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Mokie

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Why the word salad? Three words would have sufficed “give me money”. Such a victim. Does anyone know how many patrons she has?
 
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Lorelei

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Hasanah123 said:
Exsctly that!!! Theres posts where ppl have said she lived with them for number of years post university, paid for by them and theyve paid for a lot of her life
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Her boyfriend is from the UK
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I've read a post by her where she admits that her father gave her a job and it sounds like he is very successful in his field.

As for her husband, I am curious as they probably met online and without being rude I don't think she'd be successful in the average dating pool. There's bound to be a story there. Visas/green cards are NOT easy to come by.
 
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Esteelouder

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Oh yeah something else I just remembered!!

When it was the American election, my husband was saying how it looked obvious that Biden was on track to win. But I followed Aja and she’d put up ‘well done white women you fucked it up’ or something to that effect!!! I thought that suggested Trump would win... but I was like wow! Imagine changing the words in that to quote another ethnic group... it would be unacceptable!!

The undisclosed ads seem to be part of her ‘god persona’
 
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Deeznutslol

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Lorelei said:
She is beyond vile. I'm sure she is much younger than she looks but when you are full of so much toxic bile it really shows on your face, and you can certainly see it on hers.
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What’s she been saying now? I unfollowed her so long ago and just follow this thread now, couldn’t stand her moaning.
 
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iz10101

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Yes! Lucy and Yak that was it. It was so nasty she did like 3 videos and even posted memes.
The unpaid labour bit was bizarre, I totally saw the CEO of Lucy and Yaks point. They took their time to get on the phone with a customer and listen to feedback at Aja’s request not theirs.
It’s not like she even advertised herself as a consultant. If she thought her advice had monetary worth then be upfront about it and also give the business a proposal to review before getting on the phone.

Even the way she deals with comments that are slightly to her disagreement on her Instagram. She makes it clear she wants grovelling apologies and wants the user to be hounded by her followers on their page too. It’s like she gets a thrill of it with the guise of “educating” the user on their privilege and internalised racism that made them comment on HER page a polite but different viewpoint.
Instagram is a public site. the page owner has complete control on who they allow to comment, who they block, you can even block certain words in comments. If you don’t want people commenting then turn off the function. If you don’t want new followers to comment then turn that off too. Don’t throw a tantrum every time something you disagree with, or just stop with using Instagram…but she won’t as these tantrums have given her the huge following and $$$ for her patron.
 
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brownstone

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This woman is so childish and hateful. Yesterday she said she was so angry she couldn’t speak because a woman commented that her Jewish children feel scared going to school or something. She claimed to give no fucks because she’s infertile. She is so clearly anti semetic.

Another dictator toddler moment was when she says she hates people adding to someone else’s statement. That’s called discussion aja. That’s what happens between people who aren’t sycophants on instagram. She’s like a spoilt little emporer surrounded by bland, brainwashed, drippy non critical thinkers who lap it up because SHES A MARGINALISED QUEER IDENTIFYING CIS WOMAN WITH BOUNDARIES.
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She should know that being all of that doesn't excuse or exclude her from being an asshole!
 
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bluefoot

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OhhBacon said:
I follow her, have read her book -which I bought and have recommend it to others. I agree with all her content on overconsumption which is why I follow her.

I don’t pay or even subscribe to any sub stacks, I’m white and apparently I am out of order for following her….eh?
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You are a liberal white woman so therefore an easy mark
 
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snarkvark

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Deeznutslol said:
I honestly have zero time for Aja, never have. She makes everything 100% about race, and whilst she does sometimes make a good point, I strongly believe that the biggest divider has always been class, yet she completely disregards it
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she conveniently "overlooks" issues of race when it benefits her too so she doesn't have to hold herself accountable for her exploitative habits. for instance, buying leather, eating meat, etc. etc. she'll drag white people over hot coals for their fast fashion purchases but then completely ignore how the leather industry and meat industry exploits and represses PoC

those tweets really highlight how self absorbed she is and ignorant. "just because my dad wanted to buy us nice things doesn't mean I'm privileged!!!" WHAT THE FUCK BITCH. of course you're going to "chalk it up to white rage" because you do any time anyone ever criticises you. you can't handle it. it's always someone else's fault.

it's not a "gotcha" it's a "please acknowledge that you're coming from a place a privileged yet you always try to paint yourself as the victim."
 
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bluefoot

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For engagement, aja posted that she doesn’t like when people recline seats on planes. When she gets engagement in the form of comments she is sensitive to she gets enraged. Other person said aja was being ableist but this said other person is also a poc and queer. Ad infinitum
 
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wonderweb

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Crikey she’s annoying, I unfollowed her ages ago (long before discovering tattle!) but saw something that made me look at her page again. Telling people off for saying they found a post inspiring?! Not everyone has £200+ to drop on a single item of clothing!
 
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PerseptivePersephone

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snarkvark said:
yeah right Aja, "quitting social media was the plan all along" more bullshit. she'd never give up that amount of followers! it certainly does nurture monsters because look at you. the only way aja has reached "success" (which is limited to social media!) is becuase she bullies people and incites pile ons. which seems to be what she's doing again with mikaela loach.

I'd like to know what's going down mikaela loach.... she seems really nice. from what we've seen with aja before, it's usually down to jealous rage. a grown ass adult woman acting like a high schooler, bully other people into doing what she says or feeling her wrath! what a nasty woman.
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Subtweeting is so petty. Aja does do it a lot which I find odd because she’s said in the past about not wanting drama. But for both Aja and Demi to put out similar tweets… especially Demi’s tweet mentioning a book deal days after Mikaela announced she’s got a book deal. It feels fairly obvious. Neither Demi nor Aja follow Mikaela and Mikaela doesn’t follow them but I’m sure Demi followed Mikaela at some point.
 
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