I hate catcalling. I don’t think it’s flattering at all and when it’s happened to me, I’ve always felt threatened and uncomfortable.
One time, when I was 17 and walking to college, I walked past a white van. Two youngish guys inside started leering at me. “Mmm don’t you look nice.” “What a pretty dress.”. There was no one else around and I was terrified they were just going to grab me.
Another time I was walking to college, a man on the other side of the road in a car shouted over that I should come get in his car because I was pretty. Once again, felt super vulnerable and was also a minor.
Although if it were illegal at the time, I do wonder what would have come of my cases. With no one else around it would have been my word against theirs.
Also, reading the daily Mail comments from the article (I know they’re usually bad anyway
) it’s very negative, saying people should get a grip etc. I would probably be too scared to report to the police in case I got a very dismissive police officer who also shared the same opinions.
Oh there’s also a lady in the comments saying she’s 50 and misses those days. I hate it when people say that too. It’s never made me feel pretty or boosted my confidence. It’s made me feel scared.