It's bonkers isn't it. I find her simultaneously irritating and perplexing, I'd love to understand how she rationalises such things in her head. She seems to have a real desire to almost infantise her children with "wholesome" good for the gram activities. My girls are 7 and would look at me like I've got two heads if I suggested playing with a mud kitchen let alone if they were 10 which is how old roughly I think Nancy is.