No I get it, I guess she/her family wanted to grieve in private before the influx of “I’m so sorry hon”. And she’s not said much the past few weeks. No one’s posted on here, so she’s kept her head down.I'm sad her father has passed away, it sounds like it was a very difficult few months but I'm baffled it was two weeks ago and she's still been posting slating her kids.
Grief hits us all differently I guess, I just found it jarring.
She was probably on auto pilot, just posting the usual stuff that didn’t require much effort, and not leave her with an obvious gap in her content that might lead to lots of ‘you ok hon’ in her inbox. Totally understandable I think.No I'm not knocking the keeping quiet about his passing. Not judging on that at all. But she's been posting stories moaning about her kids. I just felt that it was odd timing to still be moaning about them publicly at that moment.
She isn't a working mum though and that is a huge difference. If I can't make nursery stuff, I tell my little one and we make a plan to do something else nice.To be fair Christmas is much harder to forget than a nursery photo opportunity. I actually feel sorry for her and I wish nurseries/schools didn’t make up so many things. It’s hard for working parents to make it to all these faux sentimental moments! (not that she’s a working mum - but I am!)
We weren’t about to ‘forget Christmas’…obviously I meant I prioritised keeping things as normal and happy for my kids despite my mum dying by keeping our Christmas traditions and events etc, even whilst organising a funeral and grieving. Prioritising what your kids need comes first for most adults. Victoria prioritises herself, and sees her kids as an annoying interruption to her life filming herself pulling faces and thrusting her vulva. If you really care for someone things that are important to them are important to you - whatever you as an adult are going through. Victoria just doesn’t care enough about her kids.To be fair Christmas is much harder to forget than a nursery photo opportunity. I actually feel sorry for her and I wish nurseries/schools didn’t make up so many things. It’s hard for working parents to make it to all these faux sentimental moments! (not that she’s a working mum - but I am!)