Anna Bey - School of Affluence

[Buf728]

The cynic in me makes me believe that those screenshots are part of some plan to devalue and dismiss all of the stuff that has been said about her as fake news. We already know her minions are infiltrating sites to try and take people down or disrupt a thread, it seems weird that people got sent only a selection of photos and then haven’t heard anything from that person since. It’s so easy to fake messages these days too.

On one hand I don’t want it to be true because truly awful things were said, but on the other if they are, this is serious shit and she needs to be cancelled. If they can be verified as her, it may be what is finally needed for people to see her true colours all along.

 

[laurensanchez]

It's not even her past, it's her present. She is still trashy, it's just now she is doing all the superficial exterior marketing things to make herself look affluent while not actually achieving anything. She only became able to afford nice things in 2018 after she sold her course to naive victims!

No property, no car, no fiancee or husband. Designer clothes that she rents which in any case will lose their value. She's going to have to auction off these things in a year or so.

Her time in London escorting was up to 2018. Before that was the Ibiza and Malta episodes. She has always been trashy. When she was in Sweden unlike a normal teenager she was too lazy to take advantage and go to school. Some of these students in 3rd world countries would kill to have her opportunities, living in a society where she could have studied and got a career, her mother is a lawyer for God's sake.

Every action she has taken is to stop the truth from coming out. She is completely reactionary. She lets gossip on the internet dictate her next move. Wonder what we can get her to do next?

 

[vikka]

Her Instagram stories have been so tacky lately. The gratuitous displays of wealth, self absorbed filming of herself, showing everywhere she goes to eat/walk/sleep, even showing prices on a menu It's all very new money and frankly rather tone deaf in these times. A truly elegant woman might show herself enjoying her vacation, but on a more modest and personal level, and certainly not feeling the need to prove oneself or flaunt their spending to such a degree.

Reading this thread and especially since she's on holiday, I also thought a bit about her and thought too she is so "new money" it's actually hilarious, because she tries so much to be like old money.

The cabana at Eden Rock is absolutely great and I'd take that any day over the pool. Also, who goes to the sea side to then spend the day at the pool? Sea water is also very healthy and any bumfck village has a pool. I don't pay thousands on a holiday to have the same experience I can have literally anywhere.

In her ridiculous attempts at being "feminine", "elegant" and "part of the society"/"upper class" she forgets that (disregarding exceptions, which always exist everywhere) upper class women don't fck up their faces with plastic, don't follow trends, they do muck about in the countryside and get dirty, they hunt, they ride horses, they run after sheep and pigs, they don't flash labels, they don't flash their money, they don't rely on their men, they work (even if it's glorified work as "columnist" for Tatler), they don't talk about or show prices of restaurants, and so on and so forth.

Some of these activities are often perceived as "masculine" and let's not forget that many "masculine"/"feminine" concepts are invented bs.

"Feminine" high heels were worn first by men and the women who adopted them were considered "masculine" (I wish those devices of torture had never been invented!) and hunting is seen as "masculine", yet in all of history men and women hunted.
Perfumes were all unisex until marketing changed that ca. 100 years ago, same with the colours pink and blue.

Her idea seems to partly be rather "glamour" than "wealth", eg lying by the pool is typical for glossy magazines.

If she thinks the cabana is anything remotely akin to camping she needs her head examined and I say that as someone who's never been camping and am positive never will be (just not my thing!).

I agree, she can be very tacky. Very "new money", very "Hollywood glamorous" (in the worst sense, more Kardashian than Audrey Hepburn).

As every con artist seems to read their threads, so does Anna:
Anna, before charging vulnerable and/or gold digging women a small fortune, why don't you educate yourself first on the "upper class" and then sell some better knowledge?

The only valuable thing she's ever said is that women should invest in education.
Yet, if I am not mistaken, she has no higher education herself, nothing beyond sixth form/high school, but still great to rely the message to invest in education.

 

[leilaer]

He is not married and old. He is 11 years older than her. He is bisexual. Never been marrier or engaged before. He had plenty of arrangements with London escorts but they just used him for free trips some gifts etc. You know how London escorts are. They usually make good money and know how to use a man. Anna is broke ugly old and failed in everything in life. He was her last chance to have at least middle class life. If not him she would be in Stockholm working in office or beeing a waitress.
sorry for mistakes but English is my 3rd language ;(
Anna doesnt know anything about finessing or keeping a man. Her relationships were always like few months artangements when guys gave her few k than dump her cause she is Vapid, lazy, brainless non academic and not so intelligent...

 

[overthinkingit]

anna really needs to learn how to reconcile her desired "brand" with the reality that she is not nearly as Polished As she would like us to believe she is. level up or come back down to eaRth, darling. perhaps this is the no true sCotsman fallacy, but truly elegant women certainly have a lot more suBstancE, tact, and RefinemenT. an apaRtment in genevA doesN't make you an "elite woman", character Does.

 

[fendina]

I think I get her shtick now...she was basically an escort in London for many years, couldn't get a rich man to wife her up or sponsor her for the long haul during that time. Now that she's older and her fake face is collapsing, she's turned to scamming women on the internet who don't know better. She never owned anything like Hermes or Cartier until she started selling her course so ironically, these women are sponsoring her lifestyle more than most men ever have.

that’s the reason why when she would do these videos about elegant luxury bags elegant ladies should own for exemple she would NEVER show one of them to the camera even if she keeps repeating things like « i have two of them and i love them! » etc. Usually women who do these kind of videos show the bags to the camera for the viewers to have an idea about how it looks in real life but Anna just keeps inserting images frim the internet.

 

[Buf728]

Hmm read the latest on GG and they actually got the info of those racist messages from reading here, and also believe it’s fake...I thought they were meant to originally be from there? Something smells fishy, I would probably err on not believing those tbh.

No offense to newbies, but if a well known member had posted them I might be more willing to believe it, but for now, I’m just suspicious

 

[Its_Me]

This is probably an example of an Eastern European sugar babe in her 20ties that he would want but cant. This woman is with some old, overweight businessman but lives her life on his yacht and his knightsbridge mansion https://instagram.com/juliadybowska?igshid=prcegl8jcw98

I don’t personally find her attractive she’s underweight and over enhanced with heavily edited photos.

 

[laurensanchez]

So where does she lives exactly?
I have read in Pink Pill facebook group that she rents flat in Geneva and that she copied her course content from Kazarin.

I don't know about this group, or who wrote this. But I can confirm she blocked many of us real jetset women when she realized probably that we could expose her for a fraud, and that she had learned all she could from us and was going to sell it to the masses.

She created a group called Inner Circle Jetsetbabes on Facebook. We had a tight community in there. She realized that once she started giving interviews that the main FB group became too large. She even asked us what we thought was the tipping point in terms of numbers. Somehow (I took a break from FB and that group so not sure how) the group started becoming nasty. Women were contacting each other's boyfriends(!) to spill what they wrote. And now here we are.

On another note it tickles me when Anna writes questions to herself on her lives and pretends they are from followers.

The question of note "I am ashamed of my past, what do I do"?

What a coincidence this question should appear when Aija's tea is being spilled. Her response was to not be ashamed. LOL. Let's see how she attempts to spin the airing of all her dirty laundry.

When you step on people on your way up the ladder, best believe they will be there when you come tumbling down, dear elegant lady.

 

[Birdseed2]

Anna Bey Scam of affluence?

This.

three different whites...

STUDENTS READING THIS PLEASE TAKE NOTE
Flat white + off white + synthetic white = fail

Should this someone be teaching dressing color theory... ??? No. But if yes then no need to charge so high.

 

[Silly Sausage]

Just a dear elegant lady who no longer smokes and says don’t smoke with her cigarettes

 

[leilaer]

Hi Girls! I’ve been a reader since a while as I find all these Anna shenanigans quite entertaining...
I’ve been reading her Jetsetbabe blog years ago, so she’s on my radar since a while...I found her blog originally as a beauty/fashion blog...as she mainly posted photos of jetsetbabes and their style, diet, makeup, etc. like this other site called DaiquiriGirl. Even back then it was obvious to me that she has Russian origins... Plus she mainly posted Russian escorts & her English was very basic (lots of grammar and spelling mistakes, minimal vocab, etc.). Somehow she romanticised this jetsetbabe life...but whoever had any brains knew she was talking about escorts, she even admitted it herself a few times. She seemed like a young girl envious of these ‘perfect lives’. I mean who wouldn’t love to travel around, stay at luxurious places and wear luxury designer goods. But let’s face it, that’s a naive fantasy and real life is that these girls probably work harder than anyone for their perfect bodies, to always please their SDs, have no opinion, suffer through unimaginable sexual acts and be humiliated all the time...most of them live off cigarettes & drugs no to be hungry.
Anna however always aspired to have that life...I mean, if you come from nothing it must be very attractive & your only way out of poverty...some girls try to save up & quit that life after a while. Based on her blogging I imagined her to be a plain jane who sits at home and dreams about this life...she mentioned how she tried a special diet, never worked out, but will try now...do a fast, try to solve her hair issue, etc....and then one day she has decided to quit that blog and show her face on YouTube!
I was very surprised, I thought she finally had managed to get a mid-level sponsor (as it was obvious from her blogging posts that she was escorting too...) somehow in London after 10 years and probably feels confident enough to brag - as if she had finally managed to get her dream life. I was curious and waiting for the bragging (like these other escorts do on IG).
Then I was disappointed...she was that plain jane, not even pretty, bad lip fillers, average classic russian look...everything I thought she was; but kind of worst... on top of that obviously she didn’t in fact managed to get the dream life even a little bit. She was parading her Zara looks as if she was wearing head-to-toe designer...and she had 1 YSL bag and a pair of Loubs. I mean...as an upper middle class girl in Europe you have these & more by the time you attend Uni. Which of course she never did as she was a pole dancer in Ibiza in her early twenties. I can imagine how many guys she tried to jump on & be more than a 1 night stand. We know by now that she has failed as she was chubby, low class & not particularly pretty or feminine...so she got stuck with that DJ...
So I realized I was right. She believed she was finally successful.
I appreciate her wanting to level up, but she doesn’t seem to understand what that means.
She thinks that she can fake it ‘till make it buy trying to dress ‘elegant’ (which just shows how old she is), getting fake hair (which looks very fake to me), trying to do minimal makeup to show her natural beauty - she’s anything but a natural beauty ; she would be better off with more makeup - going to hotels all the time as if she’s an escort still, posing for photos & acting as if she’s some heiress from her fave TV show. It’s a disaster and a joke.
I was unimpressed...but I was still curious what she’s trying to achieve with YT and her public profile. She was and is still quite delusional. Still, somehow she managed to fool & trick girls like her to buy her course for a few hundred bucks...but this 1000 dollar course is outrageous.
She thought that she gets some summer finishing school diploma and that will justify the price...and now acts like an educated lady lol.
She should take an English course & learn how to speak and write first...
As her ‘dream life’ didn’t work out...she thought how smart she is and will scam everyone...else why would she do this? She’s making a joke out of herself and her alleged partner. Who I’m sure is just as lower class and social climber as she is.
I’m sure that she’s not engaged, doesn’t live in a nice and big apartment, her Ikea closet is a joke, I had better one as a kid. Her holidays are basic & the dancing on the table reminds all of us that she’s a pole dancer from Ibiza. She can’t really seem to level up. I’m sure she has spent most of her money from her earnings...I just wonder what her long-term plan is...she can’t do this for more than a few years. She won’t be able to provide new content that she can sell for so much money...as she has no experience or education.
I remember I joined her FB group at the very beginning to see what’s in there...it wasn’t interesting at all. So I posted about a few summer places which me and my friends & many affluent people visited. By that I mean lowkey places (not escort destinations) - but you still saw 5-10 Ferraris & Lambos + 20-30 super yachts a day. She had no idea what I was talking about, and kept asking me in the comments to specify and give her more addresses & places. I needed no more confirmation that she was a desperate social climber & escort who only used that FB group to get more info for herself.
I never saw her course...but I’m sure it’s a mix of common sense (as her YT videos) and snippets of info from more experienced people. She’s a complete fraud. She has kept this parade on for a few years now of being in ‘high-society’ & being affluent...lol...I’m afraid she has started believing it herself as well.
On another note I also checked out this girl Juliya Dybowskova. She had made it big time! Her partner is old & fat but is a billionaire and showers her in luxury...did you girls see her ring?? That’s a giant rock & I think is real. She is way too skinny, had a lot of work done but I think she looks good...I mean more of a jetsetbabe than Anna...she seems happy & content, chilling with her SDs kids and friends. She gets to invite her Mom & brother ever year on the yacht & to London. They live a proper life.

The best comment ever!!! 100% truth except Julia Dybowska( you spell it like this). Julia is Polish and everyone in Poland knows she was is and always will be an escort. She managed to do well in poland. She has nice flat in Warsaw and brand new BMW. Robert is her biggest win in life but before him she was set for life.

 

[SaltyCaramelTart]

Did i reveal this yet?

It's actually so dangerous to do this as well. I was out with my friend in the City last year at a very corporate bar frequented by bankers and financiers like my friend. My friend went to the toilet, a waiter brought me some water, I drank it and I woke up the next day remembering nothing, having been sick but I had no memory of it and unable to feel my legs even though I could walk. Undoubtedly one of the scariest experiences of my life and I'm so glad my friend came back from the toilet when she did. This was just after-work drinks with a friend in a nice place

 

[FashCandyxx]

The fact that she wanted to convice us that men like grandma cloths
Even she said that her boyefriebd hates her grandma shoes in a video of elegant shoes.
I bet he doesen't like any of her cloths.

Bold of you to assume she wears her "granny" clothes around him

Fuck it. I could teach women how to get into the rich inner circle or just become an arm candy for the wealthy. In fact imma lay some tips right here right now.

1. Look beautiful. Atleast presentable. In a graceful manner. Nothing too provocative. Nothing too frumpy or conservative either.
2. Have one or more talents. No one wants to date a dud.
3. Go to good school/college. Not only do you work on yourself but you may meet well to do guys there.
4. Work. You can find well to do people at work too. Until then save that coin.
5. Do NOT ever wear fakes. Everyone knows when it is a fake.
6. You don't have to have a classic style. Just have your personal style. Nothing vulgar or garish.
7. You don't have to be the most elegant but not boring either. Have a personality. Maybe read a book or two.
8. Have self esteem. Always invest in yourself instead of running after a man. A woman who is someone is better than a woman who is nothing.
9. Be cordial with his parents, friends, etc. You can be friendly but not too friendly or on their bad sides.
10. Do not lose yourself. You can find other men. Never debase yourself. Ever.

 

[Crazy_chick]

 

[VeraCanova]

I've heard some awful stories concerning uber-rich Middle Eastern men and Instagram "models". I mean, who has a seemingly unlimited amount of money, travels everywhere without any breaks, has tons of plastic surgery, and seems to get everything luxury? Their entire diet consists of eating out at the hottest places, and they jump from hotel to hotel with seemingly no home base. It's unlikely that they'd get that much money just from their "influencer" status. Hotels in high-end areas are quite pricy plus adding up everything-- constant trips, expensive surgeries, etc. you have to wonder.
For Anna, this is the seemingly perfect "jetsetbabe" life that she's trying to copy.

Anna doesn't seem that wealthy to be involved with the 'elite' people.. and I think she should be grateful for not being as 'top status' as she'd like. As shady as she can be many times.. I do have a lot of sympathy for her and hope nothing bad happens to her. Did anyone see an article where she was explaining how she woke up in an unknown place and there was this violent guy? Something along those lines, basically a scary experience while she was traveling.

Honestly, there's nothing wrong with the level she's at now and she seems to have created a decent business especially with her newer $1,000 course. At the end of the day, many women did gladly pay for it and she didn't force them to or anything, so I can't knock down her chosen "hustle" strategy. She somehow convinced women to pay that much for slideshows and videos so congratulations to her lol. There's a 2018 Cosmopolitan article, not sure if it was already mentioned but here's a quote from Miss Anna herself:

“The easiest way to achieve an elite lifestyle is through a man,” shrugs Anna. “I don’t think people understand how common transactional sex is – not everybody does it, of course, there are other ways in, but it’s kind of the norm in that world,” she says casually.

If this is what the oh-so-amazing elite lifestyle is like, then I want no part of it. Why put in that much effort: being an escort/sugar baby, botching up your face, trying to have the absolute "perfect" face and body, basically becoming a man's plaything etc. just to experience nice basic things? It's so weird and it's just too much.

It’s no secret that many of these Instagram models and jet set babes are sex workers. Ig is an easy platform to get clients from all around the world. I don’t want to get into a debate about the legality and morality of prostitution because it is a very complex phenomenon. I assume that the Ig prostitutes are independent entrepreneurs meaning that they are not trafficked and that they don’t have pimps.

What is concerning is that young impressionable women don’t necessarily understand what is behind the luxury hotels and fashion they see on their feed, and they may actually think that this is glamorous life style.

 

[laurensanchez]

I am so glad that her lies are being exposed. I first came across her when she was in London. Like many she was trying to live the lifestyle, but had no education, no common sense, and decided that the only way to get ahead was a man.

She met her "man" on an escort date and the rest is history. She admitted she slept with him the first night. Her story was that her female friend brought her along as a companion on a double date, and she was not initially impressed with the guy. She also said before that he's short lol.

I thought she was really cool until I saw the way she became when she got a bit of fame. Us real jetsetbabes, she opened a private group for us, but deleted it and removed many of us from her main group. It's nothing but jealousy and because we all know her real story.

Well, the cat's out of the bag now Aija.

Also her mother has bad reviews of her law firm, the only people who support her are Russians who hire her to act as their lawyer to get residency in Sweden. Two generations of scamming hoes.

 

[svdwoodsen]

I don't think there are any billionaires on this thread (someone correct me if I'm wrong!) but Anna isn't even middle class or respectable in any way. If you've ever lived in any of these global financial centers (i.e. New York, London, Hong Kong, etc.), you can spot the fact that she's a gold-digger/escort right away. It's in the way she looks, dresses, presents herself, and no offense, her background. Eastern European women with no higher education, no proper job, spend hours primping and doing plastic surgery/fillers (Aija is no natural beauty), and strategically hang out in expensive bars/restaurants/clubs with overly done makeup and outfits are a dime a dozen in these cities and everyone knows what they are selling. It doesn't take a billionaire's lifestyle to know what's going on here. No successful man would dream of bringing her into his social circle (inviting her to expensive dinners with his clients and their hookers/sugar babies doesn't count) and they don't marry women like this. I'm not judging her for being a hooker, because that's her decision, but I do object to her selling a lifestyle she doesn't have to naive women online. We've all see the type she attracts in her courses from the screenshots some ladies shared above, and let's just say it's filled with women with broken English who don't seem to know better, and I doubt they have that much money to go around and pay for Anna's "advice."

 

[fakehoe]

However, she isn't really lying when she says she is Swedish. She has Swedish citizenship, and lived in Stockholm from early childhood until her early 20s. She is Finnish/Estonian by ethnicity, but can speak Swedish fluently (if you find her old blogs you know what I'm talking about).

I agree that she hides her origins to avoid negative Eastern European stereotypes, but I also don't think it's fair to act as if she has no right to claim she is Swedish.

This leads us to the deeper question: At what point does someone earn the right to claim that they are a certain nationality? Do they have to be born there? Have blood relatives from there? Speak the language? Live there more than ten years?

This. I don't want to defend Anna but when she says she's Swedish, she's Swedish. She has a Swedish passport. Ethnically, she is not Swedish but officially, she's not wrong when she says she's Swedish. A lot of my non-white friends and I (and even those who are white but immigrated here) identify as being from this country even though most of us weren't born here. Most of us grew up here and are familiar with the culture and customs here, and therefore, identify as being from this country and not our motherland.
I'm not sure about Anna cause I don't know her personally, but since she grew up in Sweden, she may feel more culturally connected to Sweden. She might not identify as Estonian or Finnish because she didn't spend a long time there.

As for your question, I think there can be 2 main ways
1. Passport: you hold citizenship in that country. Therefore, you are officially of that nationality.
2. Culturally: you spent a long time in that country so you have grown accustomed to it's culture and way of life. You feel like you can relate to the culture there than of your motherland.

Anyway, I think it's really up to the individual. It's based on their experiences and their identity. Who are we to guard what nationality someone identifies at.
As for Anna's non-Swedish accent when she speaks English, it is pretty weird. Maybe she picked up the accent from her mom?

 

[Pambo]

Anna just goes to show how easy folks are duped. I include myself in that. Closer to home, I bet we all know some useless article at work that management thinks highly of, purely because they market themselves right. Anna's like that. So are all the snakeoil salesmen selling 'how to get rich' courses for $997. They never got rich off following their own advice, but selling it.

But something else that kinda grates about the whole "affluent" discussion is that it can be a touchy subject filled with ego for a lot of folks. Mix it in with 'how to get a man' and get it's even worse. No one likes to feel like a loser, but the reality is... ain't none of us privy to the billionaire lifestyle. No one who bangs on about "the real rich don't..." don't know what the real rich do, no more than anyone else does who isn't rich. It's the blind leading the blind: "The real rich wouldn't do that and I know because I read it in article written by Joey BagOfDougnuts, a junior features writer on 30k a year! And I believe it because it doesn't make me feel so bad "

Take Bill Gates and Zuckerberg. They like to be thrown up as examples because they dress down. Only problem is, they're recognisable, so anyone else dressing down isn't going to be mistaken for a secret millionaire, but another broke loser. I watched those series on Monaco and Marbella, the rich Russians of London, and it looked to me like the rich sure do look rich for the most part: they dress it, drive it, and live in it.

Gates and Zuckerberg may not wear an expensive watch and drive an old car, but at their level of wealth they're not playing that game. These guys play "who's got the biggest private island" or "biggest super yacht" game. Don't kid yourself that they're humble by any means. Like politicians who deliberately wear cheap watches and off the rack clothes in public, but in private wear their Pateks and custom made tailoring.

Folks also love to tell about the time they thought they weren't treated quite as much as the Queen of Sheeba as they thought they should have been in some shop or salesroom, and decamped to somewhere else and bought 'X'... in their flip-flops, cargo shorts and tshirt. Always for cash in these stories, just for good measure, and more importantly, so we know how these dress-down ballers roll.

Most times I read these tales, it sounds to me like they went looking for a problem and found it - and probably just in their head. My mate used to work in luxury retail and said it was more than their job was worth to treat anyone badly, but when you work with commission, you soon get pretty good at sniffing out who's a time waster/window shopper, and who's buying. The golden rule being, if you look broke, then you probably are. And I've never bought that comforting lie that once you are rich, you do everything but actually spend it and indulge yourself in anyway. Like a modern day John Elwes (the inspiration for Scrooge).

My point being, Anna's as much a lifestyle guru as I am, or any of us, for having watched "Lifestyles of the Rich & Famous" and Downton Abbey, and mix it up with a heady dose of pretension and insecurity. I don't blame her for wanting to get on, I don't hold getting on against her, I just object to her being full of shit.