Thought I'd add the screenshots...
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Tasha, he's 7/8 weeks old. You heard of the fourth trimester? 20 minutes is a long time to leave a new baby alone, whether you're pretending to watch on a baby monitor or not... 5 minute intervals so you can get shit done, yes. But 20 minutes... No girl. Just no. I remember jumping in and out of the shower as quick as I could whilst mine were sat in a bouncer in the bathroom, peaking my head around the shower curtain to see them.
The light thing is just common sense. You need to teach babies night and day. I don't understand why you can't settle Sutton upstairs whilst scabby is downstairs. Then you're downstairs in the day time whilst scabby sleeps... Surely? Just get a lamp or do what others do, turn your TV on for the light. So many options other than the big light.
Also... I've never known a new mum be able to watch so much TV (and read so much tattle
).