The Ingham Family #205 Forget about your actifry chips and concentrate on your poor child's hips

[Okgolightly]

I've said before that I agree the relationship between Creepy and Isabelle seems inappropriate. But I dislike reading that she is flirting with him or making out like she is equally to blame as he is. He is her father figure and she is a child. If any form of grooming is going on she IS NOT to blame.

 

[jkroche95]

Just tested positive for covid... on my birthday!! I live on my own so now have to spend my birthday and Christmas alone Feeling v v sorry for myself.

 

[lollieloo]

Hahaaaa anyone that actually believes that he “slept “in the van so as not to disturb anyones sleep in the hotel room. Is naive or too wholesome for words.
Last time I checked most hotel rooms are bigger than a DPD van but he spent 2-3 months editing in there without disturbing anyone. He even edited , so they say , in the tiny van toilet but the hotel bathroom wasn’t sufficient. GET TO FK ! He 100% met up with some ifam that he’s been ‘ talking to ‘ he was way too ‘ giddy ‘ as they say so I’d be beyond shocked to find out that all he did was edit and then sleep. There’s also a fair few ‘ escort services and ladies of the night ‘ there especially by north pier which is just by the hotel.
He definitely emptied his Santa sack whilst wearing his Christmas stockings !

* jingle balls jingle balls , jingle all the way *

 

[teaandtoast8]

So they’ve gone for a day of shopping, split into two groups but keep having to meet up because they only have one bank card?!?!

 

[Justjonie]

The irony of Lazy pushing an affiliate link for a book called "we were liars" on Amazon is not lost on me. Of course there's no past tense where the Inghams are concerned, they ARE compulsive liars through and through

 

[Tilly Kister]

I've said before that I agree the relationship between Creepy and Isabelle seems inappropriate. But I dislike reading that she is flirting with him or making out like she is equally to blame as he is. He is her father figure and she is a child. If any form of grooming is going on she IS NOT to blame.

I've never seen anyone here blame Izzy. I have seen many astute observations of how well Creepy's grooming of that child is working. Far too many people assume that all child sex abuse is a violent attack type scenario where a screaming and terrified victim is overcome by an adult's strength. Except in the very rare cases of child abduction this is not at all the way it goes. Child abuse especially of this hebephile nature that Creepy has is a long, slow process. A perverted seduction. Love bombing, lavishing attention on an emotionally neglected target child. Gaining their trust, inveigling the abuser into their affections. Making the child feel that their groomer is in fact their protector. The only one in their life who truly cares. The only one who values them and appreciates their uniqueness. The chidden do, in a majority of cases, fall in love with the vermin and believe that they are a willing and consensual partner in a romantic "together forever" love story.

It's precisely that which does so much damage n the long-term. For years they may not even recognise what they suffered. They will recall it as a love story which they mourn the failing of. And when they begin to realise how wrong it all was, they believe that they are the one to blame. They they "asked for it" or "wanted it" and that is exactly what their abusers want. It's how they continue to be abused every hour of every day, months, years or decades after any physical or even social relationship with the abuser has ended.

That's what the Tattlers I've see have noted and remarked upon. It's why I love these people. They get it. Whether instinctively or because of professional or personal experiences, they understand the true and lasting damage being done to this girl in ways which most people fail to comprehend - and all they want to do is save her from it.

 

[JustHereForTheAgriculture]

Dad v Girls had a company come out and go all out decorating the house, had a Santa come over to put a little show on for the kids and give them an early Christmas present.
The Inghams talked about their broken down old banger of a car and had a fight about some paper decorations.
What a difference a scandal makes.

 

[homebargainsandme]

Chris - I got mixed grill and ISABELLE got Mac and cheese.
what about your wife ? And the rest of the kids
Such a fucking freak

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Hang on. Chris couldn’t edit in the hotel because it was too loud and mila is such a light sleeper but he was fine in the van? Also, hotels usually have lobby’s he could have sat in. The man chats absolute shit
Make it make sense someone please?

Where did Mr.Ingham actually go? He moved the van too, in the middle of the night? On Sarah’s birthday too? Is she actually this thick

 

[Saddlesoap]

Congratulations @SooooAnyway on the new title.

Brief recap.

Mila's hip is worse. Most likely because they left her in a car seat for three months while they travelled drove around Europe, but of course that's not their fault.

 

[LadyGarden]

This repsonse to a "why arnt the builders fixing the house" comment.

Go for it, Chris.

If you bitch about the builder in a vlog then Kayak Paul will look like a pussycat compared to what he and his family will do to you.

Please trot out some bullshit about the builder, I'm begging you

 

[Raw]

Seriously, her lips!

 

[Abbvay]

Bigger trouble than when he was caught texting teens? Bigger trouble than when he cheated with a fan in the ibis?

 

[Malcolm Conkers]

‘Pretty much everything in between’, you say? Is there a section on how to fend off a middle-aged, balding loser you’ve just met with his family on holiday bombarding you with pervy messages on social media, obsessively going on about swimming naked with you?

Oh, and I share my birthday with Bobby Farrell, the lead singer of Boney M. I’m not as old as him though.

 

[Malcolm Conkers]

Didn't Bobby Farrell die years ago in Russia ?

I didn’t say I was Bobby Farrell.

 

[getmeoutofhere]

The state of the washingroom. and he is putting brackets on a couple of shelves and taking a few boxes to the tip
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And they only use the front door when they have people comming over for the first time so they can see the stairs. What the actual F.

I love seeing people’s stairs. That’s all I visit them for

 

[cometolook]

Seriously worried about poor Isla. She’s regressing so much back into toddler/baby ways. I struggle to understand what she says, and her actions are absolutely not one you’d expect from a 9 year old. It’s like the poor child thinks she’ll get more attention if she acts like Jace or Mila. As much as I’d love to see the girls back at school I think if they went back acting as babyish as they do the other kids would pick on them

 

[Meisify2]

Yes, Creepy was definitely in a good mood after whatever went on in the van overnight.
See how quickly he gave Esme the £20 note to go on the ride when usually they don't have any cash.

He probably took £100 out the bank to pay the hooker but she only charged £80 lol

 

[getmeoutofhere]

No money in the world would be enough to sleep with Chris Ingham. I honestly couldn’t think of anything worse than his waxy face in his beanie and that gormless smirk face and his half ginger/ half black combover flapping away.

I’ve just put myself off my breakfast

 

[JustHereForTheAgriculture]

I share my birthday today with lazy .... oh joy

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! Burgahs for tea all round
Sucks you have to share it but really you’re only sharing about half the day. Lazy’s not out of bed til midday so the morning is all yours