because we’re all anonymousI was in love with an older married man who I worked with for almost 4 years. I didn't tell him, but he guessed around 10 months in. He asked me about it and I told him the truth. We did talk about how I felt about him, but that's all that ever happened, even though we were alone in his office lots of times. I didn't need him to tell me that we wouldn't be a thing. We got to a point where we could joke about it "we'll name our child Cosmo".
I had all thesexual fantasiesin my head.
I stopped working with him eventually. I know I do still love him and I'm not over it yet, but I'm honestly grateful that he could hold that boundary and it was never crossed.
He does have a public insta which I still secretly look up frequently, but no messaging though.
Do you regret it?In my younger years yes, twice. Although I was single. Thats all the details I’m giving.
Someone always gets hurt and its not worth it, but what goes around comes around !Do you regret it?
I know what you mean when you say you learnt a lot. Me too. At the time I didn’t realise the impact and fallout on others.Ashamed to say I have been.
No excuse for it, but I was young at the time and he was a fair bit older than me, I was fully in love with him.
Knew all along it would never work out the way I wanted at the time but he always said just enough to keep me. Went on for just under a year - I found out he had 2 kids and ended it.
His wife found out but they stayed together and went on to have more kids. He messaged me about 3 years later trying to start it up again.
I don’t regret it because it taught me an awful lot about myself, relationships etc but I’ve always been ashamed of it.
I wrongly assumed that it was only me that would get hurt as I didn’t think she’d ever find out. I figured well if it’s me that’s going to be the one that got hurt then it’s my decision to make type of thing cause I’m doing it to myself.I know what you mean when you say you learnt a lot. Me too. At the time I didn’t realise the impact and fallout on others.
At that time if I'm being honest it would have been a 100% yes.If you knowingly become the other woman, or find out you are and continue in that position.
you’re trash.
no excuse for being a shit person.
because we’re all anonymous
if he had offered to leave his wife, would you have got with him?
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