Anna Bey #37 Non-millionaire lifestyle scammer, can't organise a proper meet for the people she fleeces

sweet_tea · Apr 11, 2023

Thank you all for clarifying the Catholic marriage rites for me! Although I personally am not one, I live in an area of the US where a good portion of the religious population is Catholic; I could not imagine any practicing/devout member getting married in such a sketchy way as Joe and Aija. I agree with @NicePeasNorma that the only reason Joe wouldn't want a religious wedding is so he is "free" in the eyes of the church (or he's not practicing/devout and doesn't care anyway).

ThirdWorldGlam said:
My dear ladiezh, as usual our eleganth lady is all over the place and it keeps getting worse and worse.

First and foremost, this is absolute horrible advice and it actually explains why Anna's style has been getting worse. It is shocking because it was never good and somehow it reaches new levels of out of the place combinations.

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This is 101 how a narcissistic partner behaves. Pretending that all you do, including how you dress up, is 100% for them. I actually BELIEVE that Anna has issues with being a magnet of narcissists because with this mindset, you are literally the easiest target.

She is providing 2 bad examples /advice here.

First: Anna tries to sell that you can "fake it" to lvl up your style going to Zara and purchasing her preloved crap to "pass" as some type of old money / elegant person. It is so silly and dangerous.
Most people from those social circles will spot you easily as a vulerable lost soul. Worst case scenario, if you go to a 5 stars hotel lobby with a friend, some gentlemans will think you are there escorting Even the staff members will recognise you are a new face and don't know what to order.
You cannot, and I don't know how to stress this enough, CANNOT fake belonging to a social circle of individuals that grew up with multiple properties, trust funds and housekeepers. The Anna Bey case is 1 in a 100000 and it actually ended up pretty badly.

The best investment to lvl up is actually building up a career where people respect you. That also applies if you actually are a good housewife (by this I mean, taking care of being a good host and your kids, not "elegant" crap)

Second: Anna says that you should do your best for your partner to "like you". Nope ladiezh, don't do that. You will be a magnet of manipulative gross man. It is the other way around. They need to like you first in order to ask you for a date

If your man says thinks regarding "I would like you to wear this or that", it needs to be an honest conversation about what do you like and if you are willing to change a bit for him (or not, that is 100% up to you).
If your man says that he doesn't like your outfit, be careful, some guys do this in order to KILL your self-esteem or because they are crazy jealous. Again, this is narcissists 101 and it's sad that Anna allegedly had "bad experiences" in the past and does not recognise how f"$"$ up it is your husband picking your outfits!

What type of stylist would admit that she rather leave her man to pick her outfits? Is just lol all over the place.

Regarding her husband being catholic

I come from a catholic background and there is a distinction between secular catholics and practicing catholics. For Jews it is similar I may say, but basically some may describe themselves as catholics even when they do not go to the Church very often. This is actually deeply criticised.

"True" Catholics go to Church most Sundays, Easter and Christmas celebrations are BIG and all about spending time with your family (and again, going to Church). Having a big Catholic marriage is part of the puzzle, it is actually weird to skip the "party" part of it because is the most important thing: receiving the blessings from your family. The next step is trying hard to get pregnant or to adopt if there are health issues. Catholicism is all about family, going to church and connection. It is also required you and your partner do the Catholic confirmation before getting married.

It would be impossible for a true practicing Catholic guy to fit into Anna's lifestyle of "dog mom" and Channelas.

I am 99% sure that she just answered that because it feels proud her "husband" is not a muslim arab, such a horrible thought here (that I do not share) but this is probably what is going on Anna's head answering such a vague thing.

My opinion about dressing for your man:

I personally would wear clothes that my partner enjoyed (and would expect him to reciprocate), as long as it doesn't feel violating or inappropriate. Flowy dresses that make me feel beautiful? Absolutely! Crop tops that make me feel uncomfortable? Never.
I do want my partner to find me attractive - not my clothes, but me. If my man ever told me that I only looked beautiful wearing a certain style but like crap when I'm not, is he attracted to me or to my clothes?

I can take my partner's preferences into consideration while I'm dressing, and he can do the same. Neither of us are obligated to dress to the style/tastes of the other, but it can be a nice expression of love to do so.

Ladies, if your partner is telling you that you are only attractive when you are wearing dresses and not at all attractive when wearing sweatpants (and heaven forbid that he threatens to cut you off if you don't bend over backwards for him) - run far, far away. He doesn't care about you; he's just being manipulative and condescending. Both men and women should never be judging or unloving over the clothes that your partner chooses to wear.

(JMO, of course)

vanilla_sky · Apr 11, 2023

Eleghunt mangoes, I am so awed by Banana's late's Q& A! I thank all the hard working posters for documenting her posts and claims.
Poor lil Ted had a long road trip from Hungary to Geneva, that poor darling. It doesn't look like a luxury dog transport. As a very rich lady like Anna claims to be, couldn't she pay for a luxury service to bring her dog? Like, say, a private jet charter. Oh, I forgot, Banana only poses next to jets, she wouldn't be able to afford to charter one ( I assume).
So her granny style is inspired by Joe? Does that imply it is really the eleghunt stylist by Joe, not Banana? As for dressing the way a man suggests - quite a few BEEs (Baltic Eastern European) women try to appease their husbands tastes and dress more conservatively. That then turn into pure granny style, which then causes the husbands to say ''oh she doesn't look sexy and fun anymore''. It's like a vicious cycle. But Joe isn't from her region, so it is not BEE-related, but perhaps he did tell her to ''tone it down'' or whatever. Not that a woman should follow what a man tells her to wear, especially if she is from a Western/European background. What makes me, a BEE laugh, is that many men think that I dress ''too expensively'' and I am high maintenance. Well I can dress however I want. Though one of the more amusing chat ups from guys I had was when I was in a construction supply store buying items for my garden. I was wearing an Adidas track suit. Quite few men complimented me saying that I am a fine lady of expensive taste that knows good brands. The Eastern European love for the three stripes is serious. Aija, why don't you try a tracksuit? Now that might be the key to grabbing that elusive oligarch, eh? Coming next: The Wannabey Banana exclusive guide to eleghunt tracksuit! 10 things you must know about wearing tracksuit in an eleghunt way!

ShootForTheMoon · Apr 11, 2023

I personally think Joe doesn't give a monkey's about how Aija dresses. She just needed to make up some story that would feature her husband to 'prove' she's still married to him, even though nobody has seen him for ages. I guess that Joe is happiest when she is as far away from him as possible. He must have realized long ago that being married to her only brought him stress and problems and if he could turn back time he would have never do that again. All that bad publicity he was facing because of her...I wouldn't be surprised if he was drafting up divorce plans.

Her IG stories show that Aija very clearly spent all Easter alone (meaning; without Joe), he probably couldn't be bothered to do anything with her even during the Easter holidays, so the last thing he cares about is what she wears. I don't think that they are even friends now, maybe acquaintances but she must be a burden to him.

MarianneB · Apr 12, 2023

Hi Ladies. I haven't been on this thread for ages and ages. Covid hit, plus with family deaths, I truly lost interest in her while saga. I think the last time I was around she Anna had just bought a horse for some reason . Anyways, I've started receiving notifications from Anna on my emails and YouTube again for some strange reason, so out of interest, I thought I'd take a look at her youtube to see what she's up to know. Gosh. She still looks the same, but her content is suddenly more relatable. She's gotten off her high horse and now doing videos about non high-end fashion, the downfall or the Chanel flapbag (there are a lot of "downfall of..." X, y and z beauty brands on the net, so I'm not surprised by that. I am surprised though by her video about elegant being a "subculture" as any other. I can hear full well that she is acknowledging her crass past and saying that she's just moved into the "subculture" of elegance as a way of improving herself. Good way to deflect that she is not part of the in crowd. Also a good way to acknowledge that anybody can be more gentile without being super rich. Tick for that. However, WHY is she still hawking the 'A List' club and app does that not go against the grain of what she's saying by still calling it the 'A List'? Don't like that.

She still looks the same. No entourage to speak of anymore I see. Why can't she just do her YouTube thing instead of still pushing the elegance coach and networking thing??

PS: Glad to see that you are back @BastilledeBeauManoir . We missed you after you stopped contributing. I don't really care about being part of an exclusive club or A-list, but mentoring and sharing of practical ways to better ourselves in life is always appreciated.

curiousgal456 · Apr 12, 2023

Hi ladies, i just stumbled over Aija’s stories on instagram and found this. Of course she had to prove she still has her precious Hermès boots only days after we‘ve discussed it here!

Pardon my French · Apr 12, 2023

It's still an old pic, she sold that hat on her flea market. I'm not going to further comment on the outfit

Kiwi_01 · Apr 12, 2023

Oh god, the Hermes boots. I really stirred up a hornet's nest...
I am amazed by the influenced a random voice on the internet like me can yield. Am I an influencer now? Given that I inspired so many posts, am I a content creator?
Tattle really should receive so much more credit in the cultivation of Anna's public persona

itsmeitsme · Apr 12, 2023

Do you see the pictures in the background inher latest video?
it seems to be „her office“ but who the hell is this? or is it a painting?

annabeyhoax · Apr 12, 2023

vanilla_sky said:
As a very rich lady like Anna claims to be, couldn't she pay for a luxury service to bring her dog? Like, say, a private jet charter. Oh, I forgot, Banana only poses next to jets, she wouldn't be able to afford to charter one ( I assume).

I just love an opportunity to bring up ridiculous pictures of her, thank you for the honorable mention.

ShootForTheMoon · Apr 12, 2023

itsmeitsme said:
Do you see the pictures in the background inher latest video?
it seems to be „her office“ but who the hell is this? or is it a painting?View attachment 2094764

The pictures on the wall look like the 'two in a set' paintings that you can buy at IKEA or Jysk. I myself have a similar set (from Ikea! ) at home. I am not an ahfluent laydee married to a thousandarie Joe, hence I shop for wall decorations at Ikea...unlike our deer ehleghnut laydee here....oh wait!
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annabeyhoax said:
I just love an opportunity to bring up ridiculous pictures of her, thank you for the honorable mention.

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Here in the picture we can see Banana's supposedly hourglass figure being flaunted in front of ~~someone else's~~ jet

Pardon my French · Apr 12, 2023

Wannabey trying to prove so hard she's married by giving some dangerous pieces of advice once again....
Oh, by the way Anna, when many people talk bad about you when you're not in the room... It means that you really have some questionable behaviours/habits. That's why Tattle is here and you have starred 37 thread so far

ShootForTheMoon · Apr 12, 2023

What the hell is she talking about?!?!? What success? Being on top may be lonely - but you'd never know, Aija, because you have never been there! The top of your career? You are an escorting Youtuber who sells scammy courses to gullible women and who lies about being rich and married to a millionaire! Not what I would call a success. You should really stop smoking that stuff, it's making you super delusional.

And for the love of God, get rid of all pictures with that horrid necklace and never show them again, you ehleghunt stylist.

tacokitten · Apr 12, 2023

She's ranting so hard!! I thought eleghaaant ladies keep quiet and rant in silence?

vanilla_sky · Apr 12, 2023

It seems Aija is intensely reading Tattle, congrats dear eleghunt mangoes! It seems we have rattled her.
We are like a whole office full of Banana's assistants. Isn't that fancy? If we all work hard, Aija will soon be able to buy herself a private paper plane!
Is it just me, or is Aija running out of ideas for content? Now she is just whining about how everyone is hating on her cause she is so rich and eleghunt.

ShootForTheMoon · Apr 12, 2023

vanilla_sky said:
It seems Aija is intensely reading Tattle, congrats dear eleghunt mangoes! It seems we have rattled her.
We are like a whole office full of Banana's assistants. Isn't that fancy? If we all work hard, Aija will soon be able to buy herself a private paper plane!
Is it just me, or is Aija running out of ideas for content? Now she is just whining about how everyone is hating on her cause she is so rich and eleghunt.

Yeah, she is;

1) so 'rich' that she recently had to sell half of her wardrobe in a garage sale and cannot afford to travel anywhere anymore which she disguises with 'I-am-so-bored-with-the-idea-of-travelling-anywhere-these'days'.

2) so 'ehleghunt' that even her followers now criticize her fashion choices This one in particular is pure gold. She is trying to sell 'Elegant Stylist' to the same women who criticize her style and in turn she takes their advice. Master taking advice from his students

Pardon my French · Apr 12, 2023

At least on her FB group she could get some free advice from the members, not sure there is much to take on her z-list

vanilla_sky · Apr 12, 2023

Banana says she is not only so bored of travelling, but that she is bored with the jet set travelling.... so basically she is bored of her millionairess life. Cry me a river. I guess she just can't be bothered to find an off season semi-luxe destination. Because then she knows she'd have to take lots of pictures, pose in her ~~Zara/Primark~~ designer outfits and say semi-intelligent things about the destination. Sprinkled in with how un-eleghunt all the other tourists are.
I think she is tired of trying to come up with new ways to look rich and now she says that she is so very private. When being an influencer is her main job. The funniest thing to me is that now she is gearing up to flog her eleghunt style course again but she just doesn't have much style sense.
Her post about the nude nails was just so funny... so she follows thousandaire Joe's style demands even to small details like nail polish color? Banana, you say that YOU are the stylist....

witchofwestbyfleet · Apr 13, 2023

"Women don't have each other's backs" Translation: Other women don't like you because you are a vulgar scammer, transgress their boundaries, and backstab the women in your social group

Pardon my French · Apr 13, 2023

More and more justification.... The more you justify, the more you have to prove, the further you are from truth.
Back in your 20s Anna bey you still looked fairly pretty and human.

XxlButterfly · Apr 14, 2023

Since Anna has clearly proven to be an inadequate “elegant stylist”, does anyone know where to find inspiration for timeless, classic, business-casual look? I would like to incorporate some of the designer statement pieces, e.g. Valentino rockstuds, Burberry trench etc…

Anna Bey #37 Non-millionaire lifestyle scammer, can't organise a proper meet for the people she fleeces

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