I agree Lauren, but to play devil's advocate - most married couples in their 40ties/50ties, especially with kids around me are not happy, especially if the male is wealthy/affluent. The woman, in her late 40ties of 50ties, after having kids and a career looks run down and you can see the husband can't wait to get away from her..It's so important to me that women be the best version of themselves. This is why I want every follower to look inward instead of outward at these quick fixes. Just do what makes you happy, and the right man will find you I promise!
Not to mention men are not the be-all end-all in life. Your female friends are much more valuable, at least mine are. Men have come and gone in my life, but the women I surround myself with have actually contributed more, been more loyal, and even helpful in my life.
They might stay together for the appearances and for the kids but you can tell the husband loves her as a partner or mother to his offspring but the attraction is just not there.. for him to be attracted to her is something abstract. Then they look to have affairs and feel justified.
What is your take/solution to this?
To be honest, the angle I just presented above is something Aijia targets in her courses, telling women they should not do the 50/50 so I am sure many of our readers would like to know