I know a fantastic nurse who is a size 28 (UK) at just under 5ft 5. She has A LOT of health conditions, she literally collects a carrier bag at the pharmacy once a week while everyone else walks out with a little paper bag and rather than one of those ‘days of the week’ pill boxes she has to use a huge plastic box usually used to sort nails/screws etc.
Those medications cause her to find it hard to lose weight and make her hungrier than usual. Her health conditions make it hard for her to exercise.
She became a nurse as she spent her whole childhood dealing with some of those health conditions and has so much understanding and empathy for other people who are the same. She also developed some as a teenager and as a new mum meaning she has experience that comes across when dealing with patients who might be experiencing the same.
She is a lovely, kind, helpful woman who raised her children to be the same, dedicated her life to the nhs and would never be so judgemental.
People who think being thin makes them a good/better person than a fat person are very wrong. And not everyone can be thin. If it was so easy why wouldn’t everyone just be thin and therefore not have to deal with nasty/judgemental people, not being able to find clothes, being uncomfortable, the health problems and whatever else.