PinkBogeyBreath
Chatty Member
Had an argument with someone today. Both horrible to each other. But somehow I feel like I should be the one apologising? She instigated it but I reacted instead of walking off.
Does anyone else do this? Someone else kicks off at you and you argue back and then feel guilty afterwards?
I gave into the feeling before and tried apologising for what I said but she just kicked off again instead. I know that with some people an apology is never enough because they prefer the rage and drama of it all afterwards, and then with some other people they convince themselves that they had no part in the situation kicking off and are completely a victim of your terrible behaviour so an apology will never be enough. I don’t know why I can’t accept that though when it happens
So now I just feel guilty and I’m starting to doubt myself that it was actually all me but it wasn’t!
Is anyone else like this with this kind of stuff? I feel drained!
Does anyone else do this? Someone else kicks off at you and you argue back and then feel guilty afterwards?
I gave into the feeling before and tried apologising for what I said but she just kicked off again instead. I know that with some people an apology is never enough because they prefer the rage and drama of it all afterwards, and then with some other people they convince themselves that they had no part in the situation kicking off and are completely a victim of your terrible behaviour so an apology will never be enough. I don’t know why I can’t accept that though when it happens
So now I just feel guilty and I’m starting to doubt myself that it was actually all me but it wasn’t!
Is anyone else like this with this kind of stuff? I feel drained!