I've read this thread for such a long time, and always hope that you ladies trying for a baby will get your positives one day 🤍
In my day, there wasn't all these early testing things, you had to wait until you'd missed a period to test at all, even then the doctors tests weren't reliable until about 2 months, even later.
I don't think sometimes all these early testing things before you've even missed a period are helpful, from what I read, it's common you get false positives or get 'chemicals' (whatever that is), and it upsets you all, is it worth the stress and heartbreak always testing early ladies? Before a missed period? Xx
I appreciate what you’re saying and yes perhaps it’d be better if you couldn’t test early but you can so the temptation is there.
To me TTC can be like being hungry, it’s feels almost physical. Not like waiting for Christmas Day to see if you got what you wanted, feeling excited and curious but like being starving so opening every cupboard and box, looking for a scrap because you’re desperate to find something. It’s extremely hard to suppress.
Pregnancy tests can be like a mirage when you’re dying of thirst, staring to see a line that appears as a smudge then it travels along the test until it disappears and is ultimately negative but you keep looking hoping it reappears.
I know symptom spotting is unreliable, a faint line could be false but it’s that little bit of hope before starting again for a month.
I know that sounds dramatic but when you want nothing more in the world it’s so hard not to keep seeking it.
Anyway, thanks for the responses ladies. AF arrived this eve. I’m not usually this anxious about it but this month it ran away with me, everything had aligned. Hopefully next month I can be more rational.