Damn right!Wtf?! Who even does that. Id be fuming and expecting the money back I put in for the deposit.
Nope, don’t let him away with that. He’s trying to control you! As everyone’s said he has essentially stolen from you, I’d try get some legal advice on this - however that’s a route that perhaps if you go down your relationship goes down the pan too which tbh considering his behaviour is a good thing.Thank you all he doesnt see an issue.. all he says is hes doing this for our future .... how is it our future when he is dictating what we have. He was paying into the savings more than I could afford ( he has a more high paying job ) but I still out absolutely every penny I could I just feel stupid this has happened to me . I have told him I want my money back but all he says is this is our future
Honestly I think you need to be going to the police about it. Do you have proof of your payments into the joint savings account? How much had you paid in and how much was his deposit?Thank you all he doesnt see an issue.. all he says is hes doing this for our future .... how is it our future when he is dictating what we have. He was paying into the savings more than I could afford ( he has a more high paying job ) but I still out absolutely every penny I could I just feel stupid this has happened to me . I have told him I want my money back but all he says is this is our future
I could take a guess and say there are a lot more things wrong with this relationship, things you're not comfortable with, this being the last straw for you. Don't call yourself stupid, you're far from it. He's a total manipulator and the one at fault here. People like that tie you up in knots and make you doubt yourself, break your self esteem. It's a horrible thing to experience.Thank you all he doesnt see an issue.. all he says is hes doing this for our future .... how is it our future when he is dictating what we have. He was paying into the savings more than I could afford ( he has a more high paying job ) but I still out absolutely every penny I could I just feel stupid this has happened to me . I have told him I want my money back but all he says is this is our future
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