Ellsbells123
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Your feelings are totally valid. I have a 12 year old who hasn’t seen her dad for over 10 years and I dread the day, she possibly says, she wants to see him again. Yes, it is their decision and they are of an age to decide. It doesn’t take away what has happened and the hurt it has caused. You have been there to do it all and ultimately you have brought them up to be the fine young men that they are.
Like you say, he will get his answers and make up his own mind. By the sounds, his dad doesn’t sound the most stable when it comes to relationships! Never keep your feelings to yourself though, talk, even if it’s to total strangers! You are allowed to feel how you do, you haven’t had to share them and your instinct will be to protect them!
Like you say, he will get his answers and make up his own mind. By the sounds, his dad doesn’t sound the most stable when it comes to relationships! Never keep your feelings to yourself though, talk, even if it’s to total strangers! You are allowed to feel how you do, you haven’t had to share them and your instinct will be to protect them!