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Starr · Aug 19, 2022

Let the games begin!

RocketQueen · Jan 1, 2023

therealamylynn said:
Why does she always have to be over the top with everything? Changing decor, a pasta bar, charcuterie boards.

Why not just make a nice lasagna or stuffed shells and a salad with some good italian bread and butter? Nope she'd rather have dried out pasta over sterno with canned sauces. She's a joke.

Because of the money. Until late 2018 they were broke. As they started making YT money, she suddenly started adding "decor" to the rental.
They got rid of the bulk of their used mismatched furniture, and bought their first new living room furniture.
Then cars, trips to all the YT conventions, no more splurge night at Chick-A-Fila, now they ate at the Mexican place and Dim Sum.
They never used to have a tradition of matching pjs, excessive decor, and these over the top meals/parties, not until they moved into Mold Manor.
She decided then that she was going to start living the life she always felt she deserved.
She was finally going to be a Southern Belle- sipping coffee at her little wrought iron table by the pool, or staring out of her french doors.
She could become the ultimate hostess and Mom Chef because she could actually afford to shop without a budget.
And both her and Asa live this lie. Shes always been the over-the-top hostess/party/holiday/tradition Queen, they claim.
Yet all anyone has to do is go back to the beginning, and see this is all BS.
I think this is why Isaiah was frustrated this year. Those stupid pj's werent really a "tradition". He was 17 when they started that shit.

Hotographer512 · May 1, 2023

Sweetums said:
Today's was "be kind to everyone " I think.

That only applies to everyone but him.
How kind does he think he was being when he contacted that girl's employer?
What about when he never updated the child support court about his change in income?
How kind has he been all these years to his 1st daughter?
The list of him being a total dick is long.
He's the furthest thing from kind there is!!!

What the .... · Sep 22, 2022

Noir Fan · Jul 24, 2022

I have been here since December 2019 and this group has always been on Abbie’s side. We see the anxiety, the crying at Hockey games, the bragging about ‘progress’, the boo-hoo videos, and the MLM scams. However there is much we don’t see…I wish I knew the whole truth.

WallFly · Oct 29, 2022

Pink Marshmallow said:
So, question for our tattler parents of neurodivergent kids, how do you feel about the topic that Asshat (and Cillame) brought up in the last few minutes of the vlog which was talking about grieving the things that your child might not, probably won't, or definitely won't do in life?
Asshat mentioned how P got very emotional and was crying at Becca's wedding during the father-daughter dance because that's something that Abbie will never do. Asshat blathers on talking about grieving those moments is normal and you shouldn't feel guilty for it. He says it's something that's going to continue happening and that you get used to it in some ways and you learn to deal with it and don't get into a deep depression over it.

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Princess Cillame has had multiple meltdowns on the vlog over Abbie not reaching certain milestones or not doing or having certain things that Cillame dreams that Abbie should do or have and the fact that she likely never will. One example is Abbie's Birthday gifts, P was most definitely in a deep depression in that vlog. You'd think there'd been a death in the family. Bawling her eyes out about how they'll never buy Abbie her first car, how she can't get Abbie all these stereotypical 'typical teenage girl' gifts that P had in mind. Saying she'd been super stressed out for days and the birthday gift shopping totally drained her. Tonight, Asshat was trying to make it sound like they are the most accepting of Abbie that they've ever been, they don't get nearly as upset or depressed as they used to and so on when that is NOT the truth.

So, the second half of my question is how much do you grieve for the things your kid(s) don't do and won't do... all of that... and what is your opinion on how A&P handle it (versus the bullshit Asshat was spewing tonight)..??

Being head of an autistic house hold myself...we've dealt with acceptance understanding ...grieving but to be completely honest... We chose to celebrate the accomplishments and enjoy our children for who they are. I look at Priscilla and her fake tears...and know it's her feeling sorry for herself and what SHE might not get... We know she cries when she doesn't get her Easter basket.... So it's obvious her years are for her...and only her.
She's worried about Abbie not getting her father daughter dance?? Really?? Does she ever think of Asa's OTHER daughters tears??? I have a teen age daughter whose father walked out on her at age 2... I KNOW her hurts, her tears...
Priscilla only years up for HER loss... HER selfishness.

Btw.... Our autistic child does not trick or treat anymore .... We dress up give out candy...and have fun...

Priscilla and Asa change their stories and lies So often it's clearly for content. One day Priscilla is saying Abbies a typical teenager...with her besties...and it's girls night...then they dress her up like an 8 yr. Old for halloween... It's all about content..nothing's ever done purely for Abbies happiness or well being.

They make me sick.

Bogey · Sep 4, 2023

WowMeowMeowWow said:
Hey Hey! What do you American tattlers have going on for Labor Day?
Y’all turning up Trulys, Margaritas, Jello shooters?
Smoking something from the shoulder of an oinker?

I imagine second breakfast has come to pass at The Maassive Manor. Thnack time is quickly approaching, closely followed up by ranch sandwiches and chips for lunch. They will probably be drunk by 2 pm…floating around on the pool barge…getting those genetic chocolate chipth nice and crispy.
I found a Labor Day theme song for them to rock out to while water wallering.
Hope y’all have one hell of a honking good day.

We're doing hard labor. Building our forever home. It's not a moldy minor, but it's all we'll ever need.

And we have the best help.

WowMeowMeowWow · Jun 4, 2023

Thanks so much for the votes guyth! Let us all hold hands and skip right in to this new thread.

Cardinal Rule · Oct 16, 2022

Hey, Priscilla. When you keep referring to Abbie as AssA’s daughter, take a look in the mirror…a good, long, hard look.

JunoandMaya · Apr 24, 2024

Monkey1651 said:
Why did SB not have a suit already? Did he not go to job interviews? Maybe that’s why he could only get a job with camp creepy. I’ve always dressed up for interviews. Guys should at least wear a shirt and tie, or a blazer and dress pants.

**This!! My oldest son has always dressed up for interviews. Although GB has put on weight since being back at the 'ole Manor so maybe he needed a new one.

Taking a minute to brag on my guy with autism/ID and Tourette's here. I got a call the other day from his school speech therapist. Normally I only get calls from the school related to his behavior, but this was something wonderful! He has met his goal for speech therapy this year and we needed to change it! In his IEP, the goal is that he will use his AAC device or his verbal speech to respond socially with peers 5 times over 3 consecutive speech sessions. He has done it, and we simply increased it from 5 times to 10. He has really thrived this year and has met a couple of other IEP goals too, which is fantastic. He has made so much progress just in the last two years of school. He has about a year and a half left before he ages out and I am terrified but optimistic that we can find some vocational things for him to do. He needs 100% supervision, but he has loved doing small jobs at the local Autism Society and has truly found something he can do well in. By pulling Abbie from school years before her time was up, they may have short changed her on some very real progress.

cucumber · Oct 17, 2022

Does that desk for Abbie look kinda small? Almost like a kid's desk? Or is it just me?

Also everyone remember! "Priscilla has a lot of meetings. I mean A LOT of meetings"
The way Ass talks you'd think she was some kinda nuclear scientist.

WowMeowMeowWow · Aug 12, 2023

MEOW

JunoandMaya · Wednesday at 1:16 PM

Just watched part of last night's video. People, please don't listen to him when it comes to setting goals for your loved ones with a disability (or any kid for that matter). You want to set ATTAINABLE goals for them to reach, not UNREALISTIC ones. Setting unrealistic goals will not help them. It will make them only more frustrated and less likely to achieve what you want them to. No teacher or therapist would ever go along with setting goals that are not attainable. It's literally in the description for writing things like IEP's. Goals are to be very specific, attainable, and measurable. I have not watched the whole video yet, but this could very well be a reason he butts heads with a lot of professionals. Working on my son's anxiety wasn't just taking him to theme parks/restaurants etc for "exposure". We took very calculated baby steps and worked our way up. Setting REALISTIC short term goals which he could then feel good about achieving (I could tell visibly that he was proud of himself for these small accomplishments, and his efforts were rewarded with both praise and tangible reward if desired). Even the Exposure Therapy he talks about sets small, attainable goals to accomplish regularly. Yes, the END goal was to be able to run errands and just be able to do life with our son. How we got there was very thoughtfully designed between us and our therapists.

Srsmom · Mar 12, 2024

They missed deleting these…maybe we’ll get some new Tattlers.

MaidenX · May 5, 2023

Ass is on full alert deleting any comment mention the new video. Poor guy having to work extra hard policing comments

PugliaLiving · May 9, 2023

Asa says Abbie goes for the soft flesh on Priscilla. What other type of flesh does that fatso have?

What the .... · Jul 29, 2023

Ooooooo. Big bad Asshat looking out for the weak defenseless woman folk.
Yeah right...
Here is how it really went ..

Kimmied · Oct 14, 2022

I’m trying to catch up again. I’d like to thank all of you for caring about me and my family. It was so sweet of you all trying to help us out. I cried a lot. I’d love to meet you guys under slimshadetree. It’s nice there. We managed and I can’t believe any of it really happened. Throw in that awful week I had, my very close friend had a massive heart attack and didn’t pull through.
I’m having a hard time with my speech and words. Please excuse me if I mess up. I’m trying to just live and it’s so frustrating to not be able to get the words out or to even remember what I started saying.
Also I had so much to say last thread but the only thing I’m remembering (aside from the reminder of no panty bitch) is how sad I am for Abbie. Her parents are fuckwads, it hurts my stomach seeing what’s been done to her. I’m not watching any more, I’ll get my info here instead.