Even without the right support around, new mummy's can do a brilliant job. They listen to the midwives/doctors/health visitors and nowadays they've the Internet on their phones so seek advice of Google if needed and want to do the absolute best for their wee ones.
The way she gets on is all for show and being a pick-me... I think this is the right way to use this term.
No one year old needs an ipad. They need interactive toys, to help them walk, or in Stories case crawl, help them talk, recognise different colours and shapes and books for mum/dad to read to them and loads prefer remotes and keys lol My kids got Ipads in secondary school because that's whenever they needed them more, especially with Covid and lock down. At Stories age they'd age appropriate toys and me and their dad down on the floor playing with them. We even did the same when our niece's were little and we had them and now with our nephew who is 1 because kids need that.