I wouldn’t really say it’s weird that my partner brought it up with me. It’s quite healthy for a couple to talk about things like this. I feel happy that he did. It shows he’s comfortable with me. We frequently talk about things. I’m quite happy in the fact that we have a very comfortable relationship with great communication and we both talk about nearly everything. So it doesn’t seem weird to me because that’s my idea of perfect truthfully
Perhaps my partner thought his close friend (who is single and has never had a girlfriend before) might be feeling lonely/depressed. As he sometimes tends to sound it. Many people during this pandemic would probably relate to that. I myself don’t find it as weird in a sinister way. Also, I’m guessing you’ve experienced this before? The (Deja vu), Please do share your experience if you’re comfortable you’re obviously a very wise member of tattle and I’d greatly appreciate hearing your experience on this type of thing x
I believe the friend is 22. So still quite young I guess. I don’t really think he thought it through. I feel quite bad for him now as apparently he suffers with depression and has never had a girlfriend so I thought perhaps he felt quite lonely? But even so I know that it’s still not my problem and for my first holiday with my partner I definitely don’t want anyone else there. My partner is really kind and probably didn’t want to upset him
he is so precious and I’m honestly glad he’s like that instead of just saying “
duck off you can’t come” I think I’d feel worse if he said that to him!
Thank you for all your comments. I’ve been with my partner for coming up to 7 months now, I know some people thought it was weird he didn’t say anything but honestly I really think he just didn’t want to hurt his mates feelings.
I think everyone has gone through some tough times lately, I know this isn’t even a big deal compared to all the crap that’s happened last year/this year. I appreciate your responses!