Snapshoteye #9 Situation ongoing

[Its a Larder!!]

Thanks for sharing your story mate, takes a man to open up about personal issues like that so fair play pal. I’m only 18 and I know lads who act like Paul, age obviously isn’t a complete get out of jail free card when it comes to being a creep but at least they’ve got a lot of time to change, if Paul is acting like this at 41 then I honestly can’t see him changing. I can see him being 70 and calling all the nurses in his home “babz”

Haha I was a nightmare, still am sometimes but I talk about it before it gets to the point of over paranoia etc. i used to complain and moan when a partner would go out then turn my phone off so they would worry and it would ruin their night but I’d have my girl home with me. It was pathetic and awful and just monstrous but something I find so important is remembering that anything that’s associated with your mind, like paranoia or worry etc. isn’t something you can control. I didn’t choose to be so depressed and anxious and paranoid etc. it’s how I was built and my brain designed, but what you can do is achknlowedge it, get help, and tak about it. And all it takes is “babe I’m feeling a bit paranoid and stupid and I know it’s nothing can you just reassure me” “of course I love you silly” because the main thing really is this… you can be selfish and be full of lvoe and believe you’re full of happiness when you’re gaslighting and paranoid and controlling , but you’d be destroying your partner and that’s not love. Paul will never talk to anyone, he is aggressive and condescending and infactuated with companionship. And it gets more and more unhinged. Hence the skin, unkept beard, flaky clothes, irratic mannerism. We are seeing a man spiral, but what’s worse is there a child amongst this.. who will be getting bullied and torn apart and laughed at, and it makes me so upset to think about what happens at that kid at school, and how he feels going to his grandads house to see his dad… to then watch him on a live. I hope when he is 16 he moves away and starts a life somewhere in a college away from Paul. Paul will be alone, and will always be alone. Because he truly is a bleeping wick.

 

[hazza26]

Haha I was a nightmare, still am sometimes but I talk about it before it gets to the point of over paranoia etc. i used to complain and moan when a partner would go out then turn my phone off so they would worry and it would ruin their night but I’d have my girl home with me. It was pathetic and awful and just monstrous but something I find so important is remembering that anything that’s associated with your mind, like paranoia or worry etc. isn’t something you can control. I didn’t choose to be so depressed and anxious and paranoid etc. it’s how I was built and my brain designed, but what you can do is achknlowedge it, get help, and tak about it. And all it takes is “babe I’m feeling a bit paranoid and stupid and I know it’s nothing can you just reassure me” “of course I love you silly” because the main thing really is this… you can be selfish and be full of lvoe and believe you’re full of happiness when you’re gaslighting and paranoid and controlling , but you’d be destroying your partner and that’s not love. Paul will never talk to anyone, he is aggressive and condescending and infactuated with companionship. And it gets more and more unhinged. Hence the skin, unkept beard, flaky clothes, irratic mannerism. We are seeing a man spiral, but what’s worse is there a child amongst this.. who will be getting bullied and torn apart and laughed at, and it makes me so upset to think about what happens at that kid at school, and how he feels going to his grandads house to see his dad… to then watch him on a live. I hope when he is 16 he moves away and starts a life somewhere in a college away from Paul. Paul will be alone, and will always be alone. Because he truly is a bleeping wick.

Mass respect to you sir, it’s never easy admitting and addressing issues that we have or have had in the past, the fact that you have challenged them face on just proves how much of a decent soul you are! You will flourish in your relationship and life because you are able to self reflect and criticise yourself and make progress and improve. Bless you . I agree that ole snapshoteye is an absolute danger, throw in the fact that he is clearly a narcissist too. He will never be able to work on his issues because he truly believes that he has none.. he will never self evaluate as his first point of call is to gaslight and justify his behaviour. Its everyone else’s interpretations of his actions that are wrong, we are all bad minded and misconstruing his intentions . The fact that he refuses to bin social media shows how important it is to him and how it’s his life line to meeting and grooming his potential interests makes me sick. He hates the fact that the comments on here are accurate, that he has been rumbled . Also the bizarre “I don’t trust men”, he doesn’t interact with males clearly because he feels intimidated, threatened and knows that his calculating behaviour would not be tolerated by any other men. Hé can’t manipulate men like he can these dip tit women who suck up his anemic ass.

 

[Hepaticus]

The thing that is scary is that when you watch his lives it’s only women that come in and follow him, and that clearly shows that he only accepts women followers. I’m a 30 yr old guy and tattooed and a head chef and my Instagram is just a normal one and I got denied and blocked, but I know for a fact if I was a woman or a young girl that I would be accepted.

i know this is going to sound awful, but I bleeping despise him. And since day one I have been in every live… calling him out and attacking his predatory ways, and just like Ashley cain and his disgusting excuse of a gf capatilising off the death of their child to become an influencer, I have waited for his downfall…
And I am so glad to see this piece of tit break. He is a predator, a condescending passive aggressive wick, and as someone who when I was very young was very difficult in relationships due to not knowing my mental health issues and attachments with girlfriends etc. i can honestly see how my 16 year old self in this 41 year old man. And I will always regret how I was with ex girlfriends but I didn’t know myself. I was heavily violently abused as a child and neglected extreme amounts without guidance or things like dentists or doctors. But I became a man and now I have a fiancé and I’m strong and open and proud to know that I beat it, I became the man I wanted to be and the amazing strong independent woman laying next to me is safe and happy and loved… but this man will never learn, because he is addicted to social media and women and flattery. When I used to duck up relationships I would threaten the whole “I’ll hurt myself” thing and it was blackmail and gaslighting, and after I was blocked I would be on tinder or some tit and soon as I had attention off a girl and a conversation going I was all of a sudden fine and into that and it’s not difficult to admit because I was a kid and I was ducked mentally, and every single god damn day I wish I was dead and hate waking up… but it’s harder being here and I got stronger and attached myself to reality and learned about myself and how to treat people nevermind women and stopped blaming myself but instead became the person I wanted to be. I know exactly this is what he is doing with the hot chocolate thing… he is dangerous. And at the age of 41, I really worry about if he understands what no means.
And if someone says something he doesn’t like.. I just know he gets on his knees, screams while holding her waist and threatens to kill himself and punches his face.
We all laugh on here and I’ve had a profile on here before and deleted it and recently came back… but I really want to just say to all of you here… this man is not a joke, he is dangerous. And I’m scared for the day we have ti put our phone down because we have read that he has hurt somebody.

Well, no, you don’t “know” anything that he does or doesn’t do. In terms of age, there’s ten years between you so if he wanted therapy and to make changes, of course he could.
Is he dangerous? Yes. Anyone who talks in such a grandiose way about themselves and others usually is

 

[nurseren]

ah too long to go on just read the thread on here to see peoples opinions,there’s so much not right about him and her but that’s another thread haah

him and thenursemum

thanks so much for posting your story, and it’s amazing to see you acknowledge what’s wrong and learn from your mistakes! You’re one of us!

 

[Undertheradar007]

The thing that is scary is that when you watch his lives it’s only women that come in and follow him, and that clearly shows that he only accepts women followers. I’m a 30 yr old guy and tattooed and a head chef and my Instagram is just a normal one and I got denied and blocked, but I know for a fact if I was a woman or a young girl that I would be accepted.

i know this is going to sound awful, but I bleeping despise him. And since day one I have been in every live… calling him out and attacking his predatory ways, and just like Ashley cain and his disgusting excuse of a gf capatilising off the death of their child to become an influencer, I have waited for his downfall…
And I am so glad to see this piece of tit break. He is a predator, a condescending passive aggressive wick, and as someone who when I was very young was very difficult in relationships due to not knowing my mental health issues and attachments with girlfriends etc. i can honestly see how my 16 year old self in this 41 year old man. And I will always regret how I was with ex girlfriends but I didn’t know myself. I was heavily violently abused as a child and neglected extreme amounts without guidance or things like dentists or doctors. But I became a man and now I have a fiancé and I’m strong and open and proud to know that I beat it, I became the man I wanted to be and the amazing strong independent woman laying next to me is safe and happy and loved… but this man will never learn, because he is addicted to social media and women and flattery. When I used to duck up relationships I would threaten the whole “I’ll hurt myself” thing and it was blackmail and gaslighting, and after I was blocked I would be on tinder or some tit and soon as I had attention off a girl and a conversation going I was all of a sudden fine and into that and it’s not difficult to admit because I was a kid and I was ducked mentally, and every single god damn day I wish I was dead and hate waking up… but it’s harder being here and I got stronger and attached myself to reality and learned about myself and how to treat people nevermind women and stopped blaming myself but instead became the person I wanted to be. I know exactly this is what he is doing with the hot chocolate thing… he is dangerous. And at the age of 41, I really worry about if he understands what no means.
And if someone says something he doesn’t like.. I just know he gets on his knees, screams while holding her waist and threatens to kill himself and punches his face.
We all laugh on here and I’ve had a profile on here before and deleted it and recently came back… but I really want to just say to all of you here… this man is not a joke, he is dangerous. And I’m scared for the day we have ti put our phone down because we have read that he has hurt somebody.

Off topic but I screamed when I saw your username

But I will say this never feel like at any point have you been or were like Paul is. Because you're sat here telling us you've been an awful person in the past that you've made mistakes and you've ducked up. Paul shifts blame and will blame everyone but himself. So you couldn't be further from how he is whatever you've done in your past because you're sat here holding your hands up and admitting you needed accountability and learned from your past.

Also can't help but agree with the Ashley Cain statement it's never sat right with me

 

[Its a Larder!!]

Well, no, you don’t “know” anything that he does or doesn’t do. In terms of age, there’s ten years between you so if he wanted therapy and to make changes, of course he could.
Is he dangerous? Yes. Anyone who talks in such a grandiose way about themselves and others usually is

Okayyyy I’m sensing hostility. I don’t know.. but statistically and by personal experience of being a male trying to follow him and being rejected but mass women being accepted and only women in his comments on the Instagram lives, I would make the very precise decision that I “know” how he would act. It’s basic behavioural science, they can’t help it. But I’m sorry if I offended you as you seemed very hostile through the whole message. Peace x

Off topic but I screamed when I saw your username

But I will say this never feel like at any point have you been or were like Paul is. Because you're sat here telling us you've been an awful person in the past that you've made mistakes and you've ducked up. Paul shifts blame and will blame everyone but himself. So you couldn't be further from how he is whatever you've done in your past because you're sat here holding your hands up and admitting you needed accountability and learned from your past.

Also can't help but agree with the Ashley Cain statement it's never sat right with me

Haha yeah tell me about it, still a lost soul. I would say the word “sad” describes me best. But I talk about it. I’m super open about how I am and what’s going on, and by talking openly, I automatically know what I’m saying out loud isn’t right and I fix it! Working hard every day!

him and thenursemum

thanks so much for posting your story, and it’s amazing to see you acknowledge what’s wrong and learn from your mistakes! You’re one of us!

Haha now I just play call of duty or rewatch true blood or some tit and enjoy my personal time. But it took a lot to get like that, you never stop hating yourself, which creates a cycle of how can your partner love you if you hate yourself. You just gotta work at it. And hopefully this guy gets help because my experience of how I was was only after 15 years. His has been manifesting and evolving for 41 years

Mass respect to you sir, it’s never easy admitting and addressing issues that we have or have had in the past, the fact that you have challenged them face on just proves how much of a decent soul you are! You will flourish in your relationship and life because you are able to self reflect and criticise yourself and make progress and improve. Bless you . I agree that ole snapshoteye is an absolute danger, throw in the fact that he is clearly a narcissist too. He will never be able to work on his issues because he truly believes that he has none.. he will never self evaluate as his first point of call is to gaslight and justify his behaviour. Its everyone else’s interpretations of his actions that are wrong, we are all bad minded and misconstruing his intentions . The fact that he refuses to bin social media shows how important it is to him and how it’s his life line to meeting and grooming his potential interests makes me sick. He hates the fact that the comments on here are accurate, that he has been rumbled . Also the bizarre “I don’t trust men”, he doesn’t interact with males clearly because he feels intimidated, threatened and knows that his calculating behaviour would not be tolerated by any other men. Hé can’t manipulate men like he can these dip tit women who suck up his anemic ass.

Ahahha I’m far from decent, I’m a mess. But I’m a tidy mess haha! That’s nice to say tho. Thanks !!

 

[Undertheradar007]

Okayyyy I’m sensing hostility. I don’t know.. but statistically and by personal experience of being a male trying to follow him and being rejected but mass women being accepted and only women in his comments on the Instagram lives, I would make the very precise decision that I “know” how he would act. It’s basic behavioural science, they can’t help it. But I’m sorry if I offended you as you seemed very hostile through the whole message. Peace x


Haha yeah tell me about it, still a lost soul. I would say the word “sad” describes me best. But I talk about it. I’m super open about how I am and what’s going on, and by talking openly, I automatically know what I’m saying out loud isn’t right and I fix it! Working hard every day!


Haha now I just play call of duty or rewatch true blood or some tit and enjoy my personal time. But it took a lot to get like that, you never stop hating yourself, which creates a cycle of how can your partner love you if you hate yourself. You just gotta work at it. And hopefully this guy gets help because my experience of how I was was only after 15 years. His has been manifesting and evolving for 41 years


Ahahha I’m far from decent, I’m a mess. But I’m a tidy mess haha! That’s nice to say tho. Thanks !!

Also I'd pay no mind to @Hepaticus as they've never commented on this thread before and appear to have crawled out of nowhere to attack you which in my opinion is very odd.

But as for being a lost soul you're in the right place almost all of us have our demons and have been through it so you're welcome here even if some people have been hostile for no reason

 

[Deeznutslol]

Also I'd pay no mind to @Hepaticus as they've never commented on this thread before and appear to have crawled out of nowhere to attack you which in my opinion is very odd.

But as for being a lost soul you're in the right place almost all of us have our demons and have been through it so you're welcome here even if some people have been hostile for no reason

Lol the majority of their previous comments are just arguing with other members as well

 

[Undertheradar007]

Lol the majority of their previous comments are just arguing with other members as well

Yeah I'd noticed that it's very very strange that they've reared their weird head now.

 

[anonforever]

The thing that is scary is that when you watch his lives it’s only women that come in and follow him, and that clearly shows that he only accepts women followers. I’m a 30 yr old guy and tattooed and a head chef and my Instagram is just a normal one and I got denied and blocked, but I know for a fact if I was a woman or a young girl that I would be accepted.

i know this is going to sound awful, but I bleeping despise him. And since day one I have been in every live… calling him out and attacking his predatory ways, and just like Ashley cain and his disgusting excuse of a gf capatilising off the death of their child to become an influencer, I have waited for his downfall…
And I am so glad to see this piece of tit break. He is a predator, a condescending passive aggressive wick, and as someone who when I was very young was very difficult in relationships due to not knowing my mental health issues and attachments with girlfriends etc. i can honestly see how my 16 year old self in this 41 year old man. And I will always regret how I was with ex girlfriends but I didn’t know myself. I was heavily violently abused as a child and neglected extreme amounts without guidance or things like dentists or doctors. But I became a man and now I have a fiancé and I’m strong and open and proud to know that I beat it, I became the man I wanted to be and the amazing strong independent woman laying next to me is safe and happy and loved… but this man will never learn, because he is addicted to social media and women and flattery. When I used to duck up relationships I would threaten the whole “I’ll hurt myself” thing and it was blackmail and gaslighting, and after I was blocked I would be on tinder or some tit and soon as I had attention off a girl and a conversation going I was all of a sudden fine and into that and it’s not difficult to admit because I was a kid and I was ducked mentally, and every single god damn day I wish I was dead and hate waking up… but it’s harder being here and I got stronger and attached myself to reality and learned about myself and how to treat people nevermind women and stopped blaming myself but instead became the person I wanted to be. I know exactly this is what he is doing with the hot chocolate thing… he is dangerous. And at the age of 41, I really worry about if he understands what no means.
And if someone says something he doesn’t like.. I just know he gets on his knees, screams while holding her waist and threatens to kill himself and punches his face.
We all laugh on here and I’ve had a profile on here before and deleted it and recently came back… but I really want to just say to all of you here… this man is not a joke, he is dangerous. And I’m scared for the day we have ti put our phone down because we have read that he has hurt somebody.

I appreciate this, I’m not sure the ratio on here of men to women but unfortunately women sometimes need men to back them up for their claims to be taken seriously, which is tit. I appreciate you coming forward and telling your story. He is dangerous and he is the type to emotionally blackmail women into sleeping with him or staying with him. As much as we joke and take the piss out of him this man is vile, I hate him too I know you shouldn’t hate people but I really do. He goes on about how people wouldn’t say a thing to him if they saw him in the street… I would. I genuinely would, he deserves it.

Also the fact he goes to the effort of blocking men too is just so weird to me? He’s so scared of men, pretending he’s a big man on lives cos he’s in complete control.

Paul snapshoteye 41 gets so mad when we talk about his life but the only reason we know so much about it is because he constantly talks about it, DUH

 

[potatoface431]

Must admit in my younger years I was a fool, I was manipulative and did a fair bit of gaslighting too but once I was on the receiving end of it I realised just how disgusting it was. I am much more aware of how I treat people now and consider peoples feelings before I speak. I think a lot of us have such a disliking for Paul because we have encountered people or been with people like him and can recognise how scary they are. My ex made me feel like I was absolutely batshit and needed to be sectioned. He tried convincing me I’d been abused as a child.. who tf does that. He wanted me to be vulnerable. It’s terrifying how far people will go just to have some control over you. He is such a weird little creature and at times I’ve felt bad for him, then I’ve had a word with myself.

 

[Frosty007]

@Hepaticus are you our beloved Turbo Tina?? Big hugs Babs

 

[Its a Larder!!]

Must admit in my younger years I was a fool, I was manipulative and did a fair bit of gaslighting too but once I was on the receiving end of it I realised just how disgusting it was. I am much more aware of how I treat people now and consider peoples feelings before I speak. I think a lot of us have such a disliking for Paul because we have encountered people or been with people like him and can recognise how scary they are. My ex made me feel like I was absolutely batshit and needed to be sectioned. He tried convincing me I’d been abused as a child.. who tf does that. He wanted me to be vulnerable. It’s terrifying how far people will go just to have some control over you. He is such a weird little creature and at times I’ve felt bad for him, then I’ve had a word with myself.

This is what makes me laugh and why I signed up to tattle again, is because we get accused of trolling (even tho a troll is a creature that lives under a bridge with big frizzy green hair) but in fact it’s a community of people that have an opinion and a voice in a place that they can’t be blocked or publicly outed by fans and armies just because they said something they didn’t like. Just because I don’t agree with someone and follow their ideology doesn’t make me a troll. But at least we take responsibility and actually explain why we think someone could be harmful or dangerous. Paul has called me so many names when I used to go on his lives and call him out. He would say “ohhh lonely little boy, look at you, I bet your profile is private because you don’t want everyone to see you follow only girls, are you lonely? Awh sad person, everyone look at this sad person) and the ironic thing is that he was deflecting his personal issues onto anyone else to shadow and hide what he knew was about him. I’ve said for over a year that he is a predator and how he was always on duels with young girls and how it was inappropriate and his anger wild be irate. Made me wonder what would happen if a woman said no to him. And trust me, if I saw him in the street I would give him a shock for the things he said to me behind a screen. He is a visible keyboard warrior, someone who is so safe in their own space that they forget that people are out in the public and will see you and will find you. And one day he will say the wrong thing or talk to the wrong underage girl and they will be consequences. I really don’t like him because I hate myself for how I was when I was 16/17, he has had 41 years to evolve into this predator and so it’s a frightening and obvious realisation that this man really is a predator. I mean come on… the only talking to women, surrounded by women and not any men at all, the pictures, the constant need for putting others down. He’s a manipulative and dangerous man that genuinely needs to be on the radar of police before he hurts someone or makes young women who are impressionable be put into a situation that they shouldn’t be in. He is a groomer

 

[Hepaticus]

Also I'd pay no mind to @Hepaticus as they've never commented on this thread before and appear to have crawled out of nowhere to attack you which in my opinion is very odd.

But as for being a lost soul you're in the right place almost all of us have our demons and have been through it so you're welcome here even if some people have been hostile for no reason

There was no hostility. Pointing out that the poster, or any of us for that matter has no idea what he does or doesn’t do in these situation isn’t hostile…is just an indisputable fact.
And then I went on to agree with the general consensus here, that he is a dangerous individual based upon his grandiosity. In response I’ve been referred to as crawling, weird, hostile and argumentative. Thanks for that.

Lol the majority of their previous comments are just arguing with other members as well

Nope. I, along with others on a thread, have called out unsettling behaviour from another poster. But that’s ok, you don’t know that

 

[ttgossiper]

Lol the majority of their previous comments are just arguing with other members as well

Everyone on the thread has always got on so well. We never argue and have always supported each other! They need to take their hostility else where!

 

[Summernights]

Everyone on the thread has always got on so well. We never argue and have always supported each other! They need to take their hostility else where!

We’re a family and @nurseren is our mamma

 

[Gemgem88]

Okayyyy I’m sensing hostility. I don’t know.. but statistically and by personal experience of being a male trying to follow him and being rejected but mass women being accepted and only women in his comments on the Instagram lives, I would make the very precise decision that I “know” how he would act. It’s basic behavioural science, they can’t help it. But I’m sorry if I offended you as you seemed very hostile through the whole message. Peace x


Haha yeah tell me about it, still a lost soul. I would say the word “sad” describes me best. But I talk about it. I’m super open about how I am and what’s going on, and by talking openly, I automatically know what I’m saying out loud isn’t right and I fix it! Working hard every day!


Haha now I just play call of duty or rewatch true blood or some tit and enjoy my personal time. But it took a lot to get like that, you never stop hating yourself, which creates a cycle of how can your partner love you if you hate yourself. You just gotta work at it. And hopefully this guy gets help because my experience of how I was was only after 15 years. His has been manifesting and evolving for 41 years


Ahahha I’m far from decent, I’m a mess. But I’m a tidy mess haha! That’s nice to say tho. Thanks !!

How amazing I’d true blood though

 

[BigBud]

Anyone know the answer to my “carrot” question before? What does it mean when the wet lettuce used to refer to people on his live as carrots?

 

[Gemgem88]

Anyone know the answer to my “carrot” question before? What does it mean when the wet lettuce used to refer to people on his live as carrots?

I’d like to hope he wasn’t using a different but similar word for vegetable in a derogatory way seen as he worked with people with brain injuries

 

[Smurfgirl]

Anyone know the answer to my “carrot” question before? What does it mean when the wet lettuce used to refer to people on his live as carrots?

It was a word used to signal to the mods if he thought his ex or another person who was, he claims, stalking him had entered the live under different names.