I'm screwed.This little gem of an account is one of Loaf’s latest follows.
I have no idea why it would resonate with her, given that she’s so anti-materialism.
Gonna tell my boyfriend he needs to reimburse me for my new car tyres, if he wants us to continue.
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It’s hard to explain but I feel like with the way Loafie writes, all deep and dramatic, that she’s playing a character? That she drafts up these posts in her mind and formulates gripping words to use, and then edits before she posts? But you can tell it’s not heartfelt because there’s something… missing? Like she’s trying to be deep and dark, but it’s just a little….shallow? Maybe because she’s not feeling what she’s saying? IDK. It’s so hard to explain. I’ve tried Googling if there’s a word for someone who pretends like they are going through something, but they’re just creative writing? Returned no results because I can’t explain it succinctly
I just don’t understand that video! I have plenty of photos of my crying when my husbands asked how I’m doing I send him a crying selfie but to set your phone up and video what should be deeply private time to grieve is bizarre!
Yes to set yourself up on camera to film yourself grieving your 'stillborn' baby... like you were videoing a cooking or exercise reel....ugh
If she did have a MT, which mostly likely the case is it normal to have a head stone and grave? I thought if you had still birth/miss carriage it would be the normal, but do people actually do this for a is just choosing terminate just because you don't want the baby.. I'm genuinely curious.
In the UK - when I had my ectopic pregnancy last year I was given these options:
1. The hospital disposes of it
2. I arrange with a funeral parlour to dispose of it (and hold a funeral if you want)
Appreciate that this is a lot younger foetus but I could of had a funeral and headstone in the baby cemetery for my 10 week foetus
You and your husbands conversations sound very similiar to mine!
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Yes I've experienced the same in the UK. I heard before that there is a company who provide resources free of charge in America in some areas. Not sure about other places.
You’ve explained exactly what narcissists do. They don’t feel most real emotions like “normal” people do. So they observe other people and then try and act the emotions that they think are appropriate in any given situation. It just doesn’t hit the mark with Sophie, because she’s a terrible actor and not that smart. So she misses the brief most times.It’s hard to explain but I feel like with the way Loafie writes, all deep and dramatic, that she’s playing a character? That she drafts up these posts in her mind and formulates gripping words to use, and then edits before she posts? But you can tell it’s not heartfelt because there’s something… missing? Like she’s trying to be deep and dark, but it’s just a little….shallow? Maybe because she’s not feeling what she’s saying? IDK. It’s so hard to explain. I’ve tried Googling if there’s a word for someone who pretends like they are going through something, but they’re just creative writing? Returned no results because I can’t explain it succinctly
She looks like a stunned piglet. Too much filler and intervention on her face.
Depends how many people are aware it was MT… If that really is what happened I doubt she’s telling many people, rather just keep to herself and hope people assume otherwise
And still no words of missing Pixie. Nothing actually about her at all. I'm sure any legalities around what she can say wouldn't extend to actually speaking about her love for her, her sadness.
This whole sad saga has really hit home.
I truly, from the bottom of my heart I hope it wasn’t an MT. I am trying to give her the benefit of the doubt, but every day that idea is slipping further and further into the realms of possibility- that she did have one. The other side note; I keep noticing trinity posting quotes that well, let’s say could be directed to a certain SG. Thoughts?
I truly, from the bottom of my heart I hope it wasn’t an MT. I am trying to give her the benefit of the doubt, but every day that idea is slipping further and further into the realms of possibility- that she did have one. The other side note; I keep noticing trinity posting quotes that well, let’s say could be directed to a certain SG. Thoughts?
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I has assumed she’s posting this sort of stuff as a supportive friend. Perhaps believing Andrew is the bad guy?
but I never understand with their friendship and how much Sophie is on social media, that she never engages with triniti’s posts. Sophie hasn’t liked any of her recent posts, other than the pixie one. Andrew even liked this post, even though she doesn’t follow him?!
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This is a very good point, I hadn't really noticed it with Sophie but I see it now.It’s hard to explain but I feel like with the way Loafie writes, all deep and dramatic, that she’s playing a character? That she drafts up these posts in her mind and formulates gripping words to use, and then edits before she posts? But you can tell it’s not heartfelt because there’s something… missing? Like she’s trying to be deep and dark, but it’s just a little….shallow? Maybe because she’s not feeling what she’s saying? IDK. It’s so hard to explain. I’ve tried Googling if there’s a word for someone who pretends like they are going through something, but they’re just creative writing? Returned no results because I can’t explain it succinctly
My ex husband is a narcissist and whenever he posted on SM about me, or wrote in cards - I always described them as sounding like he was a writing a speech and ticking off the things he needed to include. They never felt personal and it was always very grandiose declarations of an emotion. And not just me, cards to his friends too. They always had all the big words but lacked personalisation.
And by the end of our relationship I noticed that they all sounded the same. Same phrases rewritten and tweaked each time. But like he had a set a words/phrases he knew he had to say and went through a checklist each time.
Sophie has many similar qualities to him so your pick-up of her writing seems spot on to me.
How long until she puts up a Q&A box do you think?
The one where she writes her own questions and or only answers the questions that suit her narrative
Look at this point she may as well , she really doesn’t have anything left to lose ( even though doing a Q&A would be too raw . Her followers are waking up , so so many new members on here now too , she may as well keep living like we are all fools that need to be kind and there is zilch wrong with her ,
Good morning!
Ash needs to include a purple heart on that
Ash needs to include a purple heart on that
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You mean… the word has been in front me this whole time? NARCISSIST is what I was looking for?? That word has been said about a thousand times over the past few threads.
WHOOPS Ummm, pretty sure you didn’t make this reel a few months back Sophie. Seems to relate to what you’re going through now, not the honeymoon phase you were in a few months ago.
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