Twinssandme #13 Auntie Mary makes Julie cry, whispering angel makes her lie

[Genie88]

I'm not defending her cause I can't stand her but if she didn't get HAP for the house what other option would she have had? She would never be able to afford to rent privately even if she worked full time. Rent is on average €1200 pm for a very basic house, and that's the lowest you will get, her parents home isn't her home and as a grown adult she shouldn't be living with twins in her parents as it's not fair on them especially getting older,I suppose what I'm trying to say is that there is no way in hell she could ever save or get mortgage in her position, and she couldn't afford to rent privately cause it's extortionate,most couples stuggle to rent nowadays because of the ridiculous prices, so she is a perfect candidate for social housing. That's my opinion anyways.

For me it was her choice to have children without being financially secure or in a secure relationship at age 29/30. She was not a young teen or someone who had to leave a domestic situation. We the tax payers have to fund her cos she failed at a relationship. Also if her parents fostered then they had money for their own children and to take care of others. So she grew up in a good household and had all the opportunities in the world. Very privileged in my opinion. I grew up in a single household , molested since age 3 , beaten, went hungry at times, failed my leaving cert as my mother was drunk and didn't care. I left home at 17 , 2 days after my LC,no education, no family. Managed to work my way up career wise against people who went to college. Bought a house at age 25 (didn't go on multiple holidays, nights out etc) paid for my own wedding, now have a few children which are looked after very well. I choose to save for a family home since age 17 for my future children. I'm 32, literally have no family as we are all estranged due to awful childhood. My husband works away so im home completely on my own for days at a time and I have my shit together, clean house and happy children.
I am the same age as Julie BTW. Am I to have sympathy for someone who had so many advantages in life that I didnt but choose a path of entitlement over hard work? BTW I know life can be shit and people make mistakes and find themselves in not secure housing etc but Julie flaunts the welfare money and does not represent most single parents who try their hardest everyday and this one doesn't even get up to give her kids breakfast most mornings so she can watch Netflix

 

[Suzyloo]

NTT: julie julie, where could she be? "Every where hun, resterictionses don't apply to me "

 

[NoseyNiamh]

I don't know, I could be completely off the mark here, but do you think these silly Mom Fails she is posting are a bit tasteless considering the horrific news that has completely taken over the majority of all irish news and social media platforms.

RIP to all the babies that died during irelands darkest days and my thoughts are with the women affected by this

 

[Buddha]

Doesn't that just show how much of an utter cunt she is

Well I sent back a message saying, Morto for you and your ex living his best life with the new missus then I blocked her

 

[Puffin]

I don't know what it is but this week Julie is really getting on my tits !!! I'm going on a rant so bare with me

So with regards to the whole social housing HAP debate that was going on yesterday on the thread...here's my 2 cents.

I grew up in social housing / Council House in rural Ireland in the 80s/ 90s. My parents both worked, as did I once I was old enough and both my siblings are now home owners. I grew up with girls that lived at home all their lives , popped out a kid and moved 2 doors up from their home house. I couldn't stand it and couldn't wait to get out of there .

Im not knocking HAP or social housing or the majority of people who use them but I am knocking the ones that choose to avail.of every benefit going without every contributing to society. Never work, claim dole when they finish school, pop out some kids claim for them then get handed a house. And then moan when the benefits get cut when , we the tax payers fund it.

So , Julie , cos you are clearly reading here , that post this morning was a load of shite. How far you have come ??? I came from where you are now and couldn't wait to get out of that situation, it wasn't something I ever aspired to .

And as for the going back to work , what a load of bull, we all know you earn more claiming benefits than you ever would working in childcare for probably minimum wage.

So while I might seem harsh that's partly because I'm tired. I have worked 46 hours this week and I'm trying to finish my 3rd college assignment , comlege course so hopefully get a promotion and you know better myself . When I see you sit on your arse all week moaning it boils my piss ....get up off your arse and do something with your life then maybe you wouldn't keep having meltdowns

And lastly , if you didn't want kids or can't cope with them you shouldn't of had them ....end of !!.Get over your ex, stop throwing sly digs at him on Instagram cos he will never see them living his best life with his new gf in Oz and be the best PARENT you can to those kids

 

[Buddha]

Hope you're OK @Buddha xxxx

All good here, just having a lie in after working all week ya know
This one wouldn't bother me at all, my job involves working with gdpr compliance and fraud etc so unlike some people I know the law inside out on what can and can't be said/ shared on a public forum and also the steps to take should any of my private info be shared in such a way.

 

[Buddha]

Wasn't going to post this but have a look at her reply to a message sent to her yesterday, dispicable human....

 

[Buddha]

Well I'm absolutely shitting myself now lads, the guards are coming for me needless to say there was no strings of abuse from me nor was I frothing at the mouth this one is not right in the head.
Note to Julie hi hun, if you wanna get into this with me bring it but I guarantee you it will be you who comes out worse because that's a pack of lies you just told

The world is literally falling apart and Julie thinks the guards give a shite about a silly Instagram squabble (no offence @Buddha )

None taken

 

[Gym+coffee]

Her dream job is a social worker think she misspelled social welfare scammer

 

[NoseyNiamh]

Julie has found her niche. Her content is aimed towards a certain element of people... The type that refer to children's allowance as dickie money (need i say more). She is definitely not someone I would mix with in real life.
The majority of us on this will thankfully never understand that kind of behaviour.

 

[fandf2020]

With all due respect ladies I don't think the previous poster meant any offence, it's just Jûlìêèé and a few others in my opinion ( superbadmomskanger, fat and flab to whatever the fuck, Liz ravin lunatic reaney don't paint a pretty picture for the lovely county Cork. I grew up in Carrigaline and it's a fabulous place as is Cork in general. Thinking today, Julie heading away to get parents knowing people are getting pissed about it, her being around her poor vulnerable dad with her out of control kids, if she is showing that on instagram knowing the reaction of viewers along with unessential journeys to dunnes for one or two items and out buying paint then what is she NOT showing, she's not as donkey as she lets on and there's always the side you don't see so she is more than likely socialising with others too if she is so blatantly showing her down at her parents . She is a law onto herself and is going to come spiralling down hard one of these days, her reels make me vomit in my mouth they're neither funny nor witty, they're pointless and embarrassing. I'd say if her ex could see the carry on of her he'd burst his hole laughing thinking what a bullet he dodged. I know he left his kids and if it's as black and white as that it's inexcusable, but Julie is a sneaky lying dangerous bitch and I'm sure there is far more to the story than "he just left us in Ireland and hopped on a plane to Australia)

 

[Suzyloo]

Is she seriously making a joke using a comment re Magdalene laundries and the week that's in it? Its bad taste regardless, but the most horrific report of our lives was published this week and survivors are having to go through their suffering all again and julio having the lols then for her insta fam.
She has no shame or compassion

 

[Howareyahun]

I wonder where did the parents find the room in the house to foster children. Allegedly its a 3 bed house, her parents room her room and the brothers room because I do recall her saying herself and the twins had to sleep in the parents sitting room. So if there was a spare room the twins could have shared that( she could have used her own room) where was the room for the foster child that came to stay ?
Is this more porkies ??

Serious question

 

[Puffin]

There is something very fishy about the whole visa, Oz, break up , access/involvement etc thing with Julie so here's my take on it. I don't really know much about their relationship or what she did or didn't say back then but I watch alot of serial killer documentaries so like to think Im a detective so here's my thoughts

I think Julie and himself may have been on the rocks and she possibly planned to get pregnant in order to keep him cos she wouldn't be the first woman to think that would be a good idea. She came back to have the twins in Ireland cos I'd say she couldn't fart without someone holding her hand . The visa story was a load of shite cos I think the penny started to drop for Julie that if she did go back , he would be working, probably none of their friends had kids and Julie would , God for bid have to mind her own.

Things went tits up in their relationship but he still continued to see the twins then all of a sudden he was back in Oz and no contact. While I don't agree with his decision to move across the world and leave his kids cos I'm a firm believer it takes 2 to tango ...I do think there is a whole lot more to the story. And I would say he is paying maintenance don't think Julie would let him off with that.

It looks like the twins are gone and come back at around the same time every Saturday/Sunday could be his family taking them but not sure how that would work with travel restrictions

What I cannot stand and again Im nit defending him is her bad mouthing him all over Insta and Tiltok and not for his sake but for those kids. At this stage Julie just looks like the sad bitter ex who can't move on, obsessed over the first guy she matches with on Tinder and is using her kids as pawns.

What she should do is rise above it , have some dignity and self respect and keep her mouth shut in public and she can bad mouth him all she likes in private . If he is that much of a shit she has nothing to worry about the kids will find that out for themselves. Move on, give those kids some routine and get up off her lazy arse and do something with her life !!!!!!

 

[Noodles5]

RANT
Omg she really infuriates me.
Seriously she don't know how lucky she has it. Its all me me with her.
God forbid if she had a child with a disability how'd she cope. Stuck at home.
I worked for 20 + yrs struggled to get pregnant few miscarriages then had my beautiful boy he's 6 now and has autism i left my job 3 yrs ago to look after him . Cause no family help or child minders (with hours to suit) so had no choice with the stress of work & his diagnosis i left.. I would give anything to be back working if could.. I hate hate having tell people iam a career cause you do get looked at as if to say your a scrounger.
I don't get no help from the council etc. We struggle but we get by.
Julie sickings me the way she flaunts money about and the poor me single parent shit.
Does she ever wonder how people with huge familys yrs ago or now even survived like the fathers off working or have passed away. Like my grandmother raised 10 on her own.. OR the familys out there who would love a child but not possible.
She had her kids so she should rair them not her parents or brother.. he needs to grow a pair of balls 2 and tell her to fuck off.
OK ill stop now or ill get carried away

Oh and I hope she gets reported for constantly breaking covid guidelines.

 

[martha82]

Julie wouldn’t have a clue. Tasteless is an understatement. Sure didn’t a wee baby die in Ireland somewhere when the dad accidently left the baby in the back seat when he was at work during a hot day?
Yes, being a parent is hard, yes your mind is mush and memory crap at times from tiredness etc but why in hell would you laugh at some of these stories?
My child fell out of their car seat when they were 6 wks old, I hadn’t them strapped in & the seat was on the kitchen floor. I had only set them in for a minute til I moved something & when I went to lift them out I went to click the carry handle back first & instead it tipped the whole thing forward & they fell out. The baby was ok, not hurt at all. But I still went straight to A&E to get them checked & I was sick with worry. To this day only me & my other half know about it, I’ve never felt so guilty in my life. I was so embarrassed that I was so stupid. Surely these are normal mother feelings? I didn’t post it on insta or write into bad mom club. How anyone who has either lost a child or can’t have children can watch Julie is beyond me. Two healthy children & she can’t stand to be alone with them!

 

[Gina32]

She must never stop reading here. Hey Julie c’mere, having no milk for your young children’s breakfast after making several unnecessary trips to supermarkets in the past few days isn’t a “mom fail”, it’s being an utterly useless, self centred idiot who is proving time and time again to be incapable of the smallest of tasks and basic organisation. It’s grand to be going around acting the donkey and playing up to this air head persona you for some reason think is cool when you’re only looking after yourself, if you’re comfortable with looking like a dunce, but once you’ve two little people depending on you it’s time to pull the finger out and wise up. Also, I am by no means a “perfect parent” but I do my absolute best, and having arseholes with the same intelligence level as yourself sending in stories of forgetting small babies in places and finding toddlers drinking hand sanitiser is not entertaining, it’s actually really concerning.

 

[Buddha]

Busy doing dad stuff??? What planet is she on my hubby goes for cupcakes with our daughter and I go playing football with our sons, genuinely baffled by the stereotyping here

 

[Say-it-like-it-is]

Have lived in Cork, (near the city) my whole life and honestly don't know anyone who sounds like that. Seems to be the insta wanabees are forcing the accent to be noticed i assume/for attention. No idea why anyone would want to sound like that.
But I guess you could say the same for any other county - take Dublin for example, you've the really "scumy knack dub hard to understand" accent but again not everyone in Dublin talks like that, majority don't. Every county has their own. Just turns out the Cork wanabees seem to think it's cool, they're like 12 yr olds they're so embarrassing.

Julie is baffling, look back on her oldest story highlights, she was never this bad. And as for the poor spelling and grammar - that's just laziness. God help the poor twins, you'd worry.

Exactly, I'm sick shit of the "Is this a Cork thing" comments......ridiculously assuming the whole of Cork is like that thing, she represents no-one other than herself. Do we all assume Dublin people are like Claire Balding?? Julie is common as muck, glad to say myself and most self respecting people wouldn't associate with the likes of her. People need to have a bit of intelligence and stop assuming the whole of a County speaks and acts like her.

 

[Dbloggs]

Folks.. Are those pull ups I see in the trolly? I'm assuming night time ones... But at 3?.. Sweet Jesus.. My asd boy was well out of those by 3.. Well out of them... Sorry if I'm coming accross as harsh I dont mean to but seriously... Should they not be gone past using them

My daughter is 3 next month, super intelligent, has perfect vocabulary but just isn't ready to be potty trained yet. Not all kids hit the same milestones at the same age.