The Chateau Diaries #80 Kaboom! The dutch boyfriend is outed.

[OhIDontKnow...]

I think the reason there are so many comments on here is that firstly, we see them together all the time so to hide it from the viewers means that more work has gone into keeping it a secret, secondly, it feels more deceitful than just being 'private'. I will also add, it feels icky because we can see that he is probably not entirely 'straight' and this was an opportunistic move on his part. Then there is Stephanie playing the victim when she was found out, saying that life isn't fair and people would judge her as a woman, compared to a man.

I believe he is either a currently straight gay man in denial, or more likely a gay man who is manipulating the hell out of her.

I have a friend who was married to a gay guy who had been married to 4 different women and had six kids across all four. He was caught, more than once, cruising anonymous sex in those places all gay men know to go to for that type of thing. He never dated a man, and kept chasing women.

The thing with him was that he always had a reason for the woman to pay for everything. He’d blow it with one and marry the next. Never kept a job and stole all of my friends’ money while they were married. Had fake cancer two times and she finally put him out for good. She swore she knew he wasn’t gay because they had sex, all the marriages and kids, etc. Didn’t believe it until the police caught him.

So Steph, turn this little tit loose ASAP. He’s actually gay and is playing you for your money. He’s not your best friend. He’s manipulating you. That’s why he seems perfect. He’s acting. He’s probably getting some peen on his trips “home”. You don’t just have to worry about him around all the women, but all the men as well. It’s going to be exhausting.

 

[NotAChatelaine]

In the manner of an auction catalogue:

Property of a Chatelaine

"Young Man on a Mission"
21st Century
Authenticated as being from the School of Grifters

 

[MojoDublin]

How ever will she accomplish all her travels …

Now she’s paying for everything…

Will South Africa be with BJJ in January
( bet NON … that will be Gerry )

Will the orient express
( bet NON … darling their my friends )

Will New York in February
( bet NON …. It’s Patreon .. best not )

If HE can afford it
Venice in feb … there’s always the train if he can’t fly 🪰)

But I can’t see her paying for all the holidays ….
Not even with Oliver …
( Philipa … it’s business I can’t bring you )

This is gonna get bad real soon

 

[Perplexed bee]

kaboom indeed, but the unofficial gossip was there, the trail of clues too..what worries me is that the age difference is the least disturbing aspect of this relationship. On a positive note, maybe the gullible grannies will stop sending stuffed hedgehogs, PJ is not their innocent little boy anymore?

 

[Beau Monde]

This is gonna get bad real soon

I hope so.

 

[Veda Pierce]

That is true ..... they were called "Menopause Babies" .... I remember my grandmother saying this.

Geriatric pregnancies

 

[Beau Monde]

My husband was saying at dinner tonight, "can you imagine if we had had social media when we were in our twenties, how rich we could have gotten?" I laughed, but thought about it and don't think it would have worked out in my case. I was a lot like SquirrelNutkins in my 20s: aspiring actor, decorator, I even wore brocade pants (it was the New Romantics Era, don't judge). I even hooked up with some wealthy older men. But I was too "wild", untameable. I didn't like being beholden to someone else always paying the bills. It just didn't feel right. If I had played my cards right, I might be rich, today. But I made out OK on my own. Kind of hope SquirrelNutkins wises up, but I think the Grift runs deep in that one.

 

[MsPitstop]

How ever will she accomplish all her travels …

Now she’s paying for everything…

Will South Africa be with BJJ in January
( bet NON … that will be Gerry )

Will the orient express
( bet NON … darling their my friends )

Will New York in February
( bet NON …. It’s Patreon .. best not )

If HE can afford it
Venice in feb … there’s always the train if he can’t fly 🪰)

But I can’t see her paying for all the holidays ….
Not even with Oliver …
( Philipa … it’s business I can’t bring you )

This is gonna get bad real soon

Was about to say the same thing; now that it is out in the open, the likes of Nick and Marie can say, "no thanks".

Also, what drove me batty in that (click bait) Chateau in Crisis shitshow, Nick said off camera when they were in the booze room, "I'll go get Marie" to which SJ said, in her faux French accent, 'Maarie'.

What I also liked about the booze room scene was that it was only for the owners, Sir Snots not allowed.

I'd love to be a fly on the wall when the owners discuss what they need to do to fix the bathroom, and Sir Snots tries to intervene.

Nick: Go play with Antoine, he's closer to your age than Stef.

 

[AndAnotherName]

Fan talks about vlogging and private life..when you vlog ..nothing is private..you put your whole life on YT..your life is your life..your partner is your partner...you make a real life vlog..not a scripted soap opera..Is she really seeing herself as a star , doing a YT vlog..and keep things out...well..thats the beginning of the end...people want to see a real life..a real chateau...not all things hidden..and full of lies....we inhere know she is full of lies..but her followers dont even see that..she is doing very light about it...but i quess her downfall has set in...

So true and if she was at all proud of her relationship with Snorty, why try to hide it? Maybe he didn't want to be "outed" for whatever reason. Keeping it a secret from the Dutch rellies?

 

[Beau Monde]

So true and if she was at all proud of her relationship with Snorty, why try to hide it? Maybe he didn't want to be "outed" for whatever reason. Keeping it a secret from the Dutch rellies?

I'm sure the Dutch rellies are like, "What the actual duck? I thought Miss Antique Porcelain Thing was gay!" (Spoken with a Dutch accent).

 

[Dippy Hippy]

Thank you for sharing!

Why would she want to do a Q & A about this?!! Call a press conference while you're at it!

Very odd thing to do isn't it? She must be worried about losing Patreons?

 

[Phoenix Richards-Bingham]

Tattle certainly wasent fooled

Genius!!!!!

 

[Dippy Hippy]

I think the reason there are so many comments on here is that firstly, we see them together all the time so to hide it from the viewers means that more work has gone into keeping it a secret, secondly, it feels more deceitful than just being 'private'. I will also add, it feels icky because we can see that he is probably not entirely 'straight' and this was an opportunistic move on his part. Then there is Stephanie playing the victim when she was found out, saying that life isn't fair and people would judge her as a woman, compared to a man.

She's right! My husband is 18 years younger than me. We are nearing our 27th anniversary. You are judged as a woman in a relationship with a large age difference. I've had criticism, mainly from other women, for years. I have a tough skin and a sense of humour and can stop them in their tracks.
My friend married a man 20 years older, this is seen as perfectly acceptable. I get the "cougar" jokes all the time. You learn to live with it. I have a ready supply of witty repartee. The mother and son jibes make me angry.
I can understand why she's kept it quiet. Some of her patrons may be very traditional in their expectations and would find it shocking. I cannot understand their thinking, but people can be very narrow minded about things they don't understand.
It would have been better just to be open from the start though, in my opinion. She has enough Patreons I'm sure who would be supportive of her. She has shown herself up now as someone who hides important things. She has lost the "magic" somewhat.
Patreons may be quite rightly wondering what else is covered up in the perfect magical world. She could have told them about the ectopic pregnancy and got a lot of sympathy. By living her life on camera for money she has lost her privacy unfortunately.
I'm sure though that Snorts had a plan to seduce her, I think he may be a gold digger.
The way he likes everything she likes, feels very insincere. My husband and I row from time to time, I feel its healthy as you are different people. Philip gets nasty digs in sometimes too, teasing her about being like her mother.
In a solid relationship that wouldn't matter, it would be banter, but Im not sure he's a genuine person. If he is good luck to them.

I still find Snorts an annoying tit

 

[Beau Monde]

I promised myself I would go to bed at midnight, and it's well passed that. My nightcap turned into three . (Hic)! Oh, wells, nighty-night, Tattlers! Good job, today

 

[Pippip]

I think it is more about the fact she was deceitful rather than private. I think people thought she opened her home to the viewers and she sells herself as a bit of an open book. I don’t think he is a sincere person, personally. I think Stephanie puts on an act to keep the money coming in. Her patrons might actually have more of a problem that she hid it for so long, over the fact she is in a relationship with a much younger man. If I thought the relationship was sincere, I would probably feel a bit happier for her.

 

[PrincessM73]

She's right! My husband is 18 years younger than me. We are nearing our 27th anniversary. You are judged as a woman in a relationship with a large age difference. I've had criticism, mainly from other women, for years. I have a tough skin and a sense of humour and can stop them in their tracks.
My friend married a man 20 years older, this is seen as perfectly acceptable. I get the "cougar" jokes all the time. You learn to live with it. I have a ready supply of witty repartee. The mother and son jibes make me angry.
I can understand why she's kept it quiet. Some of her patrons may be very traditional in their expectations and would find it shocking. I cannot understand their thinking, but people can be very narrow minded about things they don't understand.
It would have been better just to be open from the start though, in my opinion. She has enough Patreons I'm sure who would be supportive of her. She has shown herself up now as someone who hides important things. She has lost the "magic" somewhat.
Patreons may be quite rightly wondering what else is covered up in the perfect magical world. She could have told them about the ectopic pregnancy and got a lot of sympathy. By living her life on camera for money she has lost her privacy unfortunately.
I'm sure though that Snorts had a plan to seduce her, I think he may be a gold digger.
The way he likes everything she likes, feels very insincere. My husband and I row from time to time, I feel its healthy as you are different people. Philip gets nasty digs in sometimes too, teasing her about being like her mother.
In a solid relationship that wouldn't matter, it would be banter, but Im not sure he's a genuine person. If he is good luck to them.

I still find Snorts an annoying tit

I agree with you in that I think SJ does have more traditional viewers. She probably feels they would never entertain the thought of her dating (especially not a younger man) let alone having sex. Some of the comments on the vlogs make it seem like she is an innocent flower.

And congrats on making it work for you! Women have to endure much more judgment than men in the same situation.

 

[Pippip]

I think she acts so childlike a lot of them time, that is why.

I agree with you in that I think SJ does have more traditional viewers. She probably feels they would never entertain the thought of her dating (especially not a younger man) let alone having sex. Some of the comments on the vlogs make it seem like she is an innocent flower.

And congrats on making it work for you! Women have to endure much more judgment than men in the same situation.

 

[Sophie Pétoncule]

Also, why the hell would she tell Channel 4 if she is such a private person. You're open on TV but don't tell the people who are paying you $30,000 a month?

The same people who are basically paying for Snorts to be there. Not much different to Teabegs and Andrew then

 

[Sophie Pétoncule]

So, he tried to kiss her? They have no chemistry whatsoever that it completely passed me by. I think he knew she was lonely and therefore, that she would be an easy target.

Didn’t his mother point him in the direction of the chateau initially? Maybe that was part of her evil plan?!

 

[Pippip]

Didn’t his mother point him in the direction of the chateau initially? Maybe that was part of her evil plan?!

No, I think he said he watched her channel on YouTube and wanted to become a volunteer.