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Did anyone see her post yesterday about her interactions and the “ducked up stuff” that happened to her? One situation did sound concerning like a guy filming her whilst she was in the sea but the rest just seemed like overexcited fans. She called them “weirdos” which I think was a bit harsh and disrespectful. I get that some people cross boundaries, but most of it didn’t seem sinister.

She seems offended that some locals have mentioned meeting up for a coffee and she claiming its weird, when it is probably just people wanting to make friends. Fair enough if you don’t feel comfortable meeting people you don’t know, but I think it’s rude to call people weird for just wanting to connect, and it’s coming across really arrogant.

Honestly, I think she has quite the ego I’m going off her more and more!
 
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I thought the same. Also she contradicts herself. She says she won’t meet people online but is or was on dating sites. What’s the difference? She goes on her sugar free upf but has biscuits and take aways. I find her quite odd like is she insecure or has a huge ego I can’t decide.
 
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I’m not sure social media is the place for her - she clearly wants to be an influencer but with that comes people recognising you in the street (obvs not an excuse for people following/stalking her and being creepy).
She is happy to post in her underwear and While it’s not right, it is going to attract unwanted attention, she also doesn’t want any sort of comments unless they are praise - not even constructive criticism…. I think she is absolutely full of herself. I don’t think she even posts much useful ‘camping’ info, just literally what she is eating & her exercises 🫠
 
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I think her ego probably comes from a place of insecurity, to be honest. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having boundaries, and she doesn’t owe anyone anything. But at the same time, you can set those boundaries in a respectful way without insulting the people who support you and contribute to your success.

It also feels like she might dramatise situations or take things the wrong way at times. She comes across as quite highly strung.
 
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Too many posts to reply to, but I completely agree about her ego etc and what/how she comes across….
I understand that she not only delays posting for a couple of days and doesn’t state what campsite etc….HOWEVER…there is a difference between keeping yourself safe, and coming across as a bit of a cow!!!
She is trying to make it in the ‘influencer’ content world, and all about camping etc, however, all I get from it, is that she over packs, sits around the campsite, eating, drinking (tea, coffee) and reading a book….
Surely there are campsites that she can state without the intention of returning to at some point….you can still post about what works, doesn’t work and create that useful content about solo camping (more like glamping) without feeling unsafe…
I’ve never been able to work her out, and the more she replies negatively to a lot of genuine questions, the more she will alienate any followers that she does have…..equally, she organises (?!) the solo camping groups which are over 18’s and female only….you’re not guaranteed to necessarily just get people who are decent though…..!!
 
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Came to see if there was a thread on this woman after seeing her responses to some of the comments on TikTok. She’s so rude!!!
 
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She loves asking for recommendations of places to go and visit but gets fuming when people do the same back, essentially gatekeeping destinations. I get not sharing current locations for safety reasons, and I do understand that some places you might not want spoiled if they go viral but it also seems like she’s potentially got a hidden agenda of monetising it, which could be why she won’t disclose too. She even said people should do their own research but asking her followers for recs isn’t that different, is it? Just the other week, she complained that people had asked where she went in Scotland and seemed annoyed that they wanted an itinerary, even though she herself relies on followers research & recommendations. Now, she’s basically going to profit off other people’s suggestions and research when she does her book.
 
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She loves asking for recommendations of places to go and visit but gets fuming when people do the same back, essentially gatekeeping destinations. I get not sharing current locations for safety reasons, and I do understand that some places you might not want spoiled if they go viral but it also seems like she’s potentially got a hidden agenda of monetising it, which could be why she won’t disclose too. She even said people should do their own research but asking her followers for recs isn’t that different, is it? Just the other week, she complained that people had asked where she went in Scotland and seemed annoyed that they wanted an itinerary, even though she herself relies on followers research & recommendations. Now, she’s basically going to profit off other people’s suggestions and research when she does her book.
Exactly this!!!
I saw someone ask where she went for a dip in the sea and she replied with “I’m not sharing this one” … oh sorry, didn’t realise it was your personal bit of beach!!!
And some of her replies to people suggesting meeting up are vulgar e.g “freaks me the F out and feel like im being watched” .. mate! You plaster your life all over social media!
Starting to wonder what really did go on in that failed relationship she claims was not her fault!!
 
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I know she wants to be an influencer, so it’s funny that she’s shocked when she actually influences people 😂.

I get it must feel strange having people you don’t know acting like they know you, but I’m pretty sure most of them are just fans who feel connected because they follow her socials. Yet she seems to interpret it as being stalked or something creepy, when I bet 99% of it probably isn’t.

She also didn’t like people using the group to arrange meet-ups with each other, which seems harsh. Surely if some people want to go camping at the same spot and meet up, you’d encourage that if you claim to want women to feel safe and create a community. Instead, it seems like the only “community” she allows is one she can profit off with her solo not solo stuff.
 
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The food thing is annoying me now. She’s not cut out sugar if she’s having chocolate with fruit 🥴
 
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Doing my insomniac scroll and my periodic search on here for her and finally found a thread for her! I'm on Tattle, in general I don't like influencers, but this one really annoyed me with how much she changed from someone enjoyable to watch to an absolutely insufferable fool. I think I can pinpoint the exact moment to when she got the free car!

I get why she doesn't post in real time, and I wouldn't either, but surely the point of what she's doing, and the free stays she gets, is to at least do reviews and recommendations. You can't gate keep everything. She's so rude and entitled.

Even the dog winds me up now tbh, just get him groomed FFS.
 
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Doing my insomniac scroll and my periodic search on here for her and finally found a thread for her! I'm on Tattle, in general I don't like influencers, but this one really annoyed me with how much she changed from someone enjoyable to watch to an absolutely insufferable fool. I think I can pinpoint the exact moment to when she got the free car!

I get why she doesn't post in real time, and I wouldn't either, but surely the point of what she's doing, and the free stays she gets, is to at least do reviews and recommendations. You can't gate keep everything. She's so rude and entitled.

Even the dog winds me up now tbh, just get him groomed FFS.
She winds me up more and more!!!
Like you and many others on here, it is understandable that she doesn’t post in real time, but to completely slate people that ask her for recommendations or where she has found to be a good stay etc, is frustrating …..so many TikTok’s come up on the fyp, where she herself is asking for recommendations (or as she says recos) and she then expects people to gift her stays or to not ‘gatekeep’ information themselves….
Don’t try to be an influencer, especially about solo camping (more like glamping) if you are going to be so shut off from anyone who doesn’t just compliment how good she looks, and just blow smoke up her very visible wotnot!!
Technically, the longer she has been doing solo camping trips, she will have a longer list of places to recommend…..unless she was someone who only ever stayed at the same campsite and NEVER went anywhere else, then surely you can suggest certain places without the fear of others being around at the same time …..an inflated ego is that she tells herself that everyone is going to specifically seek out the one campsite that she may be staying in ….. there are most likely oddballs on any campsite she just happens to be at anyway, who wouldn’t even know who she is, or have any interest in you to start with!!
 
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TMI but if she could lick herself she would.. never seen a more self absorbed delusional woman!! Thinks she's an ass like J-Lo
 
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Doing my insomniac scroll and my periodic search on here for her and finally found a thread for her! I'm on Tattle, in general I don't like influencers, but this one really annoyed me with how much she changed from someone enjoyable to watch to an absolutely insufferable fool. I think I can pinpoint the exact moment to when she got the free car!

I get why she doesn't post in real time, and I wouldn't either, but surely the point of what she's doing, and the free stays she gets, is to at least do reviews and recommendations. You can't gate keep everything. She's so rude and entitled.

Even the dog winds me up now tbh, just get him groomed FFS.
Yes I used to enjoy her content too then she did start to get insufferable and I think you're right seemed as she got “the truck” that big car gave her a big ego! 😂
 
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There's a lot to say here... Mainly because I've been waiting for this thread. I think I agree that the trunk changed her energy and I'm still baffled that she landed that brand deal. I would love to know the ins and outs of that contract. But equally it makes her camping content totally unrelatable... Most people have a normal car. Maybe I should make content showing you how to pack up a family of 4 and a dog for a camping trip into my aygo. You're not bleeping around with bunting when you have a little car 🤣

I couldn't bare the moaning about being "shadow banned". I hate that in general it's not a thing, if the content is tit it won't perform well. She built a massive following showing women that she's solo camping and also there was a lot of body positivity in there that fed well into my curated feed that is anti diet culture and toxic messaging around food as it's so triggering for me. I won't be the only one put off when she flipped to talking about sugar and upfs which are complete fads and not really grounded in any reality about how to be healthy. I appreciate she's now got health concerns but the way she's approached this content feels really reminiscent of toxic all or nothing diet fads.

She also gives off serious mean girl energy. She's told everyone she wants to build a community but she wants an audience and nothing more. I appreciate not wanting to send messages giving individual recommendations but she could set up a substack (paid even) where she puts all her recommendations from each trip in.

What do people think about this book? Has she landed a book deal or is she writing and hoping for the best? I would say I'm predicating self published through Amazon but this girl lands on her feet and I would be surprised if she had a bleeping deal with penguin...
 
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There's a lot to say here... Mainly because I've been waiting for this thread. I think I agree that the trunk changed her energy and I'm still baffled that she landed that brand deal. I would love to know the ins and outs of that contract. But equally it makes her camping content totally unrelatable... Most people have a normal car. Maybe I should make content showing you how to pack up a family of 4 and a dog for a camping trip into my aygo. You're not bleeping around with bunting when you have a little car 🤣

I couldn't bare the moaning about being "shadow banned". I hate that in general it's not a thing, if the content is tit it won't perform well. She built a massive following showing women that she's solo camping and also there was a lot of body positivity in there that fed well into my curated feed that is anti diet culture and toxic messaging around food as it's so triggering for me. I won't be the only one put off when she flipped to talking about sugar and upfs which are complete fads and not really grounded in any reality about how to be healthy. I appreciate she's now got health concerns but the way she's approached this content feels really reminiscent of toxic all or nothing diet fads.

She also gives off serious mean girl energy. She's told everyone she wants to build a community but she wants an audience and nothing more. I appreciate not wanting to send messages giving individual recommendations but she could set up a substack (paid even) where she puts all her recommendations from each trip in.

What do people think about this book? Has she landed a book deal or is she writing and hoping for the best? I would say I'm predicating self published through Amazon but this girl lands on her feet and I would be surprised if she had a bleeping deal with penguin...
I know Ive thought the same about that Ford deal, she isnt exactly that outdoorsy so seems a bit of an odd fit for the brand.

I also cant unsee how she clearly hints for stuff to be gifted. Like when she recommends loads of things from brands but doesn't own the product or has never used it. How can you recommend something you don’t own or haven't used… seems like a bit of beg to be gifted stuff to me!!!

I agree her whole lifestyle change is really extreme and unsustainable especially based on how she was eating before. It is not a healthy relationship with food it’s just going from one extreme to the other.

I did think with the shadow ban thing its probably people just unfollowing you because you've got really arrogant, you block half the people, some will be sick of hearing about your “truck”, watching you come over a cup or tea and say shhhhtunnnning a billions time!
 
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I know Ive thought the same about that Ford deal, she isnt exactly that outdoorsy so seems a bit of an odd fit for the brand.

I also cant unsee how she clearly hints for stuff to be gifted. Like when she recommends loads of things from brands but doesn't own the product or has never used it. How can you recommend something you don’t own or haven't used… seems like a bit of beg to be gifted stuff to me!!!

I agree her whole lifestyle change is really extreme and unsustainable especially based on how she was eating before. It is not a healthy relationship with food it’s just going from one extreme to the other.

I did think with the shadow ban thing its probably people just unfollowing you because you've got really arrogant, you block half the people, some will be sick of hearing about your “truck”, watching you come over a cup or tea and say shhhhtunnnning a billions time!

Hahahaha the stunning is so forced. And yea the videos wandering around bleeping Costco or Aldi. Like then videos are good if they're followed up with review videos otherwise don't bother you're telling me nothing about the product!

She doesn't seem to do any actual work for the truck. Are they just loaning out rangers to people willing to drive it on their Instagram. She never even tells us that much about it practically.
 
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