Badirene
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I am a survivor of CSA (ages 4 to 11) and I have a voice similar to yours on repeat in my head constantly. What could I have done differently to keep myself safe, what did that man see in me that made it okay to abuse me, why was I so worthless that no adults stopped him even though they knew what he did to other kids before he got to me. Even now as an adult there is a wall of silence around what happened to me because if anyone in the family admits what happened was wrong they may have to acknowledge there own inaction and that's uncomfortable, so the family narrative is that I'm unstable, my PTSD is because I'm somehow inferior to them, I just need to pull my socks up and get on with things, to stop being depressed and fragile.OK lads to be fair a lot of the excellent counterpoints on this thread have actually made me confront my bias, and find it too narrow and lacking. Ye are right; Nikita’s actions that night are completely besides the point and morals don’t come into it, Thank you.
I know this poster is probably just stirring online and thinks their being funny but the reality is people like this make me think my internal voice is right, a part of me deserved it and there is something fundamentally corrupt in my core as a person. I am in my forties now and I still carry the shame and horror of what he did to me, I was never able to have children because of how he physically damaged me, relationships are tough, life is tough, being outside is just tough due to the amount of fear I still carry, nowhere is safe.
My stomach drops whenever I read comments questioning what Nikita should have done because I have never been brave enough to speak as loudly and as determined as Nikita, and I know those same questions would be asked of me, why I didn't speak out, shout or scream to stop him. He took my voice, I'm glad Nikita has hers.
Through the grape vine
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Official news just in!!!! Musgraves retail group Ireland (Centra & Supervalu) effective immediately must remove all forged stout / cider / proper 12 by end of today!!!! Wahoooooooooooooo
writteninthestars
Well-known member
Right I take it all back, she is a simple cunt.
Lim1947
Chatty Member
Deluded
paintbynumbers
Well-known member
Having all of this out in public, having him sitting in a public court having to admit to a lot of this seedy crap, driving around in a car filled with coke, picking up girls at 10 in the morning to party in a hotel while he has that same pregnant partner at home that he rolls out for his media circuses, his brand and image is tarnished forever it can't be undone. She might not win this case but she's won. She's really outted him for what he really is. She's done better than so many others that took his dirty money and went away. She's really impressive having the strength to do this knowing all her own dirty laundry has to come out in the wash too.
FrizzWarrior
Active member
Absolutely 100% NOT. Plenty of people came from humble beginnings and made money and did not behave like Scumbag Thug Rapists. I hope Karma is a real thing and he gets what he deserves. Him and his appalling "friends".I kind of actually feel sorry for Conor
He is someone who came from nothing & made a lot of money, mind you I don’t understand or see how you could make that money.
He just can’t see it, that he paying for everything, drink, nightclubs, Coke, fancy holidays, private jets for so called friends who are only cling ons & leeches (the brother in law, Terry kavanagh)
They will be all gone, when the money dries up, he is basically spending his kids money for the future on his so called friends
He seems to have just gone to far now, he thinks he is “ untouchable”
God love him, when the money is gone or he gets banged up for something, he will come down with such a bang & the rest of his family will do.
They won’t know what hit them all. No one will touch any of them, as they have no class
rattleprattle
Chatty Member
She’s the only woman that has successfully steeled herself and stood up against him in a court of law, despite the serious threats to her life, the behemoth that is his wealth and a legion of fanboys online only willing to tear her down for not being a “perfect” virginal victim. She’d have had so much less trouble to just have settled, taken the money and disappeared. But she wanted what he did and what he is to be brought out into the light of day.
I think she’s a fucking hero.
CherryMotel
Active member
LOL remember this?
James Lawrence: "She is now fully liable for all my legal fees
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Judge:
James Lawrence: "She is now fully liable for all my legal fees
"Judge:
When it comes to women we can never be the perfect victim, we're held up to a standard men never are, shame on anyone especially any women questioning Nikitas behaviour while not holding McRapist to the same standard, everything she did, he did......and then he raped her.
We can never win, Nikita could have been a virgin nun kidnapped off the street and the argument would be, well she shouldn't have been out walking.
Over 50% of women have been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives, so either it's you or your mother going on probability, if you're questioning Nikitas behaviour, give your head a wobble, and imagine if your or your mothers every move was questioned in relation to a sexual assault, what underwear you wore, how much you drank, your sexually history, literally everything is thrown at women and men are given a good character reference.
Giving the 'Devils Advocate' incels an ounce of attention is a disservice to women.
We can never win, Nikita could have been a virgin nun kidnapped off the street and the argument would be, well she shouldn't have been out walking.
Over 50% of women have been sexually assaulted at some point in their lives, so either it's you or your mother going on probability, if you're questioning Nikitas behaviour, give your head a wobble, and imagine if your or your mothers every move was questioned in relation to a sexual assault, what underwear you wore, how much you drank, your sexually history, literally everything is thrown at women and men are given a good character reference.
Giving the 'Devils Advocate' incels an ounce of attention is a disservice to women.
I got up at 5am
VIP Member
She said herself for a party. Nobody goes out thinking they will get raped! She doesn’t deserve any blame here. It’s him, he is a vicious sick thug who gets his kicks from beating & raping women.
kittycatkitty
Chatty Member
Sat at home heavily pregnant all alone with a toddler during those days and night while her own fella was on a bender and she’s judging Nikita…. Jesus she’s some tramp
Lionessence
Active member
Can say with absolute certainty I’ve never done any of thisTo be honest for a few minutes, there’s been a lot of vitriol these last few days (including myself) about instahuns commenting/not commenting, supporting/staying silent etc.
however…..
We’ve all known who CMcG is & his reputation far precedes this incident
-How many of us have gone onto the BPerfect 50c sale over last few years ?
-How many of us bought MRS makeup, knowing her in-laws were convicted animal abusers?
-How many of us have bought Voduz, knowing it comes from China?
-How many of us have gone to the Olympia pantomime last few years?
-How many of us have gone to the ‘Forge’ as our ‘auntie/neighbour/granny’ said the food is good
-I’m sure some of us have imperfect housecoats or sweatshirts?
When we’ve all looked inward, we need to stop taking our vitriol out on other women & turn this situation into positives -GoFundMe me if required for Nikita- remember who the perpetrator is !
just my 2 cents
and it wasn’t hard to avoid either
ReginaPhalange4
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Any CCTV is irrelevant. The lead up to sexual activity is irrelevant. A person could be fully consenting, begin the act and then change their mind and remove consent. Continuing is rape. Teach all your children that, Dee 
Spoofersthelotofthem
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Sky news reporter live on sky now to McGregor as he walked to his car.
"Mr McGregor, you're a rapist what do you think?"
Brilliant
"Mr McGregor, you're a rapist what do you think?"
Brilliant
Peonyrose
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‘Go home and put your shoes on’This cunt commenting on the protest for Nikita
WEAK!Tequila Mockingbird
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I’ll warn my sons about girls like you but protect the father of my daughter. Fucked up shit man. I’ve been love bombed trauma bonded thats cult shitDees instagram