she has to dump him. no going back to him just because he is some so called star. if it is true, she should report him and walk out of this relationship
I find your whole take on this situation ignorant and offensive.
Most victims of DV have been ground down and lost their self esteem and confidence. Thatās why they stay. Itās not easy to leave sometimes. Maybe they are gaslit, maybe their finances are controlled, or they are scared or maybe they believe they donāt deserve better. Thatās why I stayed.
And then of course there is the depressing realisation that even if you have photos of the bruises, maybe no one will believe you. Or will say you stayed because the person is rich, or famous, or handsome and you are just a lowly female. You say yourself you āalways had a not so good impression about wagsā
She doesnāt HAVE to do anything that you say. I hope she gets out. I hope she has therapy. I hope she finds her worth. But honestly that comment about āno going back because he is some so called starā? Thatās shows you think she is merely a starfucker. And youāve cast doubts on her claim immediately.
Iām out of it now but Iāve told no one in real life for three reasons. Firstly, Iām
deeply ashamed that I was in an abusive relationship. I feel stupid and humiliated and wonder why I was so pathetic I stayed. Secondly, Iām still scared of him. If I told people heād retaliate. And lastly, I donāt think people would believe or care. Look at the response sheās had. I left a whole group of friends to make a break because I never want to see or hear about him again.
I also had photos of bruises but I deleted them because I thought it was hanging onto bad feelings etc, to keep them. But I wish I hadnāt because they validated my feelings and reminded me he was a fucking POS even though most people think he is charming and charismatic.
Despite the MRA idealology on twitter, false accusations of DV and sexual assault are incredibly rare. What isnāt, are unreported incidences of those things.