BettyCrockerr
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So you met your boyfriend in March - 5 months ago? 4 weeks after your relationship with your fiancé ended? And in that time there was also another guy on the scene who is now causing trouble between the two of you and somehow your landlord is involved?
that’s an awful lot of drama going on. No wonder your boyfriend is taking a step back.
honestly it all just sounds like far too much too soon. There’s no way you are over your fiancé - it’s only been a few months, you need time and space to figure out where you are now and get back to ground zero in your own life.
I can’t understand why your landlord would have your boyfriends number? What’s the connection there? And how does your landlord know this other chap who’s been causing hassle? What kind of stuff is being said?
im not sure I understand why your boyfriend can’t talk to you on the phone while he’s staying with family. I’m sure he can go somewhere private to make a call or go out for a walk or to a coffee shop etc? That sounds very odd to me.
You Can’t convince him to do anything- if you’ve contacted him/told him how you feel/that you want to talk etc and he’s not interested and is saying no - then that’s it. Pestering him and trying to force it won’t help.
take A huge step back. Leave him alone for a bit, let him have some time. If it’s meant to be, if he’s really in love with you etc he will reach out but if he doesn’t or if he’s telling you it’s over and he’s done then you have to listen to that and just accept that whatever it was, it’s finished.
that’s an awful lot of drama going on. No wonder your boyfriend is taking a step back.
honestly it all just sounds like far too much too soon. There’s no way you are over your fiancé - it’s only been a few months, you need time and space to figure out where you are now and get back to ground zero in your own life.
I can’t understand why your landlord would have your boyfriends number? What’s the connection there? And how does your landlord know this other chap who’s been causing hassle? What kind of stuff is being said?
im not sure I understand why your boyfriend can’t talk to you on the phone while he’s staying with family. I’m sure he can go somewhere private to make a call or go out for a walk or to a coffee shop etc? That sounds very odd to me.
You Can’t convince him to do anything- if you’ve contacted him/told him how you feel/that you want to talk etc and he’s not interested and is saying no - then that’s it. Pestering him and trying to force it won’t help.
take A huge step back. Leave him alone for a bit, let him have some time. If it’s meant to be, if he’s really in love with you etc he will reach out but if he doesn’t or if he’s telling you it’s over and he’s done then you have to listen to that and just accept that whatever it was, it’s finished.