I’ve only posted here a handful of times because the notorious og’s were rather scary to post around but I wanna throw in my 2 cents now it’s a lot friendly here (which I’m loving! So much nicer here already)
I just wanna say how PROUD, genuinely proud I was of Smurfgirl coming out about being a mod despite the backlash they got. Being under the spell of a true narcissist, realising what’s happening to you and being able to leave that environment AND speak out about it? Not a fucking easy thing to do. It can take YEARS to break free. For some people he may just be a weird little guy pathetically dancing on their phone screen, but he is a genuinely terrifying, calculating and dangerous NARCISSIST!!! Being under their control wether you realise it or not is a painful experience, they can make you do, say and completely overlook things that people on the outside would find absolutely disgusting. I don’t in anyway thing they were enabling his behaviour, you cannot come on here and accuse them of doing so when you have no idea of what went on behind the scenes. We all know how disgusting his behaviour is. I’m just so glad they saw through it and got out.
This is coming from a survivor of many narcissistic abusers, and it’s not something I’m willing to argue on, if you’re gonna come for me pls just don’t even bother.
but thank you to the people here now making it easier to comment. Let’s continue this thread, expose him even MORE!! And try and put an end to his shit once and for all, this is a battle he isn’t winning.
thanks for reading if you have hammys, hi x