Theonlygirlinthehouse #3 Fake grins a plenty, how long until the cabin is again empty?

[Pushyplumb]

You know your baby is not a baby when... he is taking drugs, beating up his brother, calling his teacher's cunts not when he goes in for an x-ray on his own.

 

[Housewife34]

Dressed in beige, boys on the rampage, everything is a favourite if it pays the right wage

 

[Okgolightly]

I deal with kids like H every day and quite frankly it’s draining the life out of me. Im called a bitch, a cunt and everything under the sun sometimes simply for trying to get students to be polite and follow the rules. I have to put up with parents like Jess and it is soul destroying to feel like a kid doesn’t respect you because their parent doesn’t. I don’t know why she thinks it’s ok to slag off his school and teachers. This job is really ducking hard and arseholes like her don’t make it easier. She makes my blood boil.

 

[Abi da Walker]

She's so the PTWM type, lets her kids go out drinking and sets zero boundaries (PTWM was posting recently about her younger daughter and stepson, who are 12-13, coming in at midnight. I mean, I'm a laid-back parent but wtf?!). I'm sure H will be bringing girls back to his shed in the garden soon if he isn't already, and no doubt she'll turn a blind eye to that too...

Just throwing condoms in through the window while shouting “Be safe, my angel!”

 

[Housewife34]

H who can’t deal with the classroom but deals with New Years Sales in London when his mum has her credit card out.

 

[Beth B]

Fairly willing to put money on it that the irretrievable nature of the breakdown of their relationship centres around her mother telling Jess a few home truths. Remember mum has been there through thick and thin and is better versed than anyone on Jess' repetitive poor life choices, heck you only have to follow Jess' account for a short period of time to see this for yourself. You can almost see it........her mum probably called H out on his behaviour/lack of discipline, or pointed out how shallow and uninvested a relationship it is Jess has with Russ when they got back together. Jess is completely incapable of holding her hands up and taking accountabilty for anything, it's always someone else's fault and I fear Nan has been thrown on the slag heap for being nothing more than a genuinely concerned mother and Nan who's watched her daughter continuously cock one thing after another up.

 

[Okgolightly]

I would be embarrassed that the only pictures my sons would take with me are when they’re swearing. It really echoes a massive issue teachers are facing at the minute- students, particularly boys I’m sad to say, who just have no respect or basic manners and it makes teaching difficult. I am really fed up of being spoken to like shit by arrogant teens who don’t seem to see the issue in calling a teacher a dickhead or a bitch. I can just envisage how Jess’ boys behave towards their teachers and how she never ever backs down. Ridiculous.

 

[Beth B]

Funding is a huge issue for schools when what little funding they have for SEN students is being pilfered by dick heads like H who have every fucking problem under the sun when in the school environment but can function perfectly fine outside the school environment....... travelling to Dubai alone, off in to London with his mates alone, holds down a part time job, has a long term functioning relationship with his girlfriend, secures a pay rise in his job.

At the end of the day calling teachers c**ts should absolutely result in a kid being removed from a classroom. If that removal means he has to sit alone in a room/corridoor for the rest of day completing token worksheets, well fuck off then and don't call your teacher such a vile term. If he called a police officer a c**t in response to any form of request/questioning from said police officer he'd potentially be arrested on the spot. If he is dicking about with drug parafinalia on school grounds he absolutely should be kicked out of the school minimally for a period of exclusion. Tough shit if he has to spend days alone as a result and looses the privilege of teacher lead lessons , don't be using drugs trying to be the big I am then.

H has access to a specialist school where they have all the time and energy to create bespoke timetables and lessons but he doesn't want to be associated with a school that have genuine specialist educational needs students due to the fact he is no more neurodiverse than a potato. H just has a raging bull of a temper as a result of emotional damage caused by both his mum and dad being unbelievably hideous people to each other throughout the nastiest of seperations.

Jess bought a private diagnosis only to use her purchase, along with her insta presence as a battering ram by which to bash every system within the school he attends. Its all she does and it is all she seems relatively successful at and that is blaming!

Not once in any of her rants has she put forward a model or clearly structure strategy to address all the things H's school fails to address. There is a reason for this because at the end of the day she doesn't want a solution, she is only fired up by opportunities to appear as a victim always.

 

[Lalla]

I'd never heard of this one before, but I saw ptwm had shared the story about her cabin so thought I'd take a look...
....and then ended up down a right rabbit hole and KNEW she would have a thread on here!

Is she really only in her 30s? Jesus she's had a hard paper round if so!
Does she not feel embarrassed about the relentless oversharing? In a 10 min skim I've read stuff about her son kicking off at school, her contraception and relationship therapy I feel embarrassed for her!

I am not a fan of putting kids (even if they are teenagers) in glorified sheds in the garden. How to either make them feel they're not a part of the family - or give them carte blanche to be getting up to all sorts out there because you can't see them!

I'd rather sleep on the sofa and give up my bedroom than my children (or stepchildren) sleep in the garden. Or you know, just make them share rooms as siblings have done for decades

 

[maytoseptember]

Anyone else get the impression she’s so jealous of her stepson for landing an extremely high profile modelling job, that she just HAD to insert that little barb at the end about being glad that there’s one less person in the house?

I thought it was very telling.

 

[Abi da Walker]

Look at his side eye, looking at her as if to say “are you seeing this?” and her smiling smugly because she’s so pleased with her life. You know what Jess, your bar is set so low those boys could take a dump on your lawn and you’d thank them for it.

 

[SkinnyMalinky]

Wonder where her B and H are going???

Borstal probably

 

[maytoseptember]

Interesting to see that B is off doing work experience with his father. She kept that one quiet. Plasters his brother’s family over her account but hasn’t said a peep about coming to an agreement with her ex.

I mean, it’s OK to keep stuff private. She broadcasts way too much family business. I just think it’s interesting that she seems to conceal things that don’t support her narrative (i.e. that her ex abandoned his sons and never sees them).

 

[Beth B]

Maybe she can quilt a blazer for B and a muzzle for H

 

[Abi da Walker]

Classy as ever. Raising another “wonderful young man”

 

[Beth B]

6 figures but they still live like sardines in a tin, regularly having to resort to selling bric-a-brac worn out tat on Facebook sales/vinted, with both her mum and Russ' parents having to cough up money for house extensions and beach huts. She's all fur coat and no knickers. She even went on the scab for carpet for the boys sheds from Russ' parents. She is such a fraud!

Russ is no dope, he knows if he puts her name on to the deeds of his house, she will scarper and hit him for half asap. She is a professional financial abuser.

 

[Abi da Walker]

She’s got a cheek - I think a strimmer is nothing compared the noise two teenagers living unsupervised in the garden might make. Or 5 boys playing football, trampolining, and fighting in that garden. I doubt she’s a quiet neighbour.

 

[#ad#gifted#pr]

I'm a Teacher....its draining day in day out some days. Some days we have our own personal things going on at home which we have to "leave at the door" as we are here to teach the kids...nurture them...guide them...be there for them.
Work beyond our hours to help them get a better future..sometimes sacrifice our own time with friends and families....
But that 1 day you feel like you are at breaking point....and 1 little jumped up "Nuero Diverse or not" child calls you the C word or tells you to Fuck off....that....that just knocks the wind from you sometimes. We don't always get things right..but by God we try our best.
We cant retalliate and argue them back. We get on with it...but days can be hard and sometimes Jess needs to think how others feel. Hearing her pampered prince's call people that. As they may not be having a good time either .....

 

[Okgolightly]

She is such a dick. As a teacher I can guarantee she meets the same 2 members of staff each time because the other teachers are fed up of dealing with her and find her combative and pig headed. It’ll have been put in a way that makes her feel like it’s her decision to only see those 2 members of staff but I’m pretty confident it wasn’t.

 

[Wizzywoo2]

If my primary school aged child showed me that much disrespect after I'd taken him and a friend out for the day his Christmas would be bloody cancelled. Clearly learning from his chavvy vile older brothers.