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She sounds pretty bloody cheeky not making any arrangements and then the week before expecting you to be there. Did she do it on purpose?
I try to set expectations a long time in advance to not piss anyone off. I dont see anything wrong with wanting to be at your own home, it is spoilt if you spend it rushing around pleasing everyone but yourself. What's so important about seeing them on Christmas day? It's just another day and they can video call thesedays.
I would say you had no plans to and its too late now, but try to calendar something in to see her not because she deserves it but to keep the peace.
I try to set expectations a long time in advance to not piss anyone off. I dont see anything wrong with wanting to be at your own home, it is spoilt if you spend it rushing around pleasing everyone but yourself. What's so important about seeing them on Christmas day? It's just another day and they can video call thesedays.
I would say you had no plans to and its too late now, but try to calendar something in to see her not because she deserves it but to keep the peace.