I know where you're coming from, and many people think this of others with mental illness, especially mood disorders. But usually, they are suffering some kind of trauma so it's hard for them to reach out to and trust others. If you scratch the surface you'll find that depression and mood disorders stem from underlying feelings of inadequacy and shame often from years of abuse or neglect. Narcs don't have shame or self-doubt. They don't have a conscious. People with mood disorders are often highly empathic and as a result, end up as victims. Look at how Fanny responded in the interview with the cuz. She couldn't spend more than a few minutes in that authentic space of being present for another human being. She barely acknowledged him without moving on or diverting to talking about herself or her f-ing chateau. Noe cuz is at high risk for becoming depressed and I hope that doesn't happen.