Hello everyone
This is my first ever post here, I've been reading through the pages on this thread and im relieved to discover I wasn't imagining things.
To surmise my view: I think Holly is a deeply troubled and mentally ill manipulative person. She treats her wife, followers, her pets and frankly herself with no respect or moral compass. She's almost become the perfect user for Tiktok as she meets the perfect criteria for their poor ethics.
I am sure Holly will continue to read these posts and possible Jess, what I think would be best for them, is to no longer stay together. The misery in that house and the tiny glimpses we see of their emotionless dynamic speaks for itself.
Holly is projecting her severe mental health issues onto Jess and manipulated the dynamics of the relationship to suit her lack of interest in being a productive healthy person with a screed of interest in being a good partner to Jess.
We all must remember that how people treat others is a reflection of how they are feeling and how unhealthy and toxic they are. Holly should not be online or in a relationship as she is unfit. The same applies to her being a pet owner as I have never once seen them being walked, played with and rarely given affection.
The best thing for everyone to do is stop watching her. Stop feeding into her cycle of toxicity because she is losing control now and I believe she will take it out on Jess and the dogs.
I hope if you are reading this Jess you know that we can see how poorly you are treated and you deserve so much better.
And Holly, take this forum as a wake-up call. It is not a hate crime, it is an anti-lies, manipulation, abuse, bullying and truth exposing platform and nobody is here to misgender you. We have all observed your behaviour for hours for months and we have a fair idea of what's going on.
Do the right thing for your life, Jess and above all else your mental well being.
You've run out of the lies, you are going to shoot yourself in the foot because people are going to come down so hard on you and it will make your life miserable. It's time to take accountability over your toxicity and sort your life out.