I’m late, again but wanted to catch up before posting but I NEED to vent about the other night on live with Olivia.
I’ve never really properly watched one of his lives, I’ll stick around for a few minutes then fill the blanks in with comments/screen records from here. I actually sat and watched the other night and I CANT believe he does this fuckery not only publicly but in real time on live!!
Skipping past the fact that she is a 19 year old single mum who does only fans (no hate to her you do you boo) which is absolutely not illegal but totally inappropriate, he is truly one of the most manipulative gaslighters I have ever seen.
What I saw was actually frightening because he doesn’t get angry, what he does is so subtle that had I not lived with a narc for 11 years I honestly wouldn’t have picked up on it. That’s what makes him dangerous. His ability to flip and manipulate so easily.
Hammies this is going to be long so you are free to go but I have to put this into words.
He asked Olivia to go live with him and when she requested, she requested to go live with him side by side, not in his box (where he can control the no comments etc) she wouldn’t give in and didn’t go into the small box so kept asking and asking but he wasn’t having it. Then in pops Tommy, he asks Paul if he wants to battle as he does well in the leaderboard, Paul actually replied normally (shock horror faint babs) and said he doesn’t really do battles. Fair enough, Olivia & Tommy start chatting and flirting and you can literally see Pauls eyes change, he is seething inside but cool as a cucumber and giggly on the outside. He commented on their flirting etc and Olivia or Tommy said something like “my G” or “A1” and Paul said ohhh you nearly had me in the big box then, but I can’t understand the slang so I’m not going in”
This was after her literally constantly asking and gifting, then when she said aw come on Paul, he completely DENIED even saying he was going to go into the big box, then started calling Tommy “Timmy/Tommy” pretending he didn’t remember his name when he had said it quite a bit leading up to this. Once he saw the 2 of them vibing he immediately came off and then came back and said he had permission from his special lady to do it in the big box, BULLSHIT. He needed an excuse to give in and go live in the big box because he was afraid she was going to go live with Tommy!!
Calm cool and collected during all of this and it doesn’t seem like much but it’s the gaslighting!! Even everything she said he twisted and changed and negatively commented on it. He couldn’t even look at her and kept her talking so much with stupid fucking questions so she didn’t even have a chance to read and reply to the comments on her side.
Paul doesn’t need to worry about people having evidence for the police, someone’s big brother, dad, uncle, friend are going to be the ones to get their own justice and they won’t have to look very hard to find him.
Rant over - fucking Jeremy Beadle hands