Goldfish

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i don’t usually post in this thread, only lurk and i’m catching up so i don’t know where this will land sorry! i just wanted to point out that the bit about family dynamics in the report she posted doesn’t mean that her difficulties were CAUSED by any family situation. If you have a neurodivergent child they need to be parented differently and parenting is often extra difficult. Difficulties they have are not caused by you as parents, but the responsibility to manage the difficulties is on the parents (not because of limited resources in the NHS or whatever - only because it’s evidence based). ADHD is highly hereditable. If you have a child with ADHD then there’s a 70% chance you will also have it. The type of parenting that children with ADHD need is difficult for their parents, even more so if you’re a parent who struggles with the same executive function deficits (which you are most likely to). This is absolutely undisputed in research.

Medication is the first line treatment but whole family coaching or intervention is also a big thing - ‘family dynamics’ exacerbating the symptoms/features/difficulties DOES NOT mean that the child is the way they are because of a family situation, it means that a family’s natural response doesn’t support the child’s differences. This is the case for all families regardless of socioeconomic status.

Also as a small additional point, a girl being diagnosed with predominantly inattentive ADHD even in 2014 or whenever means her presentation must have been very clear. Even in 2021 I would say that’s the case. I absolutely would not be questioning her ADHD diagnosis and as I kinda highlighted before about hereditability there is a rationale for her being concerned about the twins.

I know I could just scroll on if I don’t agree but for the first time in these threads (apart from the car seat chat) I’ve felt like a line’s been crossed. She posted personal medical documentation online in response to people in here then everyone started slagging her for posting it.

Eagerly awaiting accusations of being Donna or Charlotte! 😄 and eagerly awaiting just general snarking rather than victimising a girl who actually should be getting a lot of credit for being a stable, loving, influence in her girls’ life despite everything that’s been thrown at her (in terms of genetics, not even considering environmental factors!)
Hardly stable, two alleged domestic abusive relationships with men that both regularly take drugs, and as for the loving she does the bare minimum of what it takes to look after children. I am so fed up of people giving credit where credit is not due, feeding, clothing, bathing and giving the child a home is the literal bare minimum of what it takes to actually be a mother, let alone raise a child, the girls are quite clearly behind because of charlottes lazy habits of keeping them in high chairs or keeping them in the jumperoo for way longer than they should of been. Just because she has some behavioural and mental health issues can not be an argument for she’s doing so amazing. So many mums and dads suffer with behavioural and mental health issues and do far better than she has done and quite happily do it without a song and a dance and using it as an excuse for mistakes you have made
 
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Arianacat

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Charlottes story is shocking 😮 cropped out the account name but Christ! Hope they aren’t on here
Agreed! These comments are so vile and could seriously effect anyone’s mental health or lead them to be suicidal. They sound like a scruffy bint themselves using language like this 🤮 come on Charlotte, that isn’t a tattler! We have standards!
 
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Georgethecat

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wonder what Charlie is going to put above her bed now 😂 imagine having to change your room decor every couple of weeks when you break up with your lad
 
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Cj2098

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I feel like most people do lose weight after a breakup though. Plus, she’s probably not ordering as many takeaways. Bit pointless ordering food for one person
I bet to differ. My hobby is ordering food for one 🤣🤣🤣
 
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Lilylate

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Morgan - FYI, just because you control every aspect of your wife’s life, does not mean you can control everyone else’s. No one cares about your aggressive rant on social media, which, let’s face it, will be more about you trying to prevent Laura from speaking to anyone else but you, and the fact most messages you’re receiving will be highlighting what a possessive, controlling, vile creature you are.
Of all the people on both the TMYAP and TM shows, this is the couple that needs the most intervention. Those poor children being brought into the world around someone like Morgan. I shudder to think what will become of them, I really do..
 
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Coolcats24

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Come back because you need to ask for freebees more like. They need all the money they can get to fix the house.
 
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