I must confess I do not sweat eggplant after reading food scientist
Harold McGee. (And a hilarious restaurant kitchen experience where we sweated about three tons of it on cloth dish towels, producing the eggplant version of the Shroud of Turin. Shhhh, don't tell.)
Nuking it to collapse oil-sucking cellular structure works for me as McGee suggests, to make caponata, the really good Cooks' mag version.
I also make a (Cypriot?) roasted eggplant and almond dip, which requires me only to remember to fork the whole eggplant all over so it doesn't explode in the oven. Don't ask me how I know this.
I think eggplant would be okay, ish, with smoked trout, but it's so ugly I wouldn't serve it to guests. Unless tricked out with grill marks and/or a glam sauce as in caponata, Parm, etc.? I think I'd prefer something less gooshy in a smoked trout/cheese dish. Like good toasts? How'd you fox it up? It sounds like she chopped the thyme twigs into the dish? This I've gotta see.