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If it's use by then I personally wouldn't, if it's best before then it's fine so long as you give it a good check an it looks ok
 
I read a tip about putting food like a packet of rice in the freezer for 2 days and then it will keep in a cupboard for decades as the freezer will have killed off any insect eggs.
 
Just wondered what people would do about this....
A family memeber painted a nice picture for our first kid when they were born.
They are the sort of person that has an issue with everything. After a couple of issues the last few times we've met up at family gathering we don't talk anymore, a relief really after alot of unnecessary drama. One of the things they said was how my children's behaviour spoils their day. Both are neurodiverse, we have some challenges but nothing that I would say is massively out of the ordinary for any kids really.
I know they started a painting for my other kid but we've never been given it and I doubt we will now.
I don't know if I want to keep the first painting. It feels unfair on the second one and generally unfair on both of them to have it from someone who's been quite vocal about disliking us all. My husband says keep it because it's a nice painting but I don't know if my hearts in it.
What would you do in the same position?
 
I wouldn’t be bothered about the painting and I doubt your kids care.
Keep it if you like it or return it if you don’t
 
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Perhaps just pop it in the attic?. Might be nice for them to show their children one day.
 
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I live on a private road which has a car park for the apartments. It is narrow only enough room for a single vehicle. There are signs stating no parking. People constantly park on the pavement, across the dropped kerbs, an across the entrance to the carpark, they often try to park in the carpark.

If you speak to them you get a mouthful of abuse. There are people with mobility issues who cannot go in or out on their mobility vehicles because they are parked across the dropped kerbs, and we regularly have ambulances attend the premises. They cannot get down the road because of the parked cars. If you are out you can’t get in and if you are in you can't get out.

anybody have any suggestions?
 
If you have a factor then report it to them, otherwise if not then you can go to your local council an say they are causing obstructions which restrict emergency vehicle access

Not sure how well either would help, but pretty sure if you state that emergency vehicle access is being restricted they might issue fines
 
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Keep it in storage and let your child decide whether they want it or not when they are adult. Your relative might decide to give you the painting for the younger one in time.
 
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Because it is a private road, the council are not interested. We are also in a police tow area, but they too are not interested
 
Because it is a private road, the council are not interested. We are also in a police tow area, but they too are not interested
A road is either owned by your factor or the council, a private road is only private under a landowner(who has to pay an maintain it), when houses are built the company building owns the land until it's finished then they wipe their hands clean of the ownership when it's all built an it's either the factor or council that has to take it

Am in a private area an the roads an pavements are all council

The council just cannot be arsed dealing with anything anymore, it's how factors got introduced, it was a way for the council to basically pass all responsibilities onto them so they could ignore it, but if you aren't paying factor fees then it will def be the councils responsibility

Maybe a sharp key along the side of them will make them think twice about parking on pavements "woops must have been the pram "
 
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I was thinking of something slippy on the pavement edge or stinky on the door handles. They do get a label on the windscreen.

how do I find out who owns the road? It is HA properties one side and offices the other.
 
Those sticky notices that are impossible to remove might do the trick, you could probably order them online . “Residential parking only”. Maybe plaster three or four onto each car. Also…if you had access to another vehicle that could block in the culprits for a few hours that might also do the trick. Tractor, Campervan…anything! I feel your pain.
 
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I was thinking of something slippy on the pavement edge or stinky on the door handles. They do get a label on the windscreen.

how do I find out who owns the road? It is HA properties one side and offices the other.
If it’s a private road then you can find out who the owner is on Land Registry but you’ll have to pay for the details. Otherwise, the HA will probably know, you could call and ask them?
 
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I was thinking of something slippy on the pavement edge or stinky on the door handles. They do get a label on the windscreen.

how do I find out who owns the road? It is HA properties one side and offices the other.
If it's HA then it likely will be council, I work in transport dealing with roads an pavements an honestly just about every road is council, you'd be surprised as how much they own (an are supposed to take care off) despite the fact they do nothing 90% of the time

I don't know where you are but in Scotland we have scotlis that works as a register, you can gain most information for free on it, not sure what the English or Welsh equivalent would be, but just call HA an they can direct you
 
i have contacted the council they told me it was private.
 
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