I've got a large family! I've got the same amount of kids as she's got. 8 boys, 4 girls... All my own. I didn't have twins either... My husband and I have both always worked full-time in very demanding professions. I've never had anyone express any views or opinions on my large family. I've never had any negative attention either. We provide 100% for our family, we received no benefits, subsidies or anything at all. Our kids are fed excellent diets, I favour cooking from scratch, and being Italian food is a big part of our lives, especially healthy food. Our kids are well clothed in good quality, decent clothes, we holiday 3 times a year, and we have a home that is big enough for our family. We prepared for a big family, we have our priorities straight from the word go.The latest is negativity and hate towards large families according to Pat. I don’t feel negative or hateful to any family large or small. I just expect people to protect and look after their children regardless of how many they have.
She appears completely unaware some people can’t have children or as many as they would of liked or made a decision not to have children.
Pat and Pen have brought all of their issues in life upon themselves. He had a career in the RAF, she could have worked too. He spent 26yrs in subsidised accommodation, saved nothing, incurred a lot of debt, had kids they can't cope with... They're both lazy, they're uneducated, and they are arrogant. They show no respect for their kids in terms of care or attention. They neglect their health and education. They don't meet their most basic of needs.
That's why people don't like Pat and Pen and criticise and ridicule them. They are a disgrace to decent big families. It's actually families like theirs that get big families a bad name, and enforce negative stereotypes. They are everything typical stereotypes are.
So no it's not negativity towards big families... It's negativity towards them for being fat, lazy, benefit scrounging parasites like them.
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