Married men were apparently staring at her in Greece when she was at dinner although she didn’t specify race.
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If this happened to anyone other than Steph i'd be inclined to believe it but with her being a known pathological liar...
Every time Steph posts it makes sense why she, by her own admission, had no friends and her only friends are the ones she's made in the 'influencer' world (although she did fall out and make up with some of the big PS bloggers too).
Every time Steph posts it makes sense why she, by her own admission, had no friends and her only friends are the ones she's made in the 'influencer' world (although she did fall out and make up with some of the big PS bloggers too).
Inventing stories so everyone knows she's traveling in business class. So pathetic
Riveting content about what’s in her gym bag. For the life of me I cannot understand why she uses so many skin products. I think a lot of these influencers completely over do it with the amount of crap they’re putting in their skin.
Still dining out on that comment from last week. Now we have a whole infographic and article about it.
I believe the message she got was real. Or it could be. Some people do have parasocial relationships with influencers and can get quite invested. But it must’ve been an outlier amongst hundreds of others wishing her well and being happy for her based on the other comments and support she got. She’s acting like she got a deluge of them which I just don’t believe. But I guess she got a job out of it!
I believe the message she got was real. Or it could be. Some people do have parasocial relationships with influencers and can get quite invested. But it must’ve been an outlier amongst hundreds of others wishing her well and being happy for her based on the other comments and support she got. She’s acting like she got a deluge of them which I just don’t believe. But I guess she got a job out of it!
Lol of course she made an article out of it, again suggesting it was a racist thing. I know 'accidental' racism is a thing, but I genuinely think this whole episode had nothing to do with it. People would have messaged any influencer like that, not just Steph. Yes it's weird to message them, I wouldn't have done it, but it happens. I also don't like seeing loads of stuff about relationships as I'm single, but whenever I see it I just think 'oh there goes another one', absolutely nothing to do with how attractive they are compared to me lmao. The self-centeredness is real.
As she says in the article, a lot of her audience was drawn to her because they related and you have to take the rough with the smooth. As mentioned above, I'm betting the 'bad' messages were only in single figures.
As she says in the article, a lot of her audience was drawn to her because they related and you have to take the rough with the smooth. As mentioned above, I'm betting the 'bad' messages were only in single figures.
This take is a little wild of Steph tbh. Whilst I would never want to diminish her experiences as a large, black woman and I am sure there is some truth to the theory that for some racist, white people, black joy is confronting - these people are idiots.
However it just seems that she is not owning that the responses she got from a small few were largely, because of her own attitude to relationships in the past.
Side note - I am delighted for her, I literally smiled involuntary when I saw her post. She deserves some good love, I have followed her a long time.
But, what I have seen from following her for a long time is... Steph has been refreshingly open and honest about feeling 'bitter' about being single. Unlike many she openly shared how jarring she found people in relationships and public displays and people patronising her because they had found love... because.... of how it made her feel. It seems obvious then that some of her follows were attracted to her content because they feel the same, because up until her status changed - she was acting a little bit like....the type of people who messaged her.
It seems she would rather focus and pick apart the minority who chose to unfollow her and make it all about race than engage in some self awareness on the part she had to play in attracting people who felt as she did just a year a go. It's healthy to unfollow people who don't make you feel good.
If you want empathy from people, it's a good start to have some yourself. I have been in a relationship for over a decade and I never judged Steph for feeling angry or jarred by love - I understood why that was rough for her. She needs to do the same for those she is now blasting as racist.
Just read the article - I know she touches on the points above in the whole article but it just feels like the side dish and not the main meal. There is the saying misery loves company for a reason.
However it just seems that she is not owning that the responses she got from a small few were largely, because of her own attitude to relationships in the past.
Side note - I am delighted for her, I literally smiled involuntary when I saw her post. She deserves some good love, I have followed her a long time.
But, what I have seen from following her for a long time is... Steph has been refreshingly open and honest about feeling 'bitter' about being single. Unlike many she openly shared how jarring she found people in relationships and public displays and people patronising her because they had found love... because.... of how it made her feel. It seems obvious then that some of her follows were attracted to her content because they feel the same, because up until her status changed - she was acting a little bit like....the type of people who messaged her.
It seems she would rather focus and pick apart the minority who chose to unfollow her and make it all about race than engage in some self awareness on the part she had to play in attracting people who felt as she did just a year a go. It's healthy to unfollow people who don't make you feel good.
If you want empathy from people, it's a good start to have some yourself. I have been in a relationship for over a decade and I never judged Steph for feeling angry or jarred by love - I understood why that was rough for her. She needs to do the same for those she is now blasting as racist.
Just read the article - I know she touches on the points above in the whole article but it just feels like the side dish and not the main meal. There is the saying misery loves company for a reason.
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Well I knew this was going to be a shitshow of epic proportions but she has truly outdone herself now. She is a horrible, garbage human being. She’s a keyboard warrior and no reputable platform would consider publishing this hateful rant of hers.
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She ever becomes pregnant 100% she’ll do the Georgina cox ‘ how dare you leave the hospital with a happy baby before I do ‘ thing
It’s so sad , can’t she just be happy and using her energy to make the relationship work
As usual with Stephanie, a lot of this is simply untrue. She has spent years cultivating a miserable, lonely, rejected online persona and clearly made it profitable. Despite plenty of evidence online disproving what she said. She has been consistently losing followers for a long time. She is offended that people (sorry, white people) are unfollowing her despite the fact she linked a blogpost where she said she couldn’t be around people in love because it was so triggering for her. Now she has monetised other people’s unhappiness by calling them racists.
My hot take: this dude is playing her. There are little signs that are already there. I honestly cannot believe anyone would want to be with someone as vile as her, no matter what they looked like.
My hot take: this dude is playing her. There are little signs that are already there. I honestly cannot believe anyone would want to be with someone as vile as her, no matter what they looked like.
I can't believe the hypocrisy! !
i also don't believe she got any other "essay" messages other than the one she posted or that any of them were explicitly or even implicitly racist.
lol.
Can someone tell me who it is exactly that is fascinated with large women in relationships? Holy tit, no one gives a stuff!!! We’re all out here just trying to live. I don’t even care about my friends relationships. You do you and all that. I’m calling it now - this relationship is going to go bits up and she’s going to look even more of a complete bell end.
I follow another plus size black influencer who made her relationship public last year, she doesn’t show her boyfriends face .
Not once as she made a big deal about being in a relationship after some long , not once as she gone on a rant about losing followers due to said relationship. Just be happy
Plus I also follow black travelers and they sometimes fly business class , I’ve not seen a post saying they have be hassled by racist white women side eyeing them about being in business class
Not once as she made a big deal about being in a relationship after some long , not once as she gone on a rant about losing followers due to said relationship. Just be happy
Plus I also follow black travelers and they sometimes fly business class , I’ve not seen a post saying they have be hassled by racist white women side eyeing them about being in business class
I feel really sorry for the person that messaged her because it did seem respectful even if it was a bit odd. This person went out of their way to say they acknowledged that being black and large is a different experience and she has still slammed the person and called them racist. Stephanie is abhorrent. I think she has an undiagnosed personality disorder (I think she displays a lot of BPD characteristics) but it’s no excuse for being a complete bleep.
But is it real?
Had to jump on this thread because she’s doing my head in. I follow her on IG but haven’t really paid much attention until this boyfriend reveal because she’s being so weird about it. Can she give it a rest?! I haven’t seen a single person object to it (on the contrary, people are acting like she’s cured cancer) but she’s making it seem like Enemy Number One for having a boyfriend?! Bizarre!
She is LOVING all the attention. In fact, there’s not even that much attention but she can’t let it go. I think the messages (all 2 of them, if there were more she would’ve shown us by now!) were real but she’s spent the last week obsessing over them and hyping them up so much she genuinely believes they’re as bad as she’s making out. They weren’t nice to receive but they also weren’t racist.
Best hope this relationship actually lasts and she doesn’t end up losing her tit like the last one as she is doing the absolute most.
I have no idea why she is acting like she’s the first large black woman to be in a relationship. She is not the first nor will be the last large black woman in a relationship.
The message she allegedly received and publicised originally kinda writes like Steph IMO so I am dubious about its authenticity.
At the same time, Stephanie should sit there and re-read the blog post she wrote, ‘But I can no longer put myself in situations where I am the recipient of these stories. I don’t want to hear about the many people you date. I don’t want to hear about how great you’re being treated. I don’t want to hear that you feel so supported, loved, and cherished. I don’t want to hear about how they make you feel.’
She revelled in and capitalised of the ‘trauma porn’, cries fake outrage when people allegedly claim they can’t relate and then capitalises off her BS again. Classic.
I have no idea why she is acting like she’s the first large black woman to be in a relationship. She is not the first nor will be the last large black woman in a relationship.
The message she allegedly received and publicised originally kinda writes like Steph IMO so I am dubious about its authenticity.
At the same time, Stephanie should sit there and re-read the blog post she wrote, ‘But I can no longer put myself in situations where I am the recipient of these stories. I don’t want to hear about the many people you date. I don’t want to hear about how great you’re being treated. I don’t want to hear that you feel so supported, loved, and cherished. I don’t want to hear about how they make you feel.’
She revelled in and capitalised of the ‘trauma porn’, cries fake outrage when people allegedly claim they can’t relate and then capitalises off her BS again. Classic.
Sorry to go off topic, but what's this about? Georgina Cox the PT? @georginacoxpersonaltraining on IG? I deffo missed something if so!
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