acessj

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Yes the baby had Trisomy 18 so would have not survived an hour after birth. There was a heart defect also aside from all the issues that babes with T18 have .
Any baby born > 20weeks or over 420gm ( roughly) is a registered birth therefore parents have the same opportunity to spend time with babes no matter how or why the pregnancy has ended , if they choose to of course .

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Sending you lots of love . If you don’t mind did you have a little girl or boy - don’t answer if you don’t want to.
I had a beautiful and perfect baby girl we named Elise, she was born alive but died shortly after. We went from total elation to heartbroken devastation - our dream turned nightmare so fast
 
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acessj

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people seeing through her bullshit 🙌🏼
I completely agree that it’s strange behaviour. I gave birth to my first baby a month ago today, she died shortly after. A day later I made one story post telling people on Instagram that she had been born but had not stayed with us and could people please not contact me about it as it hurts too much right now. I only did that because I was getting lots of msgs asking if I had the baby yet. Any responses I got from that post where I had asked people not to send condolences, just made me cry harder. Reposting what people have sent you is certainly for attention. Why on earth would you want to keep being re-traumatised? I feel for her because I know how it feels, but she’s definitely got some prior issues I feel.
 
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acessj

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I know everyone is different, but I gave birth to and lost my baby 7.5 weeks ago and I couldn’t imagine posting the shit loaf posts! She seems absolutely manic to me, and I don’t believe anything she posts at all. I’m only really following all of this to give me 5 minutes reprieve from thinking about how I should be too busy with my baby to have time to scroll 😢
 
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I have word from my source that Andrew had no idea what loaf was doing and when he found out he was absolutely devastated and is still struggling to cope with what has transpired.
They were still together when he left for Europe and he wasn’t allowed to see baby pixie. 💜
 
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kjs22

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NOW here is the real tea, the #codegate scandal of 2023 🤣🤣🤣 Ladies, even though Loaf is boring us to tears with her daily tasks bullshit we mustn’t get so hungry for crumbs that we turn on each other baby gurls 💜💜💜💜 😂😂😂
Also @teampapi you crack me up 🤣🤣 I’m eagerly awaiting @usemycode to put together one of her famous timelines 😂😂
Here’s a quick recap:
1) someone asks for a code to give an insider
2) code is created
3) code is 😱stolen😱
4) literally FIVE minutes later you pop up and start your post with “hey girls heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy” (this intro is my favourite part and gets me every time)
5) you give us NO tea ☕☕
6) the crowd turns on you accusing you of being a THIEF 😂
7) you deny being a THIEF 😂
8) @kearnslegalletter confirms you are a THIEF 😂
9) you still deny 😂
10) we are still hungry for some insider knowledge

I just tried to get a code for a Real Insider but don’t have access 😔 this saga is fantastic, a good little laugh to pass the time until Loafie gets some new dick on the scene 💜💜💜💜
 
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We’re nearly at the end of the thread @soccer_ball_hero 👀
Hey. Right. I'm back. (I'm an R.N and I've been working night shifts.. 😩). And I literally had to call my brother for any and all updated goss. My brother works at Dental and just also started at Dental. His wife is also a dentist so I waited till I could catch them both. Between the 2 dental clinics, there are 2 dental nurses that are good friends. One works for my brother and one for Andrew.

Things hit the skids when she got pregnant. He had made it very clear he did not want any more kids. She said she was on the pill.. but wasnt. She was pregnant at their wedding.

At their Xmas party, Sophie wasn't able to drink and *REALLY put on the nausea act. And the whole Xmas party was literally about her. Someone was getting up to get their 2nd plate of Pav..and Sophie told them "you really don't need that..you know. Put half back". 🥴👁

At the Xmas party, Sophie went into Andrews phone and deleted any photos he had of himself and female staff members at the Xmas party. He noted her doing it. It got awkward.


Andrew by nature is a good man, VERY giving.. but also self centred.. will book flights at a whim to live his best life. A baby didn't fit that picture.

Sophie booked the houseboat for the holidays.. not Andrew. His female staff kept telling him that NOBODY with HG would book a freakin house boat?! Constant movement and rocking being the thing that ppl with HG would run for the hills from.

The trip with his daughter's to Europe had been planned before he got with Sophie. Well before. "you work hard. Give it everything. at the end of yr 12.. I will take you around Europe". Sophie wanted to go.. but couldn't. Because it didn't fit the HG picture that she has painted. So she wanted him to not go.

Andrew wanted the trophy wife. But not the kids, the day to day. Sophie's girls were almost living with Nathan for the first few months. Then when her kids had to be factored in.. it got difficult.

Andrews G.F prior to Sophie left him.. because when they got together she was young. Then after being together about 4(ish?) Yrs.. she wanted a ring. Babies. Etc. He said he would never marry again. And no more kids. Ever.

Sophie wanted a lap dog. Someone to control (like Nathan). And Andrew wasn't it
 
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BobbyDidABigStinkyPoo

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Alright peeps I received some piping hot tea from an insider this weekend. Not gonna say too much as don't want to out myself but definitely an MT and definitely dr d is not the villain in this story. Basically confirm everything we all know and thought is true
 
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usemycode

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I’m not sure if it is a legal possibility in his jurisdiction but I thought it was plausible that Andrew could have slapped an injunction on her to remove the explicit photo of the baby under parental rights, perhaps on the grounds that it was exploitative of Pixie and he was not consulted before she posted it as the father. If that’s a possibility I could see where, perhaps, whatever legal justification he would have it might expand to her posting other photos regarding a funeral or what have you. Anything that might be considered exploitative. And perhaps she’s not talking about it much because she doesn’t want to step into that gray area.

I completely agree with you, I think she’s also not talking about it because she doesn’t wanna get caught out for lying. Especially if she has been reading here and has seen how we have reconstructed an entire criminal timeline going back to her date of conception 😄 She would be smart to think that she doesn’t want to add any more fuel to the fire in regards to the sleuthinb that we do here to connect the dots. The only thing we don’t have is the corkboard with the red strings 😄
Actual photo of me making the timelines
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usemycode

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An incomplete timeline or gathering of information. This is just for information purposes not to accuse her of anything.

Sophie and Andrew get married on 11th November 2022
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12th December 2022, Sophie posts these pregnancy tests to her subscribers asking if people can see two lines. I’ve left the date visible that this was shared both here and in the outspoken podcast group. Note the “honeymoon bebe”
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13th December Sophie posts in her Facebook group a poll asking about abortion. Follows it with this
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17th December 2022, Sophie announces her pregnancy and again mentions “honeymoon bebe”
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People are suspicious and questioning her timeline. See this post to sum up what is likely the truth.
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Around 22 December tattle speculated that she will “jump on the HG trend”. That same day, Sophie posts a reel about having HG.
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people are not convinced because she has been sharing large amounts of content that contradict the expected behaviour of someone seriously unwell with HG. Travel, staying on a houseboat, having parties, living her life as usual.
Sophie says life is great but also that she’s suffering and also that she’s never been so sick in her life. People continue to question how true this is because again, she was living life as normal.
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She continues to share concerning (and maybe exaggerated/dramatic) stories about her “HG”.

8th January 2023-11th January 2023
She posts that she is in hospital, and then starts to allude to/outright say that Andrew left her to be alone in hospital while he’s off partying on a boat. She allows her followers to dog him repeatedly in her comments. Note that same day she was running errands and appeared to be fine.
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15th January 2023 she posts passive aggressive stories about how Andrew doesn’t understand and isn’t attentive or empathetic of her experience. She also gets “busted” publicly for photoshopping herself. It makes the news. Or at least the daily mail. She deletes the photo/reel and tattle predicts she will likely go back to hospital and share it for a diversion/attention.
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16th January 2023
sure enough the next day she is back and asking for kindness.
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Unsure of exact dates, but Andrew and his girls travel to Europe. He posts about being in Rome 6 days ago, so about 22nd January 2023 Aus time, he probably left a couple of days before that so maybe 18/19th January.
19th January 2023 she posts again that she’s in hospital. Someone asks where Andrew is and she says he’s enroute to Europe on vacay. This sparks her fan girls to attack him in her comments and on his Instagram. She “accidentally” reveals the baby is a girl.
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Around 21st January she comments on Martha from MAFS post implying Andrew hasn’t been supportive of her.
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22nd January 2023 she’s at the beach with blown out hair, but also is very sick and dehydrated and low energy. Allegedly. She says Nathan took her then later deletes his name from the post. She says she’s going into hospital tomorrow, 23rd January. She does a Q&A on stories and breaks down her “HG” and also hints/tells people that she is further along than we all thought based on her “honeymoon bebe“. She posts a flat lay of her medication and shared that she’s all alone and her husband refused to cancel his planned in advance special trip with his daughters. It’s possible this is when she admits she is at Robina Private Hospital that doesn’t have a maternity unit but does have a mental health unit that she has possibly been admitted to.
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22nd January 2023 Sophie posts a trigger warning then a story about how she has repeatedly considered termination. She mentions that she looked at flying overseas to “make the pain stop”. This appears to be a reference to flying overseas to a place that allows late term pregnancy termination. Sophie says she has had suicidal thoughts? She has since removed the post so I can’t find screenshots but people talked about it here.
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23rd January 2023
A screenshot of a DM with Sophie is shared in multiple places where she again implies Andrew doesn’t care about her physical or mental state. He tries to explain the situation. Some people defend him, no doubt she can see all of this.
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24th January 2023 friend Triniti Jean posts that she is flying with her baby and mum tomorrow to see Sophie (25th January 2023). It seems like she is flying to support Sophie while Sophie is in hospital getting treatment for “HG”. She makes a comment about “turn of events” which is taken as strange by many people.
25th January 2023 morning she posts a story asking for love to be sent her way. It is also Andrew’s daughter’s 18th birthday. People question if she is trying to get attention, is the baby ok? Did the baby come early?
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27th January 2023 Sophie shares that she gave birth to her daughter Pixie, stillborn via c-section. There is no mention of Andrew but she thanks everyone else in her life and the medical staff. She geotags the hospital she’s at.
She says “maybe some souls were always meant to be angels” at the end of her announcement.
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I think people need to read the wiki and catch up on threads before commenting about the MT otherwise the conversation just goes in circles.

Yes what she’s accused of is unbelievable at face value but when reading the timelines and mismatched events from loaf herself it actually becomes more likely to have happened than not.

We aren’t some evil bullies with too much time on our hands. Seems we are in fact people with morals and are giving a voice to a lost baby who never had one at the hands of her “mother”

We as a group have grieved the loss of pixie more than loaf
 
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slowpony

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The part that still blows my mind is that she posted a photo WITH her aborted baby in it. On her public Instagram, while her husband was overseas.. 🤯 No matter which way you look at that, it’s fucked up. She is fucked.
 
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survivHER

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I don’t think ANYONE said she claimed DV. What was said was that if you mention DV to your healthcare team records are further protected or ‘sealed’ as someone mentioned she made sure her records are sealed therefore people have assumed she’s claimed he was violent against her. Medical records are private and confidential in the first place. I cannot stand Sophie but she hasn’t once said there was any DV.
I think it's also important that DV claims stop being posted on here, as it literally was one person who claimed she "may have said it" to get her records kept private as a little side comment, but now lots on here are posting as though it is a real possibility.
Loaf has NEVER claimed DV, nor has there been any evidence stating it may be possible, so can we PLEASE stop with the DV speculation?? This is something that could run people's livelihoods if random, unsubstantiated gossip got out there into the wider public. Plus, it also can be triggering for people who have actually experienced DV.
 
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SlothSmoth

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I commented on Andrew’s post saying what a beautiful tribute for your little Pixie (few other things but don’t want to give my username away) and Sophie has blocked me. WTAF?! I didn’t say anything bad about Sophie! She is a nut job!!
 
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Nah we need to stop blaming the dr leaving for what loaf did.
in new relationships especially with a new sibling on the way, honouring promises to your children is very important. Putting your children first is in their best interest.
Loaf is a grown adult and just because she puts everything and anything before her kids doesn’t mean he should.
It was two weeks not two months, it was planned a year in advance / unlike the trap pregnancy.
 
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