It's basically been Autumn since last September lol,with a freak few days of heat. I love Autumn it's my absolute favourite season but not for 3/4 of the year. I just want some sort of normal seasonal weather. I do find it odd that pretty much everywhere else,the weather follows a pretty regular pattern,bar the UKPisses me right off we have literally just entered summer enjoy this season dont wish time away for bloody autumn anyone who i come into contact that dares mention anything autumnal you are getting told off
And anyone who refers to the "ber months" needs a slap.Pisses me right off we have literally just entered summer enjoy this season dont wish time away for bloody autumn anyone who i come into contact that dares mention anything autumnal you are getting told off
I am currently sitting in my lounge with the lights on because it's so dark and raining ... in bloody June!! Two weeks ago I couldn't move because of the mad heat. It's mad.It's basically been Autumn since last September lol,with a freak few days of heat. I love Autumn it's my absolute favourite season but not for 3/4 of the year. I just want some sort of normal seasonal weather. I do find it odd that pretty much everywhere else,the weather follows a pretty regular pattern,bar the UK
For the most part she is good. She is the friend I do the most with gigs/holidays etc. She can be a bit oblivious about certain things though and in her own little bubble at times.yes, this is crappy from your friend. She made the plans with you first and is going back on that commitment and making you feel you are disposable for this other friend.
How good is your friendship? Is this a blip and you could let her know how you feel? Or has she form for this because if the latter this is not a good friend
Would you be comfortable telling her how you feel? She may be oblivious but I think it's important to give people you care about a chance to right rubbish behaviour (unless it's repeated) or at least realise the impact of their actionsFor the most part she is good. She is the friend I do the most with gigs/holidays etc. She can be a bit oblivious about certain things though and in her own little bubble at times.
I have nothing nice to say about this. Did he empty the contents of his laundry basket into the suitcase?Husband - I've packed
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What the actual duck is this?
duck knows. I've text him and said who the duck packed your case, a blind 2 year old?!I have nothing nice to say about this. Did he empty the contents of his laundry basket into the suitcase?
As much as I'm a petty witch I just couldn't leave it like this. 10 minutes. That's all it took. Lazy bHusband - I've packed
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What the actual duck is this?
I do a lot of things solo..have gone on holidays and to gigs solo but right now I really just want to go with a friend. We have tickets to lots of other gigs this summer and we are doing a long haul trip together later this year.I agree with this.
You have every right to be annoyed. Go by yourself, I am a great believer in not missing out on things I want to do. And as she has shown herself to be flaky, I'd be very wary of making plans with her again.
The more i thought about it over the weekend I think I will say something. I plan to say that 1 weeks isnt enough particularly for a BBQ and I dont want someome thinking they are just my backup option by asking them now. I'm going to say that I dont want her going as a favour to me and if she doesnt want to go I will go on my own.Would you be comfortable telling her how you feel? She may be oblivious but I think it's important to give people you care about a chance to right rubbish behaviour (unless it's repeated) or at least realise the impact of their actions
I personally wouldn’t feel like a back up option if I get invited after the fact, especially if the ticket is free!I do a lot of things solo..have gone on holidays and to gigs solo but right now I really just want to go with a friend. We have tickets to lots of other gigs this summer and we are doing a long haul trip together later this year.
The more i thought about it over the weekend I think I will say something. I plan to say that 1 weeks isnt enough particularly for a BBQ and I dont want someome thinking they are just my backup option by asking them now. I'm going to say that I dont want her going as a favour to me and if she doesnt want to go I will go on my own.
We have lots of other concerts together this year (some which involve travelling outside our city) and we also have a pretty big trip together later this year. Part of me doesnt want to rock the boat but I think i'm going to say it. It would be very different if it was something else or some sort of emergency but a bbq for friends that live close to her....i think i need to say it.
omg me too he has 2 cupboards full of his tit and i cant wait for him to die first so i can bin it allMy husband is a serial hoarder. He keeps some rit. Yet complains about how there is so much stuff everywhere. I am quite minimalist. I have fantasies about skips and binning it all!
social media has corrupted people to believe ber months (sorry) are cosy for candles etc its social medias fault and the sheep followAnd anyone who refers to the "ber months" needs a slap.
Nobody will ever convince me that a season where everything dies, and the weather gets more grey and miserable by the day, is the best time of year.
you need to get the husband to look after the kid. A bleeping cough ffs pull your tit out and you need to go get the most gigantic coffee in whatever coffee shops near you and work thereI’ve just spilled beetroot juice over my fairly new Ugg slippers. Combined with dealing with a child with a stomach bug since 11pm last night, a husband with a cough & cold, WFH with both of them here I’m about to loose the plot.
To be fair he’s WFH too (he’s been downstairs with her ,I’ve been upstairs in my office) so has been helping with our daughter today.you need to get the husband to look after the kid. A bleeping cough ffs pull your tit out and you need to go get the most gigantic coffee in whatever coffee shops near you and work there