Stephanie Yeboah

[SpritneyBeers]

Well someone’s obsessed with tattle

I'd have thought someone with a diagnosed personality disorder would know better than to brand people as "mentally unwell" and "psychologically unstable" just because they've said things she doesn't like.

 

[frillylilly]

It is, I rent in London too and I had to even get proof of my job role and salary from my HR. It’s bog standard.

I rent elsewhere and still had to provide salary and proof of employment. I honestly think influencers get so twitchy about it because they fiddle the books and have probably told HMRC they're on a lower salary than they actually are, however when they want to rent somewhere nice then they have to provide a high salary etc

 

[not_just_a_gossipgirl]

New member who has made an account purely to comment on this. I want to start by saying that I am a fat woman, UK size 22 and I have too faced discrimination in my life for my size. BUT I cannot STAND Steph’s attitude to weight stigma. Am I the only one who has noticed how much weight she’s lost lately? Not only has she failed to address this, she deliberately posts photos where she looks slimmer, where the angle is more flattering etc. I know most women on social media do this but to chant bOdY pOsItIvItY!!! and then deliberate shrink yourself to fit in with societal norms is.. a bit weird. She isn’t ‘fattily ever after’, she desperately wants to be slim and I wonder what will be left of her brand if she achieves this.

 

[Deeznutslol]

This comment by her has actually really annoyed me! There are a lot of people who are disabled or have long term health conditions who will benefit from able bodied/healthy people being considerate and wearing a mask. It’s really not the end of the world but her comment screams selfish (sorry I’m not looking for a debate)

Literally get over it. I live in Spain and we have had mandatory mask use at all times out doors and indoors since may 2020, only recently we’ve been allowed to take it off when we’re outside and theres none of this just claiming you’re exempt and getting away with not wearing one either. All these people crying over having to wear a mask on public transport for 20 minutes make me laugh so much .
Fact is, at her size she is at a massive risk of getting serious complications from a covid infection, she should be begging people to keep them on not saying ‘oh ffs’. Get a grip stephanie lmao

 

[Minkel]

So shes lost followers and had malicious messages because shes got a bf. I think she makes alot of this up just like everytime she eats out alone people talk about her or try and take pictures of her. I'm sorry I just cant believe half the shit she says.

 

[ladyladythreetimes]

Oh wow she got really dragged on Twitter this eve, something she said about love island stans:

 

[Bea Saint]

Mum and Dad, the cringe has started be prepared to be triggered cause Steph getting some wang transatlantic.

 

[idontknowthispage]

I’m sorry but even if she has the pcr result and it’s negative and genuinely doesn’t have covid I think the pandemic has shown going out to an event/social setting when ill with anything is so selfish and irresponsible. Even if it’s “just the flu” nobody else wants that. How horrible that she’s potentially infecting the staff at the event (who are likely on zero hours contracts and/or minimum wage). I can imagine how much she’d pile hate on someone else who did that. It’s infuriating!

This made me laugh also. Why are you asking people to do your research? I thought you were a London expert and way to brag about money because London hotels are never cheap. Imagine booking a room just to change clothes.

 

[Lorelei]

Her mates are posting as if she's gone and cured cancer, not just got a boyfriend.

This is going to get super embarrassing isn’t it? If you scroll through her Instagram she was the same with her last boyfriend who she simultaneously makes out doesn’t exist and says was abusive depending on what she’s trying to sell. I think the big love pronouncement says a lot about her immaturity but I still hope it works out for her because it seems to be the only thing that makes her feel validated.

 

[Deeznutslol]

It's funny the way she talks about wanting to go on holiday to Dubai. Lets just ignore the human rights abuses I suppose? As long as she gets to lie about on a boat.

This is why I hate all of her fraudulent activism, like Dubai literally has slaves. Anyone who preaches social justice and then goes off on holiday to Dubai is a complete joke!

 

[AquaTorfana]

She’s such a victim. She’s spent her whole time online curating a brand of disgruntled woman who can’t find love because she’s black and fat and she’s obviously going to pick up followers in the same mindset. Now she’s found love. This should be a happy progression for her and most of her followers who are only angry because they don’t have it themselves. She’s spent countless years complaining about those who do have it and now, when others are uninterested in the happy part of her journey because they identified with another side of her, she wants to spit racism and trauma porn narratives in their faces.

She’s spent the better part of five years fuelling trauma porn for interaction and waxing lyrical about how she’s so hard done by in love and now she’s in a new relationship she wants to backtrack it all because she feels worthy. It’s bullshit and she’s a toxic person.

 

[ladyladythreetimes]

What made Sarah Everard’s case particularly shocking is that she was duped by a police officer who arrested and handcuffed her, then she went willingly into his car because she was complying as youre meant to when the police arrest you. Even if she’d rang the police to check he was actually a police officer they would’ve told her yes he was and she likely still would’ve gone with him. You can be an off duty cop and still arrest people after all. She probably thought she was safe and they’d get it ironed out. But then there would’ve been a horrible moment when she realised something wasn’t right and she wasn’t going to the station as she’d been lead to believe. I think that is real, visceral horror movie type scenario. Her family’s statements said they are haunted by thinking about what she went through in her last moments. I don’t think it’s surprising that many people are upset by thinking about it.

It’s not that people don’t know the realities of how POC are treated by the police, there are ample stories over decades which show that. But SE’s case is scary and upsetting regardless. If you’ve been affected or upset I don’t think they necessarily means you’re unaware of police brutality in other areas, you’re just reacting to something terrible. And I think a lot of women from all walks of life relate to that fear. Many of us have felt vulnerable walking by ourselves at night and I’m sure all of us have a story where they were followed by a creep or harassed by a man on the street. I think Steph has missed the mark here.

 

[Eastlondoner]

She’d pick a fight with a paracetamol over a headache

 

[Lurkeryaar]

Her mates are posting as if she's gone and cured cancer, not just got a boyfriend.

 

[blossombloss]

Where the hell is she buying from?!

aka "brands plz send me a suitcase now that you know I'm looking for one"

 

[deebiedo]

She said herself woman was probably a tourist,, who knows where she was from? Maybe a remote village in back Russia lol I don't see an adult Western European doing that nowadays.
It's not correct at all but it doesn't mean she thinks she's an animal o something. It's curiosity and definitely poor manners.
Try being a nordic blond in the middle of an Asian remote village for example, where they are not used to see tourists, you will have the same and it's not a big deal.

being touched without consent is most definitely a big deal.

 

[SpritneyBeers]

Wow

"tell me you're a narcissist without telling me you're a narcissist"

 

[larabrn]

My husbands home country is a popular holiday destination and his Mum has multiple serious conditions, including respiratory, so his parents haven’t really left the house for over a year. There was lots of distress at the beginning of the pandemic because we honestly believe if she caught Covid, she would die. His Mum has only recently had her first vaccine about 2 weeks ago. His Dad isn’t in the best health, he’s 68, and he hasn’t had any vaccination, he doesn’t even know when it will be.

I’m sure Steph is careful and she’s vaccinated and she wears her mask and she needs a holiday but I love his family dearly and, for me personally, it doesn’t sit well with me that she should be allowed to go gallivanting around on the beach and in restaurants when his Mum and Dad are practically housebound simply because they happen to live in a poor country. Their vaccine rollout has been laughable and it makes you realise how privileged we are to be in the UK.

I know we “can’t live like this forever” as everyone keeps saying but I feel like we should at least let other countries catch up and vaccinate their vulnerable and elderly before we go on holiday.

edited to add: I’m not trying to shame anyone who wants a holiday, my sister and her husband have booked to go to Greece in September , but having friends and family in a touristy country makes me look at things differently I guess.

I don’t argue that it’s complex, and tourism does bring in much needed cash, but equally a lot of these places don’t have widespread vaccine rollouts yet

Thank you for this! It’s such a complex issue, many of the countries with low vaccine rollouts are also the places who depend on tourism and it’s hard to weigh up the needs of the country and the economy over human lives.

I really can’t stress to people how lucky we’ve been in the UK. My grandparents are only 10 years older than my in-laws but they’ve been fully vaccinated since March. We’re in our 30’s and fully vaccinated. Even my 18 year old cousin had her first last week. Whilst my father in law is almost 70 and hasn’t got a clue when it will be his turn.

 

[ladyladythreetimes]

The meteorologist has weighed in…

 

[Lorelei]

What made Sarah Everard’s case particularly shocking is that she was duped by a police officer who arrested and handcuffed her, then she went willingly into his car because she was complying as youre meant to when the police arrest you. Even if she’d rang the police to check he was actually a police officer they would’ve told her yes he was and she likely still would’ve gone with him. You can be an off duty cop and still arrest people after all. She probably thought she was safe and they’d get it ironed out. But then there would’ve been a horrible moment when she realised something wasn’t right and she wasn’t going to the station as she’d been lead to believe. I think that is real, visceral horror movie type scenario. Her family’s statements said they are haunted by thinking about what she went through in her last moments. I don’t think it’s surprising that many people are upset by thinking about it.

It’s not that people don’t know the realities of how POC are treated by the police, there are ample stories over decades which show that. But SE’s case is scary and upsetting regardless. If you’ve been affected or upset I don’t think they necessarily means you’re unaware of police brutality in other areas, you’re just reacting to something terrible. And I think a lot of women from all walks of life relate to that fear. Many of us have felt vulnerable walking by ourselves at night and I’m sure all of us have a story where they were followed by a creep or harassed by a man on the street. I think Steph has missed the mark here.

‘Whataboutery’ is essentially gaslighting. Being shocked by the horror of what happened to Sarah is in no way diminishing the horror of what people of colour have endured at the hands of police. To use a woman’s violent death to centre your own grievances is quite frankly, beneath contempt.
I have long suspected that Stephanie suffers from a personality disorder, severe narcissism and a shocking lack of empathy but this rant she’s gone on has proved it. She needs serious help and I’m appalled that any brand would work with someone so toxic.