MrsOgre
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I went to see my dad today and had a good chat to him. The funeral director was very respectful and supportive, he had covered dad's face with a cloth and I didn't want to see his face, I could only see his hands and he was fully dressed. I felt a strong sense of calm and so relaxed there and I feel I've properly said goodbye now. My husband was with me for support, that really helped and he did look at dad and said he looks very peaceful. We both had a good cry at first and then I just felt very calm.
If anyone has any doubt like I did, ask the funeral director for guidance, bring someone close for support and also that you can change your mind at any point. I had asked if there's a reception area at the chapel of rest, so I could bottle out if I needed to.
If anyone has any doubt like I did, ask the funeral director for guidance, bring someone close for support and also that you can change your mind at any point. I had asked if there's a reception area at the chapel of rest, so I could bottle out if I needed to.