@Bezolabub check out soberistas (google them) you have to pay if you want to contribute but it's well worth it and only around £60 per year (I think!) that's less than I used to spend on wine in a month but the wonderful (mainly women) on there are very supportive and there are so many inspiring reads. I think you'd find help there when you have a wobble, it's a really positive place.
Regarding your parents, ignore them. My mother has been hinting for 16 years and I'm one of 4 of her kids. My older brother can't have kids and I've been trying for 18 months with my fella, to no avail - we're due to start the fertility tests shortly. The other two haven't provided mothers much wanted grandchildren yet either - one was supposed to get married this year but, COVID. The other is still young and care free.
It's down to you and your Mrs when you decide to start trying, not your parents. Like others have said, you're still young so if you're not 100% sure you both want the same thing I'd cut your losses. Kids are a huge deal and even trying puts pressure on a relationship!
Good luck and stay happy - whatever you do checkout the soberistas website.
Regarding your parents, ignore them. My mother has been hinting for 16 years and I'm one of 4 of her kids. My older brother can't have kids and I've been trying for 18 months with my fella, to no avail - we're due to start the fertility tests shortly. The other two haven't provided mothers much wanted grandchildren yet either - one was supposed to get married this year but, COVID. The other is still young and care free.
It's down to you and your Mrs when you decide to start trying, not your parents. Like others have said, you're still young so if you're not 100% sure you both want the same thing I'd cut your losses. Kids are a huge deal and even trying puts pressure on a relationship!
Good luck and stay happy - whatever you do checkout the soberistas website.