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I respectfully disagree - we can have love whenever we want it. I’m not just a mother.
Chasing dick and putting a man before your children, getting engaged after a few months is completely foolish and tells me everything I need to know about Tammy as a mother. Very Sophie Guidolin like. I don't care if that upsets people. A good mother would never.
 
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xoxogossip_girl

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OMFG. Has anyone seen these screengrabs from Reeces mum?
Was Reece actually telling the truth when he said Tammy was making it hard to see the kids?
Like no one believed him, me included.
This is fucking huge. Changes the entire story Tammy told everyone.
Not a Tammy fan but a lot times these men are the way they are because of mommy dearest at home. He fucked off and left the country, father of the year.
 
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Shouttoallmylostboys1

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It's the back ache I got watching her spine do this in her posts. Wish there was an option for "similar pics" on Instagram, like there is on Google. Where you can see actual red carpet photos, paparazzi shots as suggested photos right under whatever influencers overly Photoshop and bend/break the hell of.
 

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cate92

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How old is Matt? Is Tammy even 30 yet!? What a life she’s had and so many kids/baby daddies.

I met my husband when we were in our late 20’s travelling the world and he was partying more than me. Once we got together we both settled down. I remember at our wedding his cousin who still has not settled down and still parties telling me I “changed him” and he used to be fun. Ugh. Some people are ready to grow up and others aren’t, they have to do it in their own time, or for the right reason and person .
So many kids/baby daddies? Settle down. She had two kids with one man… decent gap and then had a baby with the next. I’d hardly say that’s “so many”.
 
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Shouttoallmylostboys1

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Has anyone listened to the podcast? I don’t want to, but want to know all the stupid things said😅
I am on bed rest after breaking my leg on ice this week. Don't have much to do, I put it on, through a page that doesn't give them views and money, to be a little entertained. I'm on minute 17 now and I want my braincells back. I made a few long notes I'll share here when this is over. It's even a sadder train wreck than I originally thought. He sounds like a grown, whiny, stuffy nosed toddler and Tammy can't form a sentence without 'like, literally, uuuuhhhhh', neither can Ana. I should've painted my wall and watched it dry, it would've been more stimulating.
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I have to take a long break because the hypocrisy and no signs of cognitive intelligence are wearing me out. I'll be back later with the other part. These are notes from first half of the podcast (26 minutes):

- Matt says 'love hasn't worn out and never will, and honeymoon stage won't end', Ana enables that tit by saying that's true.

- Matt thinks they communicate good, they recently learned Tammy's an avoidant attachment person and he's an anxious attachment person, but 'they figured it out'.

- They sound bored and solumn saying they're so happy and how they're soulmates who match, love totally didnt run out...

- Tammy believes they're supposed to be together, and has ironically said she never believed in soulmates. Someone bring that soulmates video with Poole back...

- Matt privately messaged her first, Tammy says she never looks at them, but in pandemic she bragged about talking to and being messaged by sportspeople....

- Tammy thought 'he was really handsome' and his message 'stuck out'.

- His message was an invite to his live show, she liked the message and didn't plan on coming to it at all (verbally said, not written), he didn't respond further.

- They texted for a week before first date.
- They talked for an hour and he booked a ticket to GC without seeing it with her in that same hour, then he texted her a photo of the ticket and flown that weekend.

- They talked the whole first date and kissed. She claims it was her dream first kiss with him, 'it was hot', she walked out of the bathroom and he just kissed her, 'it was like a movie'.

- They went back to the hotel 'for drinks' (he skipped the part where they got photographed morning after), they went for coffee next day and he won't skip a chance to say he made out with a hot girl and how many times.

- He keeps saying she looks nice and hot, and is hotter in person, and that's the only thing he repeats about her. Nothing else. Just hot. She says he's 'nice to look at' and I almost lost my meal here. Hence my break.

- They're still long distance, they both hate it because they can't be physically more together, they didn't spend a longer than a 'week' apart from first date and that's still 'too long' for avoidant Tammy.

- She says it so nastily she leaves her 'screaming' children indoors and runs outdoors to facetime him basically every day.

- She Googled questions to ask him on a date, he used one opportunity to ask her to be his girlfriend all on the same picnic date. She didn't expect it, but they already said 'i love you' to each other before this question.

- Ana keeps egging it on how they're so perfect together and soulmates because 'they're hot and the same person'. Matt insists they're the same person because they crack same jokes, they're both goofy (so compatible), something was censored but I presume he said 'because how we fk'. Tammy awkwardly said this is weird and he corrected himself saying 'by how we do weird stuff'.

- Tammy says her public relationships and breakups were painful, and wasn't gonna post anyone after, but meeting him she said 'fk it' and didn't want to 'hide it'. Matt says it was so hard hiding it because they both photographed their outings, I guess they forgot they can go without taking photos and posting them in the same moment.

- Tammy said she has an 'it is what it is' approach to the hard launch reception, but her comments and behaviour says otherwise. Matt says it would've been nice for them to 'choose when they want to share it'. But they still chose sharing it all, including walking the red carpet?

- Matt says people's reactions to him were 'fked', Tammy says everyone's miserable and just doesn't understand why people were negative. If only there were threads with proof why... Anyway, Matt is dumbfounded, but says 'why do people think we care'. He cared hard enough to delete most comments off his page. Tammy backs it up saying she 'couldn't care less'. Matt says he can't imagine sitting there commenting about it... Matt, what do you do with your podcast?

- Tammy and Matt both read all the comments they get, positive and negative. 15 seconds before they said don't care at all. He says 'we have the receipts', doesn't say for what. They both believe people will stop talking about this soon. Tammy says 'they'll be together forever', Matt says 'people will have to get over it'.

- Tammy says negativity was overwhelming at first, but positive direct messages make her feel better now... Matt is stuck on Tammy being a winner for 'getting more likes' on her comments. Tammy acts like she's supreme if someone deletes their comment. Tammy also says 'whatever she ignores it all' again. Right after saying she reads all comments. Matt says 'people are weird, he couldn't get it or do it', mate you run a podcast where you air your fiancée's laundry out?
 
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doedoebirds

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The engagement is a whole other matter but she should be allowed to have a partner if she wants to, without judgement.
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Honestly, this is women picking on women. Being a mother is hard enough without being told that you can either be a good mother or have a partner. Having a life outside of your children does not make you a bad mother!
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Let’s not forget that the children have fathers that they see/spend time with and other family members around them. Tammy does have time away from her children - she can do with it whatever she likes. I would hate to shame any mother for having a life outside of her children!
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I can’t say I agree with her choice of partner, but I won’t judge her for wanting one.
She introduced him to the kids at 2 weeks!!!!
Had a stranger under the same roof as them.
Even medical professionals say to wait a while damn year before introducing a boyfriend gradually.
Those kids have been given a step dad in 10 weeks when she agreed to the engagement.
It's not her falling in love. It's the damn rush of it all, which isn't ideal for the kids she's suppose to be putting first.
Is she that afraid that he'll go elsewhere if she doesn't agree to marriage?
All I see is a very insecure woman grasping at love.
She's had 2 complicated engagements and yet she agrees to a third one, to a man with a very long history of shitty behavior towards women. Already he's showing his true colors.
Sure, go dating, of course single mums deserve love and some sex but don't go dragging 3 innocent kids into the mess so early. She has no boundaries.
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Google ‘internalised misogyny’.
Matt has the highest ranking of misogyny I have ever seen. Go comment on his page, not on a page that outs shitty behavior from women and men.
 
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redball00n

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Fuck as many blokes/women as you want in your free time if that’s your prerogative. Don’t dump your children or drag them around frequently to do it and stop introducing them to a new partner every week that you’ve known for 5 minutes.
 
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liv12345678910

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I DONT understand the hurry. It’s so desperate.
people that are truly happy with each other just enjoying being together. They’ve been together five minutes, like High school behaviour
 
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Can’t stand how she contorts herself to make her arse look even bigger and the juxtaposition of photos of her wearing bikinis akin to dental floss next to pics of those gorgeous kids
 
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ATOLOU$

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Agreed. I have two young children and being with a bloke is the last thing I want/need and is low on my priorities. Also it’s a safeguarding issue. I’m not letting my children near any man for a long time. I’ve heard too many stories about ‘the boyfriend’ being left alone with children and it’s not worth the risk.
it’s fine to date when you have free time but to prioritise live life and a man over your children is something else
100% agree with this. My mother prioritised her partner over me for a good 10-15 years of my life. Her partner even sexually abused me and she did nothing (and this was when they’d been together for 6-7 years, so there was trust there). I’m lucky to be with the father of my children but if I weren’t there’s no way I’d be choosing my love life over my kids.
 
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kmartplate

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Third time lucky. This one really needs to last. One failed engagement is ok, I mean these things can happen. Two is a a red flag. Three is absolutely a reflection of the person. I would be embarrassed to keep getting engaged! At least this one is not based on pregnancy due to his infertility.
 
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