. Everything is just so. Partly because this appeals to her own personality (and need for admiration) but also because it makes her more money. Many of her followers don’t realise they are being tricked - unconsciously - into believing that if they follow her advice / give her money they can have her lifestyle. She is selling a lifestyle far more than a mental health solution.

I wonder if she feels any conflict with what she is doing? If she does, she may well derail at some point (and especially if her family disapprove - although I am not sure they really do). Because of the lurvely money money money.

Her husband is not that senior (yet) and still quite young. So she is accelerating their joint earning potential and lifestyle. Which would be fair enough - women should be able to do exactly what men do, including having amazing careers and earning a lot of money - but she is achieving this goal by ripping off the less fortunate.

And they still go back for more and more!

He must have a pretty good job as their house is worth over a million pounds.

 

[Italy2]

Why is she always flapping about burning pancakes when she has a nanny to cook breakfast for the kids

Good content about messy mum losing it all?

Can she stop waving her hands about and messing up her hair during stories too.

Messy face and hair supports her persona of a messy mum?

 

[Italy2]

Oh god the car key story - can't stand her!!! She is very irritating

Does she have a nanny?? I have 3 kids similar age but I do not have all the time alone she does!

Yes she is called Ella who helps out with school pick up, drop off, Florence etc

 

[Italy2]

I didn't know she had a cleaner. What's with the messy clothes everywhere these days? I know cleaners only clean mostly but some also do laundry/ironing etc

 

[Linkylu]

She’s got all the Insta-huns sharing her “free” course

Fuck off Anna! Maybe one day you can give it a rest and not moan about your husband on Instagram?? How would you feel if he kept moaning about you on social media?

the world’s most disorganised and scatty couple NOT!

 

[Kema]

I used to enjoy watching her content but now realise she’s so unrelatable and privileged
Mentions Tarun off for a week next week, obvs can’t do their holiday now so “ basically reliving lockdown “
But then goes on to say going away for the night with husband, tagging in hotel ( so is it a gift/ad Anna )

 

[Icantbelievemyeyes]

Anna scammer of the nation. Should be stripped of her accreditation . Preying on vulnerable new mums , the most deceitful of the instahuns, with a hidden nanny and cleaner she is still a moaner , but claims to have a high functioning persona. A therapist with no emapthy everything is about me me me

Cashing in on the vunerable