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Melody556

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This seems like stuff most YouTubers get into though, light scamming and heavy consumption, not just her. I don't know. I just can't muster any outrage over her actions. And I don't know Gary's motivations back when he was dating so I can't speak to that.
I agree. It is not just on youtube as well it's absolutely everywhere. Corruption is in the pulse of daily life. It's just amplified with influencers and celebrities and people enjoy spectating
 
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Melody556

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Urm a man many many years older seeking out and then settling down with a very young girl who is barely old enough to have lived much of an independent life after her teen years is problematic full stop and there are layers to this from misogyny, power that men assume over men, the age dynamic (which is incredibly important and overlooked and condoned far too much). To me, these actions are very questionable and give me a negative view of his character
I totally see your point but I doubt either of them even knew the definition of misogyny when they got married. Her mother was in fact the one who encouraged her to marry him. In a consentual relationship age gaps are not always morally wrong, creepy yes but not necessarily bad. I do truly hope Valeria is safe and happy with Gary
 
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Chisme

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I see what you mean. Her style seems more savvy high street than high end designer. Like I always expect the items to be quite cheap given how they come across but nope. I would love to see her swanning around in public giving it the big one when I doubt anyone in the fashion industry would bat an eyelid.
 
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missmina

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The most important factor with all of this is Valeria's own opinions on her marriage. Why don't we let her speak for herself if she is experiencing oppressive misogyny? We should also share genuine concern and empathy for her if she is being harmed in any way. Simply hating on their relationship is pointless if we don't actually care about her safety. I believe she can speak for herself about her own life
She wouldn't say anything cause she doesn't wanna out herself. She loves that her followers believe their marriage was out of love not for money/ young chick. Besides she knew what she was signing up for. She had a choice so I don't feel bad for her at all. But at the same time their relationship is gross.
 
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Rosie34567-2

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I think Gary needs to stop (or Valeria needs to stop Gary) from trying to make themselves a dynamic duo. Valeria is the brand.
I totally agree. No one wants to see Gary.

This came up on my FYP and they’re both on the Skinny Confidential podcast and he’s talking shit about raising boys and I love some of these comments
Wtf Valeria?! At this point (especially in 2025) I'm so done with women being complicit with their husbands' asshole behavior. This isn't the 1800s where women had zero choices. Every time she allows him on her platform, she is complicit. Every day that she remains married to him, she is complicit. What you permit you promote. Therefore she is equally responsible for his misogynistic, creepy, controlling, etc. behavior AND ALSO the damage that is being done to their children. The fact that she has publicly promoted Gary for so long means that all of these opinions ARE her brand now. Her brand is forever tainted.

I have zero sympathy for her at this point. She has money. She has connections. She could get divorced, but she isn't. Therefore, I'm now lumping her together with Gary. 🤷‍♀️
 
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watchingsunrise

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Honestly she could do better with her looks. Not to mention he isn’t even rich, it’s her making most of the money either way lol
Even Gary admitted that her exes before him were wealthier. He sounded intimidated. Yeah, Valeria could have gotten a wealthier man, but the wealthier the man, the more insane he and at least Gary is at home with them.
 
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watchingsunrise

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I think she has definitely realised in the last year or two that she got completely scammed by him 😂 he’s a housewife without having to do any of the traditional chores, so not only that but she’s the one paying for cleaners and nanny’s
It’s giving weird father / daughter energy she has major daddy issues
I just know she calls him daddy in the bedroom
Especially with her obsession with feeling and looking 15.
 
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watchingsunrise

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Anyone else find the Mother’s Day card thing Ben did for her a bit odd?
He drew his mother on the cover of Vogue, said she was like his god and still looks 16. Which 9 yr old knows what Vogue is and would say this about their mother. Seems a bit fake to me.

To be fair, Ben is a unique kid.
 
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MargaritaMay

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When I see them together or anytime he's all over her, posing, grabbing her tiny frame with his big old-man hands, I think of the blog LaineyGossip, where they would play this game of "Imagine him on top of her :sick:😖..." (regarding often much younger celebrities with an older, unattractive, gross guy...)
 
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Silly Sausage

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First time time poster in this thread.
She was sponsoring her YouTube and Instagram like mad because she came up on my feed despite me having nothing in common with her: I don’t live in Canada, I’m not married and no children and have never searched those things on YouTube or Instagram.
Anyway, she then appeared on dailymail about how everyone thinks she’s a teenager (side eye). Cool? Validation?
So I clicked and for someone that obsessed with their appearance her skin is...isn’t she only 34 or something? Damn. What happened between 26-34? Her complexion totally plummeted. Is that normal? She already had children when she was 26.

Sorry if my comment is off-format for this thread. I can show myself out.


Agreed. She shouldn’t have dyed it. It was so much nicer the solid rich chocolate brown.
The blonde was both a travesty and fried her hair.
Just googled her age and she just turned 30.

I have had an Ad for her Instagram show up in my feed.
 
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LydyDeG

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I came across her IG/YT content merely by chance, and the first thing I thought was that she showed her life too much, like a sort of Kardashian... And more, showing her kids too much. What if a stalker harms or kidnapps them one day ? Or that later on, they would resent to see their entire life on the internet, if they end up being bullied by other kids at scho because of embarassing content about them all over the social medias ?
She and her husband are trying to make their life a buisness, and act as if their kids were tools in it, even if they seem to love them deeply and educating them almost like a normal family...
 
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watchingsunrise

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Ever since they moved to Miami her attitude has gotten so much worse and entitled. She really comes across as a rude and spoiled brat in her videos and frankly I think it’ll be her demise. This is coming from someone who used to be a fan of her lookbooks etc but now can barely make it through a video. She doesn’t talk very nicely to Celine or the builders for her house and the attitude is just something. It’s legitimate that some the fireplace and wallpaper were damaged but how she talks about it is gives me the ick. Genuinely think we’re seeing the slow decline, especially since her fashion is no longer relatable on any degree.
Personally, I didn't think she was bad. Then again, I am binge-watching HRH Collection. Imagine HRH getting soaked wallpaper. Screams would be heard from miles around.
 
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