this falling down hmn is very similar to milfh she has one and this sis has ownership of one downstairs room one of the beams has sagged considerably mil only replaced one and refused to pay for the other inhouse bickering between sisters that's why I am not sticking around and now road has been widened and shaking from trucks banging past has cause substantial cracks in the foundations. Whenever I bring it up I am told its lasted 100 years it wont fall down. So she expects so to invest all his time ,money and effort in her dream of a farm house that land is now not profitable and never has been since she brought it. I dont say anything after 5 years and quite being emotionally invested in it also not going there to slave away cleaning a hmn. Dont know why some these generation expect others to foot the bill and labour for there bubble